Don't Blame Me!

By Meghan Rienks

Comedy

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Questionable advice from a fellow work in progress.

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S6E17: My Friend Likes the ...

09.21.2020

This week we’re sharing advice on: Update: Telling sex stories Dating based on astrology Telling someone your real age Liking a man when you’re gay Working at a kind-of strip club Don’t Blame Them: Telling sex stories Follow Us! @meghanrienks ...

Don't Blame Me! episodes:

09.21.2020 S6E17: My Friend Likes the Cheeto Man w/ Melisa D. Monts This week we’re sharing advice on: Update: Telling sex stories Dating based on astrology Telling someone your real age Liking a man when you’re gay Working at a kind-of strip club Don’t Blame Them: Telling sex stories Follow Us! @meghanrienks ...
09.14.2020 S6E16: Boyfriend Has A Burner Instagram w/ Melisa D. Monts This week we’re sharing advice on: Boyfriend texting his ex Friend accusing you of cheating How to get over your ex Dealing with a boyfriend’s girl best friend Don’t Blame Them: Boredom in quarantine If you want to read the ...
09.07.2020 S6E15: He’s In Love with His Coworker w/ Melisa D. Monts This week we’re sharing advice on: Choosing a last name A friend changing Going through a abrupt break up Your stepdad dating after mom’s passing Update: stripper cheating on two men If you want to read the call transcriptions, see ...
08.31.2020 S6E14: He Writes Songs About His Exes w/ Melisa D. Monts This week we’re sharing advice on: Choosing a career Discerning biphobia Wanting to get married Supporting strangers online Update: boyfriend wants a polyamorous relationship Follow Us! @meghanrienks www.instagram.com/meghanrienks @dontblamemepod https://www.instagram.com/dontblamemepod/ @sheisnotmelissa www.instagram.com/sheisnotmelissa Listen to ad-free on Stitcher Premium! For a ...
08.24.2020 S6E13: He Doesn’t Brush His Teeth w/ Melisa D. Monts This week we’re sharing advice on: Making friends Differing hobbies in a relationship Boyfriend won’t wear a condom How to tell if a guy is into you Update: boyfriend calling you fat Follow Us! @meghanrienks www.instagram.com/meghanrienks @dontblamemepod https://www.instagram.com/dontblamemepod/ @sheisnotmelissa www.instagram.com/sheisnotmelissa ...
08.17.2020 S6E12: Wanking with a Cap w/ Melisa D. Monts This week we’re sharing advice on: Getting ghosted by dates Not being ready to move in together Living with your boyfriend’s mom Dating with a pelvic floor condition Don’t Blame Them: talking with teens about sex Follow Us! @meghanrienks www.instagram.com/meghanrienks ...
08.10.2020 S6E11: Boyfriend Won’t Move Out w/ Melisa D. Monts This week we’re sharing advice on: Best friend ghosting you Friend backing out of living together Pandemic dating Dating as a demisexual Update: Boyfriend’s ex threatened to kill me Follow Us! @meghanrienks www.instagram.com/meghanrienks @dontblamemepod https://www.instagram.com/dontblamemepod/ @sheisnotmelissa www.instagram.com/sheisnotmelissa Listen to ad-free ...
08.03.2020 S6E10: We Grew Up In A Cult w/ Melisa D. Monts This week we’re sharing advice on: Telling dirty stories in bed Having trouble with penetrative sex Boyfriend needing to add a third person to the relationship Dealing with an unstable stepmom Don’t Blame Them: boyfriend gaining weight Never Sleep Alone ...
07.27.2020 S6E9: My Boyfriend’s Jealous of My Toy w/ Melisa D. Monts This week we’re sharing advice on: Roommate acting like you’re a couple Feeling inferior to others Fiance getting someone else pregnant How to navigate two guys at once Update: best friend used me to cheat on her husband Follow Us! ...
07.20.2020 S6E8: My Stepbrother Stole My Panties w/ Melisa D. Monts This week we’re sharing advice on: Being asked to be a bridesmaid when you don’t want to Saying no Partner identifying as gender-fluid Boyfriend not initiating activities Don’t Blame Them: supporting friends in a toxic relationship Subscribe to the new ...
