This week, we’re shining a light on the inspiring stories of two young caregivers, Aaliyah and Samiha, from Canada. At just 14 years old, Aaliyah has been caring for her younger sister with autism her entire life. She shares how she supports her sister's social interactions, helps with schoolwork, and even shares her passion for rock climbing. Aaliyah’'s courage in the face of such responsibilities is inspiring. She found an outlet in the sport, using it as a way to channel her energy and reduce stress from the added responsibilities of caregiving.

Samiha's story is equally powerful. She began caregiving at the age of 11 when her mother was diagnosed with ALS. Now 24, Samiha continues to care for her mother, who is on a ventilator and uses eye-gaze technology to communicate. Samiha describes the challenges of being a "sandwich generation" caregiver, caring for her mother while also supporting her younger sister. She credits the young carers program through Hospice Toronto for providing validation, support, and leadership opportunities that helped guide her through those difficult years.

Both Aaliyah and Samiha emphasize the importance of finding community with other young caregivers who can truly understand their experiences. The young carers program gave them a space to be "normal kids" and build connections with peers facing similar circumstances. Their stories highlight the resilience, compassion and leadership skills that often develop in young caregivers, despite the challenges they face. This episode is a powerful testament to the strength of the human spirit in the face of adversity, and the crucial role that community support plays in their journey.

About Samiha Rahman:

I’m Samiha, a 24-year-old young caregiver from Toronto, Canada. I graduated with a Bachelor of Medical Sciences in 2022 from Western University and am going back there this fall for Medical School. Since graduating, I’ve been working at Hospice Toronto, a non-profit organization that I’ve been a part of for almost 10 years (with their Young Carers Program). I love spending time with my friends and family, walks by the lake, and trying new restaurants. 

About Aaliyah Zarem:

I am a 14-year-old older sister and competitive rock climber. I also love camp and canoe trips.

 

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