The Best of You

Episode 135: Tackling the Holiday Hangover—Recognizing Holiday People Pleasing and Setting the Stage for an Emotionally Healthy New Year


Listen Later

Feeling exhaustion or post-holiday blues? How can we step into the New Year feeling refreshed and empowered?

In this honest and vulnerable conversation, spiritual director and author Anjuli Paschall and I unpack our own journeys through holiday people-pleasing and how to reset for the New Year. As we close out the year, many of us grapple with a mix of relief and disappointment, compounded by the pressure of New Year's resolutions and the desire to start fresh. Anjuli offers her expert guidance on understanding these dynamics and introduces practical steps and spiritual practices to help us move forward with hope and clarity.

Here’s what we cover:‍

* How to break free from holiday people-pleasing

* The #1 way to stop trying to control other people’s feelings

* Why post-holiday let down happens & what to do

* How to develop and cultivate aspirational feelings in your body

* Why the hope of a new year sometimes hurts & how to navigate those feelings

* Prayers to move through complicated emotions


Have a question for Dr. Alison? Leave it here.


Find a full transcript and list of resources from this episode here.


If you enjoyed this episode, you'll love:

Episode 30: Protecting What’s Good Without Denying What’s Hard at the Holidays


Thanks to our sponsors:

  • Go to www.organifi.com/bestofyou today and use code BESTOFYOU for 20% off your order today.
  • Go to SundaysForDogs.com/BESTOFYOU or use code BESTOFYOU at checkout.
  • Go to thrivemarket.com/bestofyou for 30% off your first order, plus a FREE $60 gift!
  • Visit cozyearth.com and unlock an exclusive 35% off with code BESTOFYOU

  • Music by Andy Luiten

    Sound editing by Kelly Kramarik

    While Dr. Cook is a counselor, the content of this podcast and any of the products provided by Dr. Cook are not specific counseling advice nor are they a substitute for individual counseling. The content and products provided on this podcast are for informational purposes only.

    Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

    ...more
    View all episodesView all episodes
    Download on the App Store

    The Best of YouBy Dr. Alison Cook

    • 4.9
    • 4.9
    • 4.9
    • 4.9
    • 4.9

    4.9

    739 ratings


    More shows like The Best of You

    View all
    The Proverbs 31 Ministries Podcast by The Proverbs 31 Ministries Podcast

    The Proverbs 31 Ministries Podcast

    4,798 Listeners

    The Allender Center Podcast by The Allender Center | Dr. Dan Allender

    The Allender Center Podcast

    636 Listeners

    That Sounds Fun with Annie F. Downs by That Sounds Fun Network

    That Sounds Fun with Annie F. Downs

    10,383 Listeners

    Win Today: Your Roadmap to Wholeness by Art of Leadership Network

    Win Today: Your Roadmap to Wholeness

    436 Listeners

    Restoring the Soul with Michael John Cusick by Michael John Cusick

    Restoring the Soul with Michael John Cusick

    452 Listeners

    The Next Right Thing by with Emily P. Freeman

    The Next Right Thing

    5,447 Listeners

    The Dr. Leaf Show by Dr. Caroline Leaf

    The Dr. Leaf Show

    3,069 Listeners

    The Place We Find Ourselves by Adam Young | LCSW, MDiv

    The Place We Find Ourselves

    2,578 Listeners

    Made For This with Jennie Allen by Made For This with Jennie Allen

    Made For This with Jennie Allen

    6,631 Listeners

    The Boundaries.me Podcast by Dr. Henry Cloud

    The Boundaries.me Podcast

    862 Listeners

    Being Known Podcast by Being Known Podcast

    Being Known Podcast

    1,134 Listeners

    Lisa Harper's Back Porch Theology by AccessMore

    Lisa Harper's Back Porch Theology

    2,698 Listeners

    NeuroFaith with Curt Thompson, MD by THINQ Media

    NeuroFaith with Curt Thompson, MD

    164 Listeners

    Therapy and Theology by Lysa TerKeurst

    Therapy and Theology

    1,907 Listeners