What does a welcome home really feel like? with  @MarvynHarrison  https://www.youcanadopt.co.uk/blackadopters

In this special episode, we sit around the dinner table to talk honestly about adoption, family, culture, and belonging. Over food that reminds us of home, we explore what it means to create stability and love for Black and mixed-heritage children who are waiting the longest to be adopted in the UK.

This conversation is part of the You Can Adopt campaign and features lived experiences from adoptive parents within the Black community. We talk about food, identity, family reactions, myths around adoption, and how a home is built through care, consistency, and culture — not perfection.

This is not about having the perfect house.

It’s about creating a home where a child feels seen, protected, and chosen.

If you’ve ever quietly considered adoption, this conversation is an invitation to learn more.

Find out more at:

https://www.youcanadopt.co.uk/blackadopters

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This episode takes you inside 10 Downing Street for a rare, direct conversation on power, policy, and dignity at work.

Marvyn Harrison meets Keir Starmer to unpack the Employment Rights Act 2025 (ERA 2025) — described as the biggest upgrade to workers’ rights in a generation.

We break down what ERA 2025 actually delivers:

Fire-and-rehire restrictions.

The end of exploitative zero-hour contracts.

Day-one sick pay.

Day-one paternity, bereavement, and parental leave.

New protections for pregnant women, new mothers, and families experiencing pregnancy loss.

But this episode goes deeper than legislation. It asks who benefits, who is most exposed, and whether Black and working-class families will finally see real protection — or more policy without teeth.

This is not spin.

This is not press-release politics.

This is a frontline conversation about labour, power, enforcement, and dignity.

Key Themes

• Employment Rights Act 2025 explained

• Kier Starmer on workers’ rights

• ERA 2025 impact on Black families

• Working-class job insecurity

• Zero-hour contracts and fire-and-rehire

• Paternity leave, sick pay, and dignity at work

• Policy vs lived experience

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This is a safeguarding episode, not a comfort episode. Children are not collateral damage for adult frustration. They are not background noise. They are not “tiny adults” who should just get over it. And they are not content. This episode pulls apart the most dangerous lie we repeat: “Kids are resilient.” There’s a difference between building strength and forcing a child to survive adult-made chaos, yelling, hitting, humiliation, neglect, manipulation, and constant instability. It also calls out the wider system: under-resourced schools, stripped youth services, safeguarding treated like paperwork, and a culture that frames children as problems to manage instead of humans to protect.

If you’re raising kids, employing parents, building communities, or shaping policy, this is the line: protect children in advance, not after damage is done.

8 things to consider:

Children are not collateral damage for co-parent conflict

Kids are not background noise to adult lives

“Resilience” vs forced survival: stop confusing the two

Discipline and consistency matter more than money

Why yelling/hitting is adult weakness dressed as parenting

System failure: safeguarding isn’t paperwork, it’s vigilance

Children as content: the moral line is collapsing

The downstream cost: harmed kids become what other kids must navigate

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Most New Year goals fail for the same reason: they’re fantasies, not systems.

In this episode, Marvyn Harrison breaks down why “New Year, New Me” thinking collapses every time — and what actually creates change. This is not about motivation, manifestation, or vague intentions. It’s about identity redesign, constraint awareness, and building daily and weekly systems that survive real life.

The conversation covers why outcomes don’t stick without identity, why willpower is overrated, how to design progress around limited time, energy, and money, and why evidence beats affirmation every time. Along the way, real life interrupts — parenting, noise, humour — reinforcing the point: growth has to work inside chaos, not in spite of it.

This episode is a grounded framework for approaching 2026 without self-deception, self-punishment, or false optimism.

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Anthony Joshua has survived a serious car crash in Nigeria that killed two close friends and long-standing members of his team. Physio Sina Ghami and personal trainer Latif “Latz” Ayodele were pronounced dead at the scene after a collision on the Lagos–Ibadan expressway.

In this emergency news episode, we break down the confirmed facts, timeline, and reactions from the boxing world, including tributes from Chris Eubank Jr and statements from Matchroom Boxing. We also examine the wider context — Joshua’s recent fight with Jake Paul, his Nigerian heritage, and the deadly reputation of the expressway where the crash occurred.

