NOTE: This week's episode may not be easy to listen to, and it may make people uncomfortable. But it's important. If we want to unpack our misogyny, we must also unpack our racism. Please listen with an open mind and heart. 

Recently, a creator called the White Woman Whisperer made a video about how white women are often the "nice guys" of women. While this may be hard to hear, in the episode, we break down why it's quite accurate. 

Our guest this week is Jamila Bradley, an incredible creator, activist, and proud person of color who was criticized after posting a video about the Met Gala. And these attacks weren't coming just from strangers. They were coming from the very women who called themselves allies. These white women were happy to engage and support Jamila's feminist content. But the second Jamila brought race into the conversation, these "allies" became adversaries. A feeling all too familiar for Jamila and other people of color. 

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Joe Goldberg (from the Netflix series YOU) is an admitted stalker, serial killer, and all-around psychopath. So why is that so many women are in love with him... or worse yet, defend him and attack his victims? Eleni Sagredos is back to break down Joe's troubling psyche and horrific behaviors. Because Joe may be fictional, but men like him are very real. And we don't want the next victim to be... YOU! 

WARNING: This episode is an absolute rant. So,  please... buckle up! 

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Tiktok & Instagram: Nowshesspeaking

Eleni's AMAZING book!

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What do trad wives, "girlie" magazines, and bath bomb ads all have in common? They are all tools to make the patriarchy more palatable. Therese Lee is back, and she's here to tell us about this long-standing tradition of rebranding misogyny. We'll discuss what it looks like, why it's happening, and what we can do to make sure we don't fall for these anti-women viewpoints disguised in pretty packaging. 

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On Tiktok & Youtube under @ Theresehlee 

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Hopefully, everyone has had time to finish the series The White Lotus because we HAVE to talk about it. Today our guest is Lisa aka Yv_edit, someone who also has a lot to say about the series. We'll be breaking down the 3 main groups who are guilty of centering men - the lifelong bickering besties, the Ratliffs, and of course Rick and Chelsea. Buckle up because the feelings are strong and the episode is long.

You can find Lisa on Tiktok and Youtube under Yv_edit and her podcast the Audaci-Tea podcast can be found on all your streaming services. 

Regan's Episode on the Audaci-Tea Podcast

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TW: This episode contains descriptions of grooming behaviors 

Recently, the cast of the Impractical Jokers has come under fire after  MULTIPLE jokers have been accused of grooming and s/a. The evidence is overwhelming with multiple victims, screenshots, voicemails, money exchanged, and still... these girls aren't being believed. But why? Why are people defending these middle-aged men who joked REPEATEDLY about underage girls on national TV?

ExPatriarch hops on to co-host this episode as we break down all the accusations and try to map out a clear pattern of predatory behavior. 

IMPORTANT NOTE: All stories mentioned are ALLEGED and taken from statements made by the alleged victims. 

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Have you ever had a man make a "dark joke" that made you uncomfortable? Well, you're in good company. Today my cohost is the musical artist Fae. She's got quite the story about a man who kept saying he was going to abduct her. But that's just the start of all her terrible tales with men...  

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Find Fae's music across all streaming platforms

Regan's Current Favorite Song by Fae - TEMPER

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If there's one thing "Nice Guys" love, it's benefiting off the behavior of bad men. But, they don't always keep them at a distance. 

Regan and Payton are back to share their stories of the "nice guys" who only seemed "good" by their proximity to bad men. But if you choose to spend all your time with men who are bad... then how good can you really be? 

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Over 10,000 miles and a 14-hour time difference couldn't stop us from sharing this unbelievable story from down under. We are joined by Jordan Tan, an incredible feminist, woman of color, and content creator from Perth, Australia. This whole mess started when Jordan got a voice note from two men with a podcast who wanted to "meet up" and "have a chat". The more questions she asked, the more questions she had so she told them no. (gasp) Little did she know that her simple rejection would lead to one of the most epic filmed "nice guy" meltdowns. 

Jordan Tan's Tiktok (@_jordantan_)

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My Tiktok On This Situation/Jordan Tan's Story

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Have you ever wondered what it's like to be a woman in Hollywood? What it takes and just as importantly... what it takes from you. For Jennifer Esposito, the men in Hollywood have never made it easy. Just as they do with so many women, they put her in a box and all but demanded she stay there. But Jennifer is not one to stay silent.

So she decides to take her experiences (personally and professionally) and make an incredible film Fresh Kills. It's a story about two sisters born into a mafia family and how they struggle to survive in a world with so few choices and deadly consequences.

But who could have predicted that the REAL crime would be what happened to this film after its release... 

WATCH FRESH KILLS ON HULU FEBRUARY 7TH! 

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Have you ever had a man tell you he's going to die, you go on a roller coaster of emotions as you're told he will be saved, then he won't, on and on until he ultimately fades into the darkness... only to have him return 14 hours later like nothing happened? Well, we haven't either. But we HAVE had that happen with an app. Today we're talking about the rise, fall, and resurrection of Tiktok. 

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