Don't Blame Me!

By Meghan Rienks

Comedy

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Questionable advice from a fellow work in progress.

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S7E8: FOMO in a Relationshi...

01.18.2021

This week we’re sharing advice on: Moving in with your new boyfriend Dad getting swindled and divorce options Update: Mom thinks I’m in love with my brother in-law Call Transcriptions Follow Us! @meghanrienks www.instagram.com/meghanrienks https://twitter.com/meghanrienks @sheisnotmelissa www.instagram.com/sheisnotmelissa https://twitter.com/sheisnotmelissa @dontblamemepod https://www.instagram.com/dontblamemepod/ ...

Don't Blame Me! episodes:

01.18.2021 S7E8: FOMO in a Relationship w/ Melisa D. Monts This week we’re sharing advice on: Moving in with your new boyfriend Dad getting swindled and divorce options Update: Mom thinks I’m in love with my brother in-law Call Transcriptions Follow Us! @meghanrienks www.instagram.com/meghanrienks https://twitter.com/meghanrienks @sheisnotmelissa www.instagram.com/sheisnotmelissa https://twitter.com/sheisnotmelissa @dontblamemepod https://www.instagram.com/dontblamemepod/ ...
01.11.2021 S7E7: Closure w/ Melisa D. Monts This week we’re sharing advice on: Boyfriend lying Exclusive “friends” Update: I’m jealous Call Transcriptions Follow Us! @meghanrienks www.instagram.com/meghanrienks https://twitter.com/meghanrienks @sheisnotmelissa www.instagram.com/sheisnotmelissa https://twitter.com/sheisnotmelissa @dontblamemepod https://www.instagram.com/dontblamemepod/ Listen to ad-free on Stitcher Premium! For a free month of Stitcher Premium, go to ...
01.04.2021 S7E6: Boyfriend Can’t Get It Up w/ Melisa D. Monts This week we’re sharing advice on: Update: coworker being weird Overbearing family Going to college with a high school friend Reaching out to an old friend Don’t Blame Them: waiting until marriage Call Transcriptions Follow Us! @meghanrienks www.instagram.com/meghanrienks https://twitter.com/meghanrienks @sheisnotmelissa ...
12.28.2020 S7E5: My Boyfriend Has A Sugar Mama w/ Melisa D. Monts This week we’re sharing advice on: Update: he’s into farting Boyfriend’s friend looks like you How to break up with someone who depends on you Hating your boyfriend’s dog Don’t Blame Them: cult-deprogramming Call Transcriptions Follow Us! @meghanrienks www.instagram.com/meghanrienks https://twitter.com/meghanrienks ...
12.21.2020 S7E4: Festive Family Fights w/ Melisa D. Monts This week we’re sharing advice on: Update: Her car is in his driveway Having a celebrity crush Answering DMs from enemies Mysterious phone call Don’t Blame Them: liberal younger sister Call Transcriptions Follow Us! @meghanrienks www.instagram.com/meghanrienks https://twitter.com/meghanrienks @sheisnotmelissa www.instagram.com/sheisnotmelissa https://twitter.com/sheisnotmelissa ...
12.14.2020 S7E3: Snooping Little Brother w/ Melisa D. Monts This week we’re sharing advice on: Update: Having sex dreams about exes Helping a friend Abstinence until marriage Kicking a friend out of your wedding Don’t Blame Them: staying safe Call Transcriptions Follow Us! @meghanrienks www.instagram.com/meghanrienks https://twitter.com/meghanrienks @sheisnotmelissa www.instagram.com/sheisnotmelissa https://twitter.com/sheisnotmelissa ...
12.07.2020 S7E2: Having Dreams About His Brother w/ Melisa D. Monts This week we’re sharing advice on: Update: Stepdad dating Planning a wedding Mom making you uncomfortable Moving on from a divorce Don’t Blame Them: bad dad Call Transcriptions Follow Us! @meghanrienks www.instagram.com/meghanrienks https://twitter.com/meghanrienks @sheisnotmelissa www.instagram.com/sheisnotmelissa https://twitter.com/sheisnotmelissa @dontblamemepod https://www.instagram.com/dontblamemepod/ Listen to ...