This episode focuses on clarity, respect, and accountability in reporting, amid widespread misinformation and the circulation of graphic footage online.

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This episode is a quiet audit of Christmas, fatherhood, and attention.

After two uninterrupted weeks with his children, Marvyn reflects on what it feels like when family life fully aligns — no school runs, no fragmented schedules, no performance. Just presence. The result wasn’t productivity or achievement. It was peace.

The episode moves through gift-giving without panic, buying throughout the year, shifting from material presents to experiences, and what it means to fund joy without excess. It explores how children thrive when safety is consistent, how traditions are built deliberately, and why Christmas Eve now belongs to the house — not the shops.

There are reflections on idleness, masculinity, hobbies, strength, and the discomfort of having nothing urgent to fix. Golf enters the picture. So does grief, gratitude, and the reality that joy and loss often sit side by side at the end of a year.

This is not advice. It’s a lived reflection on slowing down, protecting what matters, and carrying the right things forward.

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We’ve been trained to treat Christmas like a performance: spend more, buy more, post more, prove more. But the truth is simpler—and harder to defend: Christmas is about family.

In this episode, I’m pulling the focus back to what lasts. The moments your children remember aren’t the receipts—they’re the feeling of the home. The laughter in the kitchen. The safety of being together. The un-rushed hours where nobody’s “doing” anything, but everyone’s okay.

I talk about how easy it is to slip into survival mode at the worst possible time, trying to fund a “perfect Christmas,” carrying the whole season on your back, and turning love into pressure. And I lay out a different standard: protect the atmosphere. Protect the time. Protect the relationships.

There’s also a personal reflection on childhood Christmas memories and what they teach us: the gift might be exciting, but it’s the people, the warmth, and the stories that become the real inheritance.

If you’re a parent feeling the weight of this season, this is your reminder: your kids don’t need a perfect Christmas. They need you. They need peace. They need family. 

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You were told to chase green flags.

You were never taught how some of them hide the biggest red flags of your life.

In this episode, Marvyn Harrison pulls five “perfect” green flags apart and shows the shadow side underneath: limerence, trauma bonds, emotional shutdown, manipulation and cruelty dressed up as “being real”. 

Across romantic relationships, friendships, family and work, Marvyn unpacks:

Intense Chemistry From Day One

• The “we could marry right now” energy that feels like destiny.
• Why you feel deeply connected on almost no information.
• Limerence: the repeat pattern of getting obsessed, acting like it’s real and only understanding it years later.
• How trauma bonds, nervous system chaos and mirroring can feel like soulmate energy while your body is actually in crisis.
• Why neurodivergent people often feel this intensity and believe it’s “how love is supposed to feel.” 

People Who Respectfully Hate Everybody But You

• “They’re just honest, they see through everyone” – the seductive packaging.
• The contempt, gossip and dehumanising that’s actually rehearsing how they’ll later talk about you.
• The difference between feedback, sharing and constant judgement.
• Why “it’s us against the world” often means “you’re next when the honeymoon ends.”

Extreme Independence And Having ‘No Needs’

• “I’m low maintenance, I’m drama free” as a brand.
• Emotional shutdown disguised as maturity.
• The triple problem: they can’t ask, can’t receive and can’t repair.
• How fear of abandonment sits behind “I don’t need anything from anyone.”
• You end up doing all the emotional labour, while they quietly protect a chaotic inner world they don’t want you to see. 

Total Overlap In Values, Opinions And Tastes

• “We’re literally the same person, we never argue” – why that feels like winning.
• People-pleasing and mirroring as manipulation: pre-written caring responses, no behavioural change.
• Why genuine adults have differences, and why tolerating disagreement is actually intimacy.
• The truth about “peaceful” relationships that never argue: someone gave up bringing their full self.

Brutal Honesty With Zero Empathy

• “I just tell it like it is, I keep it 100” as a personality costume.
• Cruelty cosplaying as truth.
• Why timing is a core part of empathy: the film-premiere example where “honesty” is actually violence. 
• How real friends hold their feedback, let the moment pass, then come back with thought, care and context.
• Why brutal honesty is often laziness and emotional illiteracy, not integrity.