07.13.2020 S6E7: No-Mask Wedding w/ Melisa D. Monts This week we’re sharing advice on: Dating someone whose stepbrother is your uncle Friends not actively supporting Black Lives Matter People thinking you’re spoiled Mom wanting to move in Update to a Don’t Blame Them: dating a momma’s boy Subscribe ...
07.06.2020 S6E6: My Bestfriend Used Me to Cheat on Her Husband w/ Melisa D. Monts Trigger Warning: Negative Body Talk - Call 1 This week we’re sharing advice on: Boyfriend gaining weight Telling your boyfriend’s sister you don’t have sex Being concerned your boyfriend is overmedicated Bad tasting cum Don’t Blame Them: boyfriend playing too ...
06.29.2020 S6E5: My Boyfriend’s Ex Threatened to Kill Me w/ Melisa D. Monts This week we’re sharing advice on: Why your conversation went dry Girlfriend smokes and drinks too much Girlfriend getting a culturally-inappropriate tattoo Supporting a friend in a toxic relationship Don’t Blame Them: having a senior boyfriend Never Sleep Alone (Melisa’s ...
06.22.2020 S6E4: My Twin Slept with My Best Friend w/ Melisa D. Monts This week we’re sharing advice on: Boyfriend talking to a teacher Boyfriend checking in on his ex Boyfriend texting escorts Talking dirty to your husband Update: Coma Follow Us! @meghanrienks www.instagram.com/meghanrienks @dontblameme https://www.instagram.com/dontblamemepod/ @sheisnotmelissa www.instagram.com/sheisnotmelissa Listen to ad-free on Stitcher ...
06.15.2020 S6E3: I Look Like Fun w/ Melisa D. Monts This week we’re sharing advice on: Dealing with your racist friend Knowing if a guy is genuine Being stuck in the middle of a fighting family members Wishing your boyfriend would spend more time with you Update from the caller ...
06.08.2020 My Friend’s Girlfriend is Threatened by Me w/ Melisa D. Monts DISCLAIMER: This episode is pre-recorded and has no discussion of current events. To our Black listeners: there is no potentially triggering race content in this episode. To our white & non-Black listeners: here is a resource doc made by twitter ...
06.01.2020 S6E1: My Husband Was in a Coma and Thought He Killed His Girlfriend w/ Melisa D. Monts Welcome to Season 6! This week we’re sharing advice on: Being pressured to marry so you can financially take care of your boyfriend’s family Big man (douche) on campus doesn’t want people to know he’s dating an underclassman Only fantasizing ...
05.25.2020 S5E26: My Boyfriend Is Ashamed That I’m a Sex Worker w/ Melisa D. Monts This week we’re sharing advice on: Not getting along with your quarantine roommate Hiding a green card marriage Telling your partner you don’t want to have kids Boyfriend having pictures of your little sister Don’t Blame Them: Boyfriend calling his ...
05.18.2020 S5E25: Hooking Up with a Youtuber w/ Melisa D. Monts This week we’re sharing advice on: Your partner not wanting kids with you Hating your mom’s fiance Internalized homophobia Too respectable boyfriend Update: Faking Orgasms Join our PRIVATE Facebook Group:www.facebook.com/groups/dbmsecretgroup You must answer all questions correctly to be approved! Follow ...
05.11.2020 S5E24: Dad’s Dating a Girl I Went To High School With w/ Melisa D. Monts This week we’re sharing advice on: Talking too much Dating a celebrity Staying friend with a much older man that befriend you when you were a teen Telling your friend you dated her ex Update from Vicky the Homie Hopper ...
05.04.2020 S5E23: Overly Sensitive Button with Melisa D. Monts This week we’re sharing advice on: Someone flirting with your boyfriend Hating your boyfriend’s brother’s girlfriend Best friends having sex next to you when you were passed out Breaking up with someone Don’t Blame Them - Insight on unattractive therapist ...
04.27.2020 S5E22: I Want To Date My Girlfriend’s Husband, Too with Melisa D. Monts This week we’re sharing advice on: Adjusting your picker A guy joking about wanting to fuck you then taking it back How to ghost Being forced to eat ass Update from the caller whose boyfriend didn’t understand white privilege Join ...
04.20.2020 S5E21: Boyfriend Has His “Sister’s” Nudes with Melisa D. Monts This week we’re sharing advice on: Boyfriend complaining about different decorating tastes Having different styles of communication Partner not saying, “I Love You” Missing your ex that you’re still cuddling with Update: Caller clarifies that her boyfriend isn’t gay Join ...
