I was warned not to talk about this. And another friend told me that not talking was the problem. 

In the last 4 years I have learned a lot about dealing with difficult situations and our thoughts. 

I hope that my opinions will help you understand yourself and your neighbor, because just like power corrupts, powerlessness is a dangerous and destructive force. 

The decision from votes does not have to be a dark day, this could be a day where circumstances have led to a call to action. We have free will in our mind, that is where our power is, and we can choose where to direct it. Emotions are the fuel that move in the direction you choose.

So pick a direction, and fuel it with the emotion you choose.