11.30.2020 S7E1: I’m Jealous w/ Melisa D. Monts This week we’re sharing advice on: Update: Bridesmaid for a coworker Friend keeping secrets Moving on from a toxic roommate To break up or not break up Don’t Blame Them: babysitting for free Call Transcriptions Follow Us! @meghanrienks www.instagram.com/meghanrienks https://twitter.com/meghanrienks ...
11.23.2020 S6E26: Home for the Holidays? w/ Melisa D. Monts This week we’re sharing advice on: Update: Making friends in college A friend confessing feelings Gossiping boss Dating Don’t Blame Them: renting from a friend Call Transcriptions Follow Us! @meghanrienks www.instagram.com/meghanrienks https://twitter.com/meghanrienks @sheisnotmelissa www.instagram.com/sheisnotmelissa https://twitter.com/sheisnotmelissa @dontblamemepod https://www.instagram.com/dontblamemepod/ Listen to ad-free ...
11.16.2020 S6E25: Breaking Up with a Racist Friend w/ Melisa D. Monts This week we’re sharing advice on: Update: Into bad boys Issue with a bad dad An ex reaching out Endangering others’ health Don’t Blame Them: ex having a baby Call Transcriptions Follow Us! @meghanrienks www.instagram.com/meghanrienks https://twitter.com/meghanrienks @sheisnotmelissa www.instagram.com/sheisnotmelissa https://twitter.com/sheisnotmelissa @dontblamemepod ...
11.09.2020 S6E24: He’s Into Farting w/ Melisa D. Monts This week we’re sharing advice on: Update: Long-lost brother Fighting with friends Saying things you don’t mean Boyfriend using a dating site Don’t Blame Them: medicine and sex Call Transcriptions Follow Us! @meghanrienks www.instagram.com/meghanrienks https://twitter.com/meghanrienks @sheisnotmelissa www.instagram.com/sheisnotmelissa https://twitter.com/sheisnotmelissa @dontblamemepod https://www.instagram.com/dontblamemepod/ ...
11.02.2020 S6E23: He Cheated with a Witch w/ Melisa D. Monts This week we’re sharing advice on: Work woes Choosing between two guys Choosing a therapist Update: Boyfriend cheating in many ways Call Transcriptions Follow Us! @meghanrienks www.instagram.com/meghanrienks https://twitter.com/meghanrienks @sheisnotmelissa www.instagram.com/sheisnotmelissa https://twitter.com/sheisnotmelissa @dontblamemepod https://www.instagram.com/dontblamemepod/ Listen to ad-free on Stitcher Premium! For ...
10.26.2020 S6E22: He Works with a Porn Star w/ Melisa D. Monts This week we’re sharing advice on: Update: I want to date my friend’s husband Telling his girlfriend Wanting to date a friend in a relationship Wanting to get paid for work you do Don’t Blame Them: we grew up in ...
10.19.2020 S6E21: Partying in a Pandemic w/ Melisa D. Monts This week we’re sharing advice on: Update: Boyfriend’s ex won’t go away Living with a friend Helping a friend with body image Reaching out to a sister Don’t Blame Them: desperate to get engaged Call Transcriptions Follow Us! @meghanrienks www.instagram.com/meghanrienks ...
10.12.2020 S6E20: Thank You For What? w/ Melisa D. Monts This week we’re sharing advice on: Update: overly sensitive button Annoying roommates Ex-boyfriend having a baby with his ex Being taken seriously at the doctor Don’t Blame Them: writing songs about exes Call Transcriptions Follow Us! @meghanrienks www.instagram.com/meghanrienks https://twitter.com/meghanrienks @sheisnotmelissa ...
10.05.2020 S6E19: Long-Lost Brother w/ Melisa D. Monts This week we’re sharing advice on: Update: stepbrother stealing panties Friend getting engaged Getting over a guy Not being supported by a friend Don’t Blame Them: friend sharing biphobic posts Call Transcriptions Follow Us! @meghanrienks www.instagram.com/meghanrienks @sheisnotmelissa www.instagram.com/sheisnotmelissa @dontblamemepod https://www.instagram.com/dontblamemepod/ ...