04.13.2020 S5E20: I Think I’m Pregnant with Melisa D. Monts This week we’re sharing advice on: Living with messy roommates Boyfriend doesn’t believe in pharmaceuticals Wanting to change your almost boyfriend’s physical appearance Being self conscious about your vagina odor And in Don’t Blame Them a caller shares her advice ...
04.06.2020 S5E19: My Therapist Is Unattractive with Melisa D. Monts This week we’re sharing advice on: What to do if your friend is mad your hanging out with a guy she use to talk to Boyfriend doesn’t want to get married Boyfriend can’t stay hard Not having your medical conditions ...
03.30.2020 S5E18: I Don’t Like Saliva with Melisa D. Monts This week we’re sharing advice on: Dealing with friends who don’t think you like them Missed dating opportunities How to date without getting too attached Gag reflexes And in Don’t Blame Them a listener shares her advice on getting messages ...
03.23.2020 S5E17: Guest: Bekah Martinez - My Boyfriend Chose Me Over His Ex Bekah Martinez of, “Chatty Broads,” joins us this week! We’re sharing advice on: If your boyfriend doesn’t know how to communicate without flirting Your friend’s possessive boyfriend Discussing difference of political views with your partner Being falsely accused of asking ...
03.16.2020 S5E16: Guest: Meghan Tonjes - Got an Anonymous Email About my Fiancé Meghan Tonjes is here once more to share advice! This week we’re answer your questions on: Boyfriend doing a favor for his ex Boyfriend liking bikini pictures of other girls How to improve your sex drive Having trouble masturbating And ...
03.09.2020 S5E15: Guest: Joslyn Davis - My Boyfriend’s Son Called Me Mom Joslyn Davis is back once again to share advice! This week we’re answer your questions on: Toxic Friendships Commitment Issues Pyramid Schemes Sharing Your Faith With Your Partner And in Don’t Blame Them a listener shares her advice about parents ...
03.02.2020 S5E14: Guest: His D is Dirty with Melisa D. Monts This week we’re sharing our advice on what to do if: A guy confesses having feelings for you when he’s drunk Having sex with your hot husband feels like a chore Women are DM’ing you that your boyfriend is cheating ...
02.24.2020 S5E13: Guest: Boze - Should I Be with My Ex, His Best Friend, Or His Nephew? Boze joins us this week to share advice! We’re sharing advice on what to do if your boyfriend’s family doesn’t want a relationship with you, how to be friends with someone that dates your leftovers, talking to your boyfriend about ...
02.17.2020 S5E12: He Blew My Back Out with Melisa D. Monts This week we’re sharing our advice on what do if you hear your mom rubbing one out, handling if your sometimes boyfriend won’t post you on social media, if you should take your friend with benefits to a wedding, how ...
02.10.2020 S5E11: Guest: Mats - Boyfriend Wants to Watch Me With Other People My boyfriend Mats is here again for our annual Valentine’s Day episode. We’re sharing our advice on how to save up for a house, if you should get together with your friends with benefits, if your partner should give you ...
02.03.2020 S5E10: Guest: Tiffany Del Real - Hooked Up with Friend’s Crush Tiffany Del Real is here the weeks to share advice! We’re answering your questions on what to do if your friend doesn’t invite you to their wedding, finding out why your boyfriend won’t let you meet his ex that he’s ...
01.27.2020 S5E9: Guest: Gina Darling - Boyfriend Had a Threesome Gina Darling is here this week to share advice! We’re answering your questions on holding on to a penpal, getting past casual relationships, and how to give your boyfriend a handy-j. We have an update from the caller who kept ...
01.20.2020 S5E8: Guest: Geo Antoinette Kwan - College Boyfriend Won’t Move In With Me Geo Antoinette joins us this week to answer your questions. We’re sharing advice on how to overcome religious sex stigma, dodging your boyfriend’s ex who’s super territorial, and finding people to date that don’t have a teacher fetish. We have ...
