This week I wanted to talk about making sure you have a reset button. A reset button, or a kill switch, or a stop sign, or whatever you choose to call it, is necessary for training your mind to stop all the negative self talk that goes on. I don’t even need to ask if you find yourself thinking negative thoughts about yourself, criticizing yourself, cringing at past mistakes or basically putting yourself down - I know you do. I do, we all do, it’s an unfortunate reality for most people, and it’s really, really harmful.
A reset button is a phrase, or sometimes a physical action, that you use whenever you find yourself going down the familiar path of self-criticism or doom and gloom thinking. It can be simple, like just the word “stop”, or repeating “cancel, cancel”, or it can be a phrase you develop that is meaningful to you, something like “It won’t be like this forever”, “This too shall pass”, “I’m doing the best I can”, “I don’t need criticism right now” or anything that makes sense to you.
Some people wear an elastic band around their wrist, and whenever they start the negative dialogue, they snap the elastic band so it stings their wrist a little and shakes them, physically, out of that headspace. Some people snap their fingers, which is obviously less painful. Whatever works for you, figure out something you can say or do that would stop the negativity.
Enjoy your week! Be good to yourself, you're worth it. ❤️
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