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In this episode of Brolapse, HungerFF sits down with BottomGuyNYC—NYC bar manager, shameless fister, and proud red-hanky flagger—to talk about why, for him, fisting isn’t sex… it’s a sport.
They dig into what it means to “train” for play, why a hand in someone can feel less intimate than dick-and-butt sex, and how he balances a 21-year open relationship where his husband is his emotional home—but the kink happens elsewhere.
From nervously sitting in the car before his first Fist Fest to organizing fisting meetups on Atlantis cruises and Telegram, BottomGuyNYC breaks down the bond between fisters, the power of living openly at work, and how mentorship in kink still survives in the age of algorithms.
If you’ve ever felt “weird” for how you experience sex, intimacy, or kink, this conversation might make you feel a little less alone.
In this episode:
Fisting as a sport vs. “real” sex
Navigating an open relationship after 20+ years together
Flagging red at work and stripping away shame
Fist Fest as the “Olympics” and family reunion of kink
Telegram, cruises, and building offline community in an online world
Mentorship, safety, and why only showing the extreme 45 seconds can be dangerous
Follow BottomGuyNYC:
X (Twitter): @bottomguynyc
BlueSky: @BottomGuyNYC
JustFor.Fans: https://justfor. fans/bottomguynyc1
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YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PL3uJBareUPFci58BJ0NtwtoIOKKuaaBIa
Spotify: https://creators.spotify.com/pod/show/Brolapse
Apple Podcasts: https://apple.co/408WLLX
Amazon & Audible: https://music.amazon.com/podcasts/57bbf689-250a-4c96-8559-0a79805f18b6/hungerff-presents-brolapse
iHeartRadio: https://www.iheart.com/podcast/269-hungerff-presents-brolapse-290151273
🕗 New video episodes drop every Friday at 8 PM.
🎥 Early video access for Spotify subscribers.
🔥 Full video available exclusively on https://HungerFF. com 🔥
By HungerFF3.8
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In this episode of Brolapse, HungerFF sits down with BottomGuyNYC—NYC bar manager, shameless fister, and proud red-hanky flagger—to talk about why, for him, fisting isn’t sex… it’s a sport.
They dig into what it means to “train” for play, why a hand in someone can feel less intimate than dick-and-butt sex, and how he balances a 21-year open relationship where his husband is his emotional home—but the kink happens elsewhere.
From nervously sitting in the car before his first Fist Fest to organizing fisting meetups on Atlantis cruises and Telegram, BottomGuyNYC breaks down the bond between fisters, the power of living openly at work, and how mentorship in kink still survives in the age of algorithms.
If you’ve ever felt “weird” for how you experience sex, intimacy, or kink, this conversation might make you feel a little less alone.
In this episode:
Fisting as a sport vs. “real” sex
Navigating an open relationship after 20+ years together
Flagging red at work and stripping away shame
Fist Fest as the “Olympics” and family reunion of kink
Telegram, cruises, and building offline community in an online world
Mentorship, safety, and why only showing the extreme 45 seconds can be dangerous
Follow BottomGuyNYC:
X (Twitter): @bottomguynyc
BlueSky: @BottomGuyNYC
JustFor.Fans: https://justfor. fans/bottomguynyc1
🎧 LISTEN & SUBSCRIBE:
YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PL3uJBareUPFci58BJ0NtwtoIOKKuaaBIa
Spotify: https://creators.spotify.com/pod/show/Brolapse
Apple Podcasts: https://apple.co/408WLLX
Amazon & Audible: https://music.amazon.com/podcasts/57bbf689-250a-4c96-8559-0a79805f18b6/hungerff-presents-brolapse
iHeartRadio: https://www.iheart.com/podcast/269-hungerff-presents-brolapse-290151273
🕗 New video episodes drop every Friday at 8 PM.
🎥 Early video access for Spotify subscribers.
🔥 Full video available exclusively on https://HungerFF. com 🔥

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