09.28.2020 S6E18: He Wants Me to Take a Polygraph w/ Melisa D. Monts This week we’re sharing advice on: Update: Unstable stepmom trying to poison fiance’s dad Boyfriend meeting with other girls on his days off Long-distance boyfriend delaying coming home Dating a friend’s ex Don’t Blame Them: choosing a career Change the ...
09.21.2020 S6E17: My Friend Likes the Cheeto Man w/ Melisa D. Monts This week we’re sharing advice on: Update: Telling sex stories Dating based on astrology Telling someone your real age Liking a man when you’re gay Working at a kind-of strip club Don’t Blame Them: Telling sex stories Follow Us! @meghanrienks ...
09.14.2020 S6E16: Boyfriend Has A Burner Instagram w/ Melisa D. Monts This week we’re sharing advice on: Boyfriend texting his ex Friend accusing you of cheating How to get over your ex Dealing with a boyfriend’s girl best friend Don’t Blame Them: Boredom in quarantine If you want to read the ...
09.07.2020 S6E15: He’s In Love with His Coworker w/ Melisa D. Monts This week we’re sharing advice on: Choosing a last name A friend changing Going through a abrupt break up Your stepdad dating after mom’s passing Update: stripper cheating on two men If you want to read the call transcriptions, see ...
08.31.2020 S6E14: He Writes Songs About His Exes w/ Melisa D. Monts This week we’re sharing advice on: Choosing a career Discerning biphobia Wanting to get married Supporting strangers online Update: boyfriend wants a polyamorous relationship Follow Us! @meghanrienks www.instagram.com/meghanrienks @dontblamemepod https://www.instagram.com/dontblamemepod/ @sheisnotmelissa www.instagram.com/sheisnotmelissa Listen to ad-free on Stitcher Premium! For a ...
08.24.2020 S6E13: He Doesn’t Brush His Teeth w/ Melisa D. Monts This week we’re sharing advice on: Making friends Differing hobbies in a relationship Boyfriend won’t wear a condom How to tell if a guy is into you Update: boyfriend calling you fat Follow Us! @meghanrienks www.instagram.com/meghanrienks @dontblamemepod https://www.instagram.com/dontblamemepod/ @sheisnotmelissa www.instagram.com/sheisnotmelissa ...
08.17.2020 S6E12: Wanking with a Cap w/ Melisa D. Monts This week we’re sharing advice on: Getting ghosted by dates Not being ready to move in together Living with your boyfriend’s mom Dating with a pelvic floor condition Don’t Blame Them: talking with teens about sex Follow Us! @meghanrienks www.instagram.com/meghanrienks ...
08.10.2020 S6E11: Boyfriend Won’t Move Out w/ Melisa D. Monts This week we’re sharing advice on: Best friend ghosting you Friend backing out of living together Pandemic dating Dating as a demisexual Update: Boyfriend’s ex threatened to kill me Follow Us! @meghanrienks www.instagram.com/meghanrienks @dontblamemepod https://www.instagram.com/dontblamemepod/ @sheisnotmelissa www.instagram.com/sheisnotmelissa Listen to ad-free ...
08.03.2020 S6E10: We Grew Up In A Cult w/ Melisa D. Monts This week we’re sharing advice on: Telling dirty stories in bed Having trouble with penetrative sex Boyfriend needing to add a third person to the relationship Dealing with an unstable stepmom Don’t Blame Them: boyfriend gaining weight Never Sleep Alone ...
07.27.2020 S6E9: My Boyfriend’s Jealous of My Toy w/ Melisa D. Monts This week we’re sharing advice on: Roommate acting like you’re a couple Feeling inferior to others Fiance getting someone else pregnant How to navigate two guys at once Update: best friend used me to cheat on her husband Follow Us! ...
07.20.2020 S6E8: My Stepbrother Stole My Panties w/ Melisa D. Monts This week we’re sharing advice on: Being asked to be a bridesmaid when you don’t want to Saying no Partner identifying as gender-fluid Boyfriend not initiating activities Don’t Blame Them: supporting friends in a toxic relationship Subscribe to the new ...
