Mistress J, best known internationally for the decorative rope designs she creates, particularly beautiful, wearable rope art has been part of her local scene in Melbourne, Australia, for eleven years. She has been teaching skillshares in her community for nine years, drawing on her background in design and education, and she facilitates a group called ‘The Art of Rope’.

Identifying as a Sensualist, she loves touch, and always tries to incorporate it in her scenes. She also enjoys learning, most recently focusing on chaos rope and more strenuous and torturous types of tie, continually expanding her skills.

Fox and Mya enjoyed hearing her thoughts about decorative rope and authentic perspective, along with her very thorough approach to whatever she’s doing.

Listen to the episode to hear the hosts explore with her:

• How she was first introduced to rope bondage

• What attracted her to rope even though initially it didn’t make se

• How she initially fit in rope around looking after her two kids

• What is decorative rope or ‘wearable art’

• How she integrates other crafting techniques into her ropework

• Her collection of mannequins (including their names - we love this so hard!)

• How a variety types of mannequins help with practicing different ties

• Examples of some of her decorative ties

• Complimentary skills that support her abilities in rope

• How her neurodivergence is an asset in rope

• How she enjoys a broad skillset - including other rope practices such as circus rope

• Why decorative rope is so appealing to a wide variety of people

• Tying her suitcase when travelling

• And more…

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Ps - Fun crossover: Mistress J talks about devouring the excellent book Shibari you can use by Lee Harrington (@passionandsoul) - who was our last interviewee in episodes 193-4 <3 Listen to those next!