Shannon and her surprise guest "Code Monkey" talk about how to navigate relationships, sex, and traumaversaries after learning your partner has been sexually assaulted. They are answering the burning questions: How do I react after hearing this? Will I ever be able to use handcuffs during sex again? What does it mean to actually trust your partner? Dive into this intimate conversation about communicative sex, traumaversies, and of course some personal stories. Grab a beverage and your boo thang and give it a listen! Cheers! If you're impatient skip the intro:

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