Regan and Chesko dive into the disturbing world of men's private group chats after young Republicans' racist messages leaked online. They discuss why so many guys are suddenly admitting their own group chats would look "pretty bad" if exposed, and what that reveals about toxic masculinity in isolated spaces. The hosts break down a cringe-worthy clip from the Whatever podcast where a guest confidently shares his sexist and racist views about female pilots and mechanics, sparking a larger conversation about microaggressions, performative allyship, and the obsession with being seen as "good" rather than actually doing good.

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This week, Chesko and Regan tackle what happens when a comedian calls someone out on stage. Was it funny or did it cross a line? Along the way, expect plenty of tangents (so many tangents), from fake radio show phone calls to crypto confessions, and more.

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Chesko and Regan dissect a viral story about a husband who claims his dad spontaneously gave him three cruise tickets on his birthday, leaving his wife to handle their four kids and her job while he jets off to Mexico for five days. They debate whether the "surprise" cruise was actually planned in advance, discuss the logistics of last-minute cruise bookings, and explore broader relationship red flags including lying, manipulation, and the importance of communication in partnerships. They also touch on narcissistic behavior patterns, the influence of manosphere content on modern relationships, and why respecting your partner's feelings should be non-negotiable (even about seemingly small things).

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Chesko and Regan unpack a comment from a guy who swore off buying flowers for women after one bad experience, exploring why some men treat rejection as proof that "all women are evil." They discuss toxic dating advice, the pressure to perform rather than connect authentically, collective illusions about dating, and why vulnerability is essential for real relationships. They share personal stories about being broke in relationships, misreading romantic signals, and why treating women as individuals (not a monolith) actually leads to finding love.

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In this episode, Chesko and Reagan dive into the problematic world of men who confuse boundaries with control. They break down a viral video of a self-proclaimed "six-foot-five millionaire" who gives his girlfriend a curfew and compares her to his Lamborghini, sparking a larger conversation about financial abuse, manipulation, and how some men use wealth as a weapon in relationships. The hosts also discuss NBA player Michael Porter Jr.'s story of weaponizing a lease agreement against his ex, and explore why these men set up rules designed to be broken so they can justify their controlling behavior.

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In this episode, Chesko and Regan react to a viral video of a husband who "historically hates" when his wife showers without him, dramatically entering the bathroom within seconds of hearing the water run. The hosts dissect why this behavior is concerning, discussing how it represents potential control issues, the weaponization of access to someone's body, and the importance of privacy and autonomy in relationships. They explore how abusive dynamics often start with small boundary violations, compare toxic romantic relationships to toxic friendships, debate the merits (or lack thereof) of showering together, and go on tangents about everything from goblin anatomy to Kevin Smith's problematic film "Chasing Amy" and the myth of the "friend zone."

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In this episode of "Mr. Pick Me and the Man Hater Radio Podcast Hour," hosts Chesko and Regan dissect a viral clip claiming that "women are naturally better at rejecting men." The duo unpacks how this mindset reveals toxic attitudes toward both men and women, exploring how men who complain about constant rejection often approach dating with entitlement and poor strategies—like mindlessly swiping on dating apps or hitting on strangers without establishing any connection. They discuss how women develop rejection skills out of safety concerns rather than some inherent ability, examine the weaponization of service industry interactions, and challenge the notion that men should have unlimited access to women's time and attention. Throughout their conversation, Chesko and Regan highlight how these dating frustrations stem from treating potential partners as objects rather than people, while emphasizing that meaningful relationships require genuine interest, shared connections, and mutual respect.

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Regan and Chesko start today's episode dissecting a cringe-worthy Backstreet Boys parody where a husband sings about hating marriage and his wife, then examining a controversial podcast clip about husbands giving wives "allowances", and finally breaking down the viral "lunch packing" incident where a husband filled his teacher wife's lunch bag with dog food, stale snacks, and old Chipotle...followed by her predictable defense video when criticized online.

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This week, Chesko and Regan dive into the wild world of online conspiracy theories and parenting fears. They discuss viral TikTok videos about "demonic" children's content and discuss the irony of fearing imaginary threats while overlooking real-world dangers, and examine how some religious conspiracy theorists prioritize invisible boogeymen over protecting children from actual harm. Plus, they tackle the generational divide on location sharing in relationships, is it a safety feature or a red flag?

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In this episode, Regan and Chesko react to a viral dating show clip from Provo, Utah, where college-age men cruelly mock Riley (who just wants an adventure buddy) being mocked while hidden behind a sheet during her introduction. The discussion expands into a broader analysis of toxic masculinity, examining how men prioritize male validation over genuine connection, the contradiction between complaining about loneliness while degrading women who show interest, and viral content creators who publicly shame women through rigged scales and rating systems.

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