Stellar sex educator Luna Matatas joins Jess to talk about the taboo topic of pee play. Even if pee isn’t your cup of tea, you’ll learn some important lessons that you can apply to your sex life tonight.

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Everything You Need to Know About Pee Play

Participant #1:

Hello. Hello there. This is Jess O'Reilly of Sex with Dr. Jess, your friendly neighborhood sexologist. And I am here, as usual, to help you to cultivate to create sexual compatibility because it is essential to a lasting, happy relationship. And of course, compatibility is not something you find. It is something you build. And today I am very excited because we are going to be talking about a topic that is a little bit new to me. So I have some rudimentary knowledge, but I have an expert with me who is going to teach us all about water sports and not water sports. You play with a ball. Well, I guess they be some balls, perhaps if you're unlucky. I don't know. Not the type you play with the balls and the nets and the water guns. But urine play P play. So it's my distinct pleasure to welcome Luna Matata's, best guest name ever. And Luna is a Toronto based sex educator. And I saw that recently, Luna, you were facilitating a workshop at Good for her all about P play. Tell me, how did that go? It was such a fantastically fun workshop because people are really nervous around P play, but they're also really excited about it. And so there's lots of questions around. How do I do this safely, or how do I talk to my partner about it? And exploring the creativity that's possible with any type of kinky play was the main point of the discussion. Okay, cool. Well, let's get back to basics. If you can call this basics, why are some people turned on by P in the bedroom? How did pee get moved from the toilet to the sex layer? It took the sexy train to the bedroom. Ppl sort of opens up a variety of sensation play that people can get turned on by. And so sometimes we have a hard time wrapping our head around why you would find something erotic or sexy or sensual that we've been told through sanitation and all kinds of evolution and hygiene that it's something that remains private and it remains in the bathroom. And it's more about bringing an erotic context to something that's seen as nonsexy and bringing it into your regular sex place.

So all the kinds of things that would turn you on in the bedroom around kissing or touching, or maybe you're into domination or submission. Pplay is something that you can add into that it doesn't have to be something that's completely separate. So a lot of people are into the sensations of people that come from the wetness people like the warmth of it. People like the idea of watching pea play. Lots of people like the taste of peep play or ingesting their partner's pee because it's coming directly from their body. Hang on, hang on, I got to stop you there. What does P taste like? That is a really good question. So sometimes P can be very mild. So depending on what fluids have been in your body or particularly your salt or your sugar intake for that day can really alter the taste of your pea. So if you drink, there's a rumor around drinking pineapple juice that woul...