This week on Brolapse, I sit down with one of the realest, rawest, and most resilient legends in the industry—Brian Bonds. From his early days getting fisted in a bathroom before shooting a scene, to directing some of the kinkiest, most beautifully lit fisting content out there, Brian has seen all sides of porn. But today’s conversation goes deeper than any scene he’s ever shot. We talk about the emotional aftermath of long-term sex work, how mental health gets pushed to the side in adult entertainment, and what happens when the industry no longer has space for you. Spoiler: he’s still finding ways to take up space—and do it on his own terms.

Brian opens up about the toll of performing through grief, addiction, and burnout—and the shame spiral that can come from pretending everything’s fine when it’s not. We get into how pirated drug-fueled porn gets rewarded by the algorithm, and how that dark feedback loop can mess with your sense of worth. He shares what led him into outpatient rehab, how he’s approaching sobriety, and why taking three months off everything is a radical act of self-love. We also swap stories about cancellation guilt, awkward fan interactions, and our shared struggle with imposter syndrome.

And yes—we talk about fisting. Brian shares his origin story as a “wrister fister,” his first scene with Derek Parker, and what it means to hold space for performers when he’s behind the camera. Whether you’re a longtime fan or a creator trying to survive this chaotic industry, this one’s for you. It’s messy. It’s honest. And it just might be exactly what you need to hear.

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