07.13.2020 S6E7: No-Mask Wedding w/ Melisa D. Monts This week we’re sharing advice on: Dating someone whose stepbrother is your uncle Friends not actively supporting Black Lives Matter People thinking you’re spoiled Mom wanting to move in Update to a Don’t Blame Them: dating a momma’s boy Subscribe ...
07.06.2020 S6E6: My Bestfriend Used Me to Cheat on Her Husband w/ Melisa D. Monts Trigger Warning: Negative Body Talk - Call 1 This week we’re sharing advice on: Boyfriend gaining weight Telling your boyfriend’s sister you don’t have sex Being concerned your boyfriend is overmedicated Bad tasting cum Don’t Blame Them: boyfriend playing too ...
06.29.2020 S6E5: My Boyfriend’s Ex Threatened to Kill Me w/ Melisa D. Monts This week we’re sharing advice on: Why your conversation went dry Girlfriend smokes and drinks too much Girlfriend getting a culturally-inappropriate tattoo Supporting a friend in a toxic relationship Don’t Blame Them: having a senior boyfriend Never Sleep Alone (Melisa’s ...
06.22.2020 S6E4: My Twin Slept with My Best Friend w/ Melisa D. Monts This week we’re sharing advice on: Boyfriend talking to a teacher Boyfriend checking in on his ex Boyfriend texting escorts Talking dirty to your husband Update: Coma Follow Us! @meghanrienks www.instagram.com/meghanrienks @dontblameme https://www.instagram.com/dontblamemepod/ @sheisnotmelissa www.instagram.com/sheisnotmelissa Listen to ad-free on Stitcher ...
06.15.2020 S6E3: I Look Like Fun w/ Melisa D. Monts This week we’re sharing advice on: Dealing with your racist friend Knowing if a guy is genuine Being stuck in the middle of a fighting family members Wishing your boyfriend would spend more time with you Update from the caller ...
06.08.2020 S6E2: My Friend’s Girlfriend is Threatened by Me w/ Melisa D. Monts DISCLAIMER: This episode is pre-recorded and has no discussion of current events. To our Black listeners: there is no potentially triggering race content in this episode. To our white & non-Black listeners: here is a resource doc made by twitter ...
06.01.2020 S6E1: My Husband Was in a Coma and Thought He Killed His Girlfriend w/ Melisa D. Monts Welcome to Season 6! This week we’re sharing advice on: Being pressured to marry so you can financially take care of your boyfriend’s family Big man (douche) on campus doesn’t want people to know he’s dating an underclassman Only fantasizing ...
05.25.2020 S5E26: My Boyfriend Is Ashamed That I’m a Sex Worker w/ Melisa D. Monts This week we’re sharing advice on: Not getting along with your quarantine roommate Hiding a green card marriage Telling your partner you don’t want to have kids Boyfriend having pictures of your little sister Don’t Blame Them: Boyfriend calling his ...
05.18.2020 S5E25: Hooking Up with a Youtuber w/ Melisa D. Monts This week we’re sharing advice on: Your partner not wanting kids with you Hating your mom’s fiance Internalized homophobia Too respectable boyfriend Update: Faking Orgasms Join our PRIVATE Facebook Group:www.facebook.com/groups/dbmsecretgroup You must answer all questions correctly to be approved! Follow ...
05.11.2020 S5E24: Dad’s Dating a Girl I Went To High School With w/ Melisa D. Monts This week we’re sharing advice on: Talking too much Dating a celebrity Staying friend with a much older man that befriend you when you were a teen Telling your friend you dated her ex Update from Vicky the Homie Hopper ...
05.04.2020 S5E23: Overly Sensitive Button with Melisa D. Monts This week we’re sharing advice on: Someone flirting with your boyfriend Hating your boyfriend’s brother’s girlfriend Best friends having sex next to you when you were passed out Breaking up with someone Don’t Blame Them - Insight on unattractive therapist ...