01.13.2020 S5E7: Ex Sent Me a 1000 Word Update of His Life w/ Melisa D. Monts This week we’re sharing our advice on how to befriend your boyfriend’s friend’s girlfriends, if you should still talk to your ex even though his ex girlfriend is jealous, wondering if you’re in a relationship with a guy if he ...
01.06.2020 S5E6: Guest: Jessi Smiles - Dog Licks Sheets After Sex Jessi Smiles joins us this week to answer your questions on what to do if your co-worker acts coldly around the guy you’re dating, how to handle your boyfriend making fun of your fake tan, easing your boyfriend’s concerns about ...
12.30.2019 S5E5: Guy Didn’t Confirm We Were Exclusive w/ Melisa D. Monts Closing out 2019 with another MnM ep! We’re sharing our advice on what to do if you lied about graduating from college, handling your boyfriend’s friend who is a dick, and what to do if your friends with benefits gets ...
12.23.2019 S5E4: Guest: Aislinn Paul - I Hate My Christmas Gift Welcome to our annual holiday episode with Aislinn Paul. We’re answering your questions on what to do if you’re dating a guy that bores you over the phone, if you’re holding on to a relationship that shouldn’t be, and letting ...
12.16.2019 S5E3: Guest: Leo Howard - Ex Is Bad at Sex My twin Leo Howard is here once again! We’re sharing our advice on what to do when you give more than you get out of a relationship, getting around red flags, crushing on your friend with benefits, and dating after ...
12.09.2019 S5E2: Guest: Kamie Crawford - His Ex’s Clothes Are Still In the Closet Television host Kamie Crawford is here this week to share advice! We’re answering your questions on: if you should have a backup plan, dealing with a roommate that doesn’t talk to you, flirting with a guy to get your boyfriend’s ...
12.02.2019 S5E1: 100th Episode - Live Calls It’s our 100th Episode, baby!!! We’re doing something special for this one. We’re talking to the callers LIVE on air and sharing advice on carrying emotional baggage into a new relationship, what to do if your high school sweetheart won’t ...
11.25.2019 S4E26: Guest: Nikki Limo - The Other One Where We Drop the Advice You’ve All Been DM’ing About (Advanced Edition) Nikki Limo is back and we’re sharing some very sexy advice. This week we’re answering your questions on non-conventional masturbation, faking it for three years, discovering your boyfriend is into furries, and coregasms. In Don’t Blame Them a listener shares ...
11.18.2019 S4E25: M&M November - The Girl That Dudes Want to Sleep With But Not Date We’re answering your questions on what to do if the guy you’re seeing doesn’t want to have sex with you, making time for sex with a busy schedule, telling your friend that her bridesmaid is crazy, and dating a nice ...
11.13.2019 S4E1: The 100th Episode Is Coming! Be in our 100th episode! Email us a short description to [email protected] Listen for all the details! Support the show: https://www.patreon.com/join/dontblameme See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
11.11.2019 S4E24: Guest: Claudia Sulewski (and Finneas) - Dating A Guy In A Band Claudia Sulewski is back and she’s joined by her boyfriend Finneas O’Connell to share advice. This week we’re answering your questions on what to do if your friend thinks you FWB isn’t good for you, how to get back together ...
11.04.2019 S4E23: Guest: Allison Raskin - Pent-Up Sexual Guilt Allison Raskin joins us again to share advice! We’re answering your questions on what to do if a guy jokingly proposes to you, how to handle your boyfriend’s parents that want him to move back home, confronting your boyfriend about ...
10.28.2019 S4E22: Lily Marston - He Showed Me His Sex Tape Lily Marston is here once more! We’re answering your questions on what to do if your co-workers ignore you, anxiety while dating, knowing if a guy is into you, and handling your roommate’s smelly, creepy boyfriend. In Don’t Blame Them ...
10.21.2019 S4E21: Guest: Kati Morton - Too Self-Sufficient? Licensed Therapist Kati Morton is here again to share advice. This week we’re answering your questions on what to do if your therapist keeps canceling on you, how to handle your friends making fun of you for dropping out of ...

