We're Going There with Bianca Juarez

Ep 175: The Evolution of Friendship: Growing Together, Growing Apart with Bianca Juarez Olthoff and Lauren Bronson Petrous


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What does true friendship mean to you? How do you know when it's time to let go of a friendship?


Friend, I LOVE you! And I know that friendship is so important in our lives. That's why my BFF Lauren and I dive deep into the intricacies of friendship. We explore how to nurture, grow, and gracefully let go of relationships as we journey through life's different stages. 


We share personal insights on the complexities of relationships, emphasizing the importance of recognizing when it's time to let go of friendships that no longer serve us. 


Some key takeaways are:

  • Intentionality is key: Friendship requires effort and conscious nurturing to thrive.
  • Vulnerability is essential: Sharing our true selves with others deepens our connections.
  • Friendships evolve: As we grow and change, our relationships may naturally shift or end.
  • It's okay to let go: Sometimes, holding onto friendships that are no longer fulfilling can be detrimental to our well-being.

  • Losing a friendship can be emotionally challenging, and it's important to allow ourselves to grieve. Share the dynamics of your relationships by tagging me @biancaolthoff and @laurenbronsonpetrous.


    XO,

    B


    RESOURCES/LINKS

    Co-Host

    Lauren Bronson Petrous https://boundlessandco.com/ 


    Watch the video on Youtube: https://youtu.be/SfVNmRE0cd4

    Resources

    • Podcast Episode with Lysa Terkeurst Ep 100: Setting Clear Boundaries, Communicating Our Needs To Others and A Million Little Funerals with Lysa TerKeurst https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/ep-100-setting-clear-boundaries-communicating-our-needs/id1529509063?i=1000586081202 
    • Book by Lysa Terkeurst Good Boundaries and Goodbyes: Loving Others Without Losing the Best of Who You Are https://www.p31bookstore.com/collections/lysa-terkeurst-books-and-bible-studies 

    • Takeaways

      1. Intentionality is key in maintaining friendships.
      2. Vulnerability allows for deeper connections between friends.
      3. It's important to evaluate friendships regularly.
      4. Friendship requires risk and investment.
      5. Not everyone is meant to stay in your life forever.
      6. A friend audit can help clarify relationship dynamics. I stay too long in relationships.
      7. Friendships can be categorized as weeds, flowers, or trees.
      8. Seasonal friendships are valid and should be honored.
      9. Adaptability is crucial in friendships.
      10. Friendship is a choice, not an obligation.
      11. Boundaries are essential in protecting relationships.
      12. Mourning the end of a friendship is a necessary process.

      13. Convoy of Hope - Empowering Women and Girls Together Donate here https://convoyofhope.org/bianca/ 

        Bianca’s new book Grit Don't Quit: Developing Resilience And Faith When Giving Up Isn't An Option. https://amzn.to/3MO74OC 

        The Grit Don’t Quit Bible Study is now available. https://www.biancaolthoff.com/gdq 


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        Visit biancaolthoff.com/resources to learn more about books and other resources from Bianca. https://www.biancaolthoff.com/resources 

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