04.27.2020 S5E22: I Want To Date My Girlfriend’s Husband, Too with Melisa D. Monts This week we’re sharing advice on: Adjusting your picker A guy joking about wanting to fuck you then taking it back How to ghost Being forced to eat ass Update from the caller whose boyfriend didn’t understand white privilege Join ...
04.20.2020 S5E21: Boyfriend Has His “Sister’s” Nudes with Melisa D. Monts This week we’re sharing advice on: Boyfriend complaining about different decorating tastes Having different styles of communication Partner not saying, “I Love You” Missing your ex that you’re still cuddling with Update: Caller clarifies that her boyfriend isn’t gay Join ...
04.13.2020 S5E20: I Think I’m Pregnant with Melisa D. Monts This week we’re sharing advice on: Living with messy roommates Boyfriend doesn’t believe in pharmaceuticals Wanting to change your almost boyfriend’s physical appearance Being self conscious about your vagina odor And in Don’t Blame Them a caller shares her advice ...
04.06.2020 S5E19: My Therapist Is Unattractive with Melisa D. Monts This week we’re sharing advice on: What to do if your friend is mad your hanging out with a guy she use to talk to Boyfriend doesn’t want to get married Boyfriend can’t stay hard Not having your medical conditions ...
03.30.2020 S5E18: I Don’t Like Saliva with Melisa D. Monts This week we’re sharing advice on: Dealing with friends who don’t think you like them Missed dating opportunities How to date without getting too attached Gag reflexes And in Don’t Blame Them a listener shares her advice on getting messages ...
03.23.2020 S5E17: Guest: Bekah Martinez - My Boyfriend Chose Me Over His Ex Bekah Martinez of, “Chatty Broads,” joins us this week! We’re sharing advice on: If your boyfriend doesn’t know how to communicate without flirting Your friend’s possessive boyfriend Discussing difference of political views with your partner Being falsely accused of asking ...
03.16.2020 S5E16: Guest: Meghan Tonjes - Got an Anonymous Email About my Fiancé Meghan Tonjes is here once more to share advice! This week we’re answer your questions on: Boyfriend doing a favor for his ex Boyfriend liking bikini pictures of other girls How to improve your sex drive Having trouble masturbating And ...
03.09.2020 S5E15: Guest: Joslyn Davis - My Boyfriend’s Son Called Me Mom Joslyn Davis is back once again to share advice! This week we’re answer your questions on: Toxic Friendships Commitment Issues Pyramid Schemes Sharing Your Faith With Your Partner And in Don’t Blame Them a listener shares her advice about parents ...
03.02.2020 S5E14: Guest: His D is Dirty with Melisa D. Monts This week we’re sharing our advice on what to do if: A guy confesses having feelings for you when he’s drunk Having sex with your hot husband feels like a chore Women are DM’ing you that your boyfriend is cheating ...
02.24.2020 S5E13: Guest: Boze - Should I Be with My Ex, His Best Friend, Or His Nephew? Boze joins us this week to share advice! We’re sharing advice on what to do if your boyfriend’s family doesn’t want a relationship with you, how to be friends with someone that dates your leftovers, talking to your boyfriend about ...
02.17.2020 S5E12: He Blew My Back Out with Melisa D. Monts This week we’re sharing our advice on what do if you hear your mom rubbing one out, handling if your sometimes boyfriend won’t post you on social media, if you should take your friend with benefits to a wedding, how ...
02.10.2020 S5E11: Guest: Mats - Boyfriend Wants to Watch Me With Other People My boyfriend Mats is here again for our annual Valentine’s Day episode. We’re sharing our advice on how to save up for a house, if you should get together with your friends with benefits, if your partner should give you ...