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Don't Blame Me! episodes:

S6E17: My Friend Likes the Cheeto Man w/ Melisa D. Monts

S6E16: Boyfriend Has A Burner Instagram w/ Melisa D. Monts

S6E15: He’s In Love with His Coworker w/ Melisa D. Monts

S6E14: He Writes Songs About His Exes w/ Melisa D. Monts

S6E13: He Doesn’t Brush His Teeth w/ Melisa D. Monts

S6E12: Wanking with a Cap w/ Melisa D. Monts

S6E11: Boyfriend Won’t Move Out w/ Melisa D. Monts

S6E10: We Grew Up In A Cult w/ Melisa D. Monts

S6E9: My Boyfriend’s Jealous of My Toy w/ Melisa D. Monts

S6E8: My Stepbrother Stole My Panties w/ Melisa D. Monts

S6E7: No-Mask Wedding w/ Melisa D. Monts

S6E6: My Bestfriend Used Me to Cheat on Her Husband w/ Melisa D. Monts

S6E5: My Boyfriend’s Ex Threatened to Kill Me w/ Melisa D. Monts

S6E4: My Twin Slept with My Best Friend w/ Melisa D. Monts

S6E3: I Look Like Fun w/ Melisa D. Monts

My Friend’s Girlfriend is Threatened by Me w/ Melisa D. Monts

S6E1: My Husband Was in a Coma and Thought He Killed His Girlfriend w/ Melisa D. Monts

S5E26: My Boyfriend Is Ashamed That I’m a Sex Worker w/ Melisa D. Monts

S5E25: Hooking Up with a Youtuber w/ Melisa D. Monts

S5E24: Dad’s Dating a Girl I Went To High School With w/ Melisa D. Monts

S5E23: Overly Sensitive Button with Melisa D. Monts

S5E22: I Want To Date My Girlfriend’s Husband, Too with Melisa D. Monts

S5E21: Boyfriend Has His “Sister’s” Nudes with Melisa D. Monts

S5E20: I Think I’m Pregnant with Melisa D. Monts

S5E19: My Therapist Is Unattractive with Melisa D. Monts

S5E18: I Don’t Like Saliva with Melisa D. Monts

S5E17: Guest: Bekah Martinez - My Boyfriend Chose Me Over His Ex

S5E16: Guest: Meghan Tonjes - Got an Anonymous Email About my Fiancé

S5E15: Guest: Joslyn Davis - My Boyfriend’s Son Called Me Mom

S5E14: Guest: His D is Dirty with Melisa D. Monts

S5E13: Guest: Boze - Should I Be with My Ex, His Best Friend, Or His Nephew?

S5E12: He Blew My Back Out with Melisa D. Monts

S5E11: Guest: Mats - Boyfriend Wants to Watch Me With Other People

S5E10: Guest: Tiffany Del Real - Hooked Up with Friend’s Crush

S5E9: Guest: Gina Darling - Boyfriend Had a Threesome

S5E8: Guest: Geo Antoinette Kwan - College Boyfriend Won’t Move In With Me

S5E7: Ex Sent Me a 1000 Word Update of His Life w/ Melisa D. Monts

S5E6: Guest: Jessi Smiles - Dog Licks Sheets After Sex

S5E5: Guy Didn’t Confirm We Were Exclusive w/ Melisa D. Monts

S5E4: Guest: Aislinn Paul - I Hate My Christmas Gift

S5E3: Guest: Leo Howard - Ex Is Bad at Sex

S5E2: Guest: Kamie Crawford - His Ex’s Clothes Are Still In the Closet

S5E1: 100th Episode - Live Calls

S4E26: Guest: Nikki Limo - The Other One Where We Drop the Advice You’ve All Been DM’ing About (Advanced Edition)

S4E25: M&M November - The Girl That Dudes Want to Sleep With But Not Date

S4E1: The 100th Episode Is Coming!

S4E24: Guest: Claudia Sulewski (and Finneas) - Dating A Guy In A Band

S4E23: Guest: Allison Raskin - Pent-Up Sexual Guilt

S4E22: Lily Marston - He Showed Me His Sex Tape

S4E21: Guest: Kati Morton - Too Self-Sufficient?

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