So many couples find themselves in a sexless relationship — often without ever talking about it. It's estimated that this is reality for as many as 20-30% of couples. And, mismatched libido is the top physical intimacy issue that couples report.

I've had lots of listener questions on this topic, so in today's episode I'm answering your questions.

- Does a sexless relationship mean our relationship is doomed?

- Am I right to feel like leaving my relationship over this?

- Is there something wrong with us?

- Can things ever change?

I talk about why mismatched desire is so common, what really sits underneath it, and how you can start to rebuild connection and closeness without shame, pressure, or blame. Spoiler: this is never a one person issue!