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Don't Blame Me! episodes:

S7E8: FOMO in a Relationship w/ Melisa D. Monts

S7E7: Closure w/ Melisa D. Monts

S7E6: Boyfriend Can’t Get It Up w/ Melisa D. Monts

S7E5: My Boyfriend Has A Sugar Mama w/ Melisa D. Monts

S7E4: Festive Family Fights w/ Melisa D. Monts

S7E3: Snooping Little Brother w/ Melisa D. Monts

S7E2: Having Dreams About His Brother w/ Melisa D. Monts

S7E1: I’m Jealous w/ Melisa D. Monts

S6E26: Home for the Holidays? w/ Melisa D. Monts

S6E25: Breaking Up with a Racist Friend w/ Melisa D. Monts

S6E24: He’s Into Farting w/ Melisa D. Monts

S6E23: He Cheated with a Witch w/ Melisa D. Monts

S6E22: He Works with a Porn Star w/ Melisa D. Monts

S6E21: Partying in a Pandemic w/ Melisa D. Monts

S6E20: Thank You For What? w/ Melisa D. Monts

S6E19: Long-Lost Brother w/ Melisa D. Monts

S6E18: He Wants Me to Take a Polygraph w/ Melisa D. Monts

S6E17: My Friend Likes the Cheeto Man w/ Melisa D. Monts

S6E16: Boyfriend Has A Burner Instagram w/ Melisa D. Monts

S6E15: He’s In Love with His Coworker w/ Melisa D. Monts

S6E14: He Writes Songs About His Exes w/ Melisa D. Monts

S6E13: He Doesn’t Brush His Teeth w/ Melisa D. Monts

S6E12: Wanking with a Cap w/ Melisa D. Monts

S6E11: Boyfriend Won’t Move Out w/ Melisa D. Monts

S6E10: We Grew Up In A Cult w/ Melisa D. Monts

S6E9: My Boyfriend’s Jealous of My Toy w/ Melisa D. Monts

S6E8: My Stepbrother Stole My Panties w/ Melisa D. Monts

S6E7: No-Mask Wedding w/ Melisa D. Monts

S6E6: My Bestfriend Used Me to Cheat on Her Husband w/ Melisa D. Monts

S6E5: My Boyfriend’s Ex Threatened to Kill Me w/ Melisa D. Monts

S6E4: My Twin Slept with My Best Friend w/ Melisa D. Monts

S6E3: I Look Like Fun w/ Melisa D. Monts

S6E2: My Friend’s Girlfriend is Threatened by Me w/ Melisa D. Monts

S6E1: My Husband Was in a Coma and Thought He Killed His Girlfriend w/ Melisa D. Monts

S5E26: My Boyfriend Is Ashamed That I’m a Sex Worker w/ Melisa D. Monts

S5E25: Hooking Up with a Youtuber w/ Melisa D. Monts

S5E24: Dad’s Dating a Girl I Went To High School With w/ Melisa D. Monts

S5E23: Overly Sensitive Button with Melisa D. Monts

S5E22: I Want To Date My Girlfriend’s Husband, Too with Melisa D. Monts

S5E21: Boyfriend Has His “Sister’s” Nudes with Melisa D. Monts

S5E20: I Think I’m Pregnant with Melisa D. Monts

S5E19: My Therapist Is Unattractive with Melisa D. Monts

S5E18: I Don’t Like Saliva with Melisa D. Monts

S5E17: Guest: Bekah Martinez - My Boyfriend Chose Me Over His Ex

S5E16: Guest: Meghan Tonjes - Got an Anonymous Email About my Fiancé

S5E15: Guest: Joslyn Davis - My Boyfriend’s Son Called Me Mom

S5E14: Guest: His D is Dirty with Melisa D. Monts

S5E13: Guest: Boze - Should I Be with My Ex, His Best Friend, Or His Nephew?

S5E12: He Blew My Back Out with Melisa D. Monts

S5E11: Guest: Mats - Boyfriend Wants to Watch Me With Other People

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