Married After Kids

Ep. 49: How To Talk To Your Spouse About The Mental Load


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Are you tired of feeling like you’re the one holding everything together - not just managing the household, but also keeping track of every need, schedule, and responsibility for your kids and spouse? The mental load can feel overwhelming, and even more so when you’re carrying it alone. But how do you talk to your spouse about it without it turning into an argument?


In this episode, I’m sharing exactly what to do to approach this sensitive topic and how to build a stronger partnership in the process.


Tune in to discover:

  • Why the mental load isn’t just about tasks, but about the emotional weight of carrying everyone’s needs
  • The #1 reason holding the mental load makes you feel disconnected and lonely in your marriage
  • How to feel more appreciated and validated, even if your spouse doesn’t fully understand what you’re going through
  • A step-by-step approach to talking to your spouse about the mental load without triggering defensiveness or conflict

 

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