Feel Better

Ep 106: How to Rest When You Absolutely Suck at It


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If you struggle to slow down, switch off, or stop feeling guilty when you rest — this episode is for you. So many of us are caught up in productivity culture, running on empty and living in a constant state of burnout and overwhelm. I want to help you change that.

In this conversation, I’m breaking down why true rest can feel so hard — from the way our nervous system reacts to stillness, to the hidden “unbearable feelings” that keep us stuck in go-mode — and how we can start to heal our relationship with rest.

I’ll walk you through:

  • Why rest is a vital part of mental health, self-care, and work-life balance — not a luxury.

  • How to reframe your self-talk (“I’m learning to rest” instead of “I’m bad at resting”) so change actually sticks.

  • Practical rest strategies you can use right now — including micro-rests, building restful spaces, setting rest goals, and scheduling downtime into busy days.

  • How modelling rest for your kids teaches them healthier coping skills — and how rest can boost creativity, problem-solving, and emotional resilience.

I also share some honest personal stories (including the one my husband and many podcast listeners still tease me about!) to show you that rest doesn’t have to look perfect — it just has to work for you.

If you’re tired of rushing, overworking, or always needing to “earn” your downtime, this episode will help you embrace rest as a daily practice — and build a calmer, more sustainable life that truly supports your wellbeing.

🎧 Press play, take a deep breath, and let’s start rewriting your story with rest — one pause at a time.

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