The whole point of working on your insecurities is not self-love for its own sake. It's so you can be trusted. It's so you can show up for other people without being threatened by them. When I can get to that place of genuinely rooting for someone, seeing their gifts clearly, no jealousy, no agenda, that's the closest I've felt to seeing someone the way God sees them. And if I can believe it for them, I can start to believe it for myself.