In this episode of Ambitious, I reflect on turning 33 and the significant lessons I've learned over the past year. From battling self-doubt and overcoming the urge for urgency in life and business, to understanding the true meaning of self-love and the importance of surrounding yourself with people who truly support you, this episode covers it all. Join me as I share insights on shaming versus loving yourself into change, the power of intuition, and the crucial role of having the right relationships in your life. Tune in to understand why safety is the new chemistry and how to create closure for yourself without relying on external validation. Let’s explore how embracing growth, even when it’s inconvenient for others, is a path to a more fulfilled and authentic life.

00:00 Introduction

02:23 Lessons from Self-Reflection

04:21 Shaming vs. Compassion in Self-Improvement

14:47 Seeking Advice from the Right Sources

19:17 The Power of Intuition and Faith

26:29 Urgency and Patience in Life Goals

32:24 Redefining Success and Speed

37:55 Uncovering Your True Self

40:31 Stripping Away External Labels

41:11 Discovering True Self

41:32 Releasing Unwanted Identities

45:18 Lessons from Past Relationships

56:28 Friendships Should Feel Like Home

58:30 Healing is Personal

01:01:12 Embracing Growth and Change

01:06:05 Finding Closure Within

01:09:06 Faith in the Unknown

Resources Mentioned:

• Instagram Post of the 33 lessons I have learned at 33

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