Marvyn closes by turning the lens back on you:

• Why you keep choosing intense chemistry, “low maintenance” partners or brutally honest friends.
• Why you might secretly want spontaneity, chaos and “life of the party” energy, then demand they calm down once you’ve got them.
• How to notice the patterns you recreate, instead of taking internet advice “cold” and blowing up relationships that could be repaired with awareness and conversation. 

This is not a call to go home and dump everyone.

It’s a call to see what’s really happening underneath your favourite “green flags” and work out whether you’re genuinely safe, genuinely seen – or just addicted to the chaos you were never taught to name.

This episode includes discussion of:

• Trauma bonds and nervous system dysregulation
• Emotional shutdown and abandonment fears
• Manipulation, people-pleasing and cruelty in relationships

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Did he do it?

In this raw, unplanned monologue, Marvyn Harrison picks up the mic with no notes and processes the new Netflix documentary on Sean “Diddy” Combs in real time. Across almost four decades of alleged abuse, violence, exploitation and terror, he tracks how one man was turned into the “blueprint” for Black male success while victims, communities and even whole events were left in pieces. 

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Drawing on the documentary executive produced by 50 Cent, Marvyn walks through the timeline of allegations and patterns described on screen:

• A deadly basketball event allegedly over-promoted and under-protected
• Early accusations of drugging, rape and recording assaults
• Financial games with labels, advances and putting companies in other people’s names
• Violence and intimidation of business partners
• Artists like Craig Mack allegedly left broke while their music topped charts
• The jealous orbit around Biggie and Tupac and claims of set-ups, beef and murder-for-hire energy
• Long-running allegations of abuse towards women, including Cassie, and a wider pattern of trafficking-style behaviour
• Robbing artists of publishing and blocking them from their own work

But this episode isn’t gossip. It’s a post-mortem on the culture that let it all slide.

Marvyn goes deeper into:

• How older gatekeepers, executives and media kept co-signing him as a hero
• How young Black men were told to worship men who were dead, in jail or alleged abusers
• How his own leadership style as a young promoter was briefly shaped by “Making The Band”-style bullying before he rejected it
• The cost of building success on coercion, fear and manipulation instead of strategy, wisdom and genuine leadership
• Why he wants no part of a fame, wealth and masculinity model that comes bundled with this level of alleged harm

This is not a polished think piece. It’s a man in his 40s, a father, broadcaster and community builder, processing the grief of realising the “idols” sold to Black boys were either monsters or protected by monsters.

If you’ve ever looked up to industry titans only to later find out about the allegations around them, this episode will feel uncomfortably familiar – and necessary.

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Black men are dying of cancer in silence. So we took a room full of dads, sons and survivors and built the most honest conversation they’ve ever had.

This episode was recorded at Macmillan’s Open House, a home built to feel like the houses that raised us: soft light, old portraits, kettle on the stove, carpet holding the memories of every step. Into that house we brought a live conversation on men, fatherhood and grief.

Marvyn Harrison is joined by:

– Ibrahim Kamara, whose dad died of cancer on his birthday while he was locked alone in a Covid hotel

– Paul Campbell, who was denied treatment, diagnosed in the same year as his brother and sister, and watched his father die from prostate cancer

– Host and facilitator Ruben Christian, unpacking identity, masculinity and the cost of being “the strong one”

Inside this episode:

– The Black dad who had to fight his GP just to get tested

– Why three siblings were all diagnosed with cancer in the same year

– How a father hid his diagnosis from ten children and made one son carry the secret alone

– Men explaining what grief actually feels like inside the body

– The quiet ways race, culture and masculinity shape how we ignore symptoms

– What good men actually need from their partners, friends and community

– Why checkups aren’t a verdict, they’re a lifeline and a second chance

The episode closes with “White Smiles”, an original song written about a dream of a father who finally returns smiling, with new teeth and no pain. Listen grounded, eyes closed if you can.

If you love a Black man, live with one, are raising one or are one, this is the episode you send.

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