Today’s episode is for men, dads, and non default parents who want to feel more connected to their spouse but feel stuck, discouraged, or like nothing they do is ever enough. My goal with this conversation is not to criticize or shame, but to help you actually win in your marriage without burning yourself out or overhauling your entire life.

I’m walking you through one of the biggest areas couples struggle with after kids: the mental load. I explain what it really is, why focusing only on tasks keeps couples disconnected, and how shifting from a helper role to a shared management mindset can completely change the dynamic in your marriage. This is part one of a two part conversation designed to help you feel more confident, more effective, and more appreciated in your relationship.

Tune in to discover:

• What the mental load actually is and why it matters in marriage

• The three parts of the mental load and which one is most draining

• Why doing more tasks does not always lead to less conflict

• The difference between being a helper and being a partner

• Small shifts that help you feel more connected and supported at home

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