Regan and Chesko dive into the world of "golf widows" after discussing a viral TikTok where a husband turned his text exchange with his struggling wife into an AI song. They explore how normalizing this behavior hurts marriages, the difference between actual comedy and cruelty disguised as jokes, and why some men get defensive when called out for treating their wives poorly. Plus: tangents on pickleball, competitive dads at birthday parties, and why "cancel culture" isn't actually canceling anyone.

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The episode touches on everything from 90s boy bands (with some nostalgic NSYNC vs Backstreet Boys debate) to the importance of taking criticism gracefully when doing social justice work. They also dive into Kid Rock's recent inflammatory comments about declining birth rates in the US, where he blamed "ugly" and "deranged" liberal women before unpacking the deeper issues behind such statements, exploring how they reflect broader problems with toxic masculinity, emotional regulation, and the refusal to examine systemic causes for societal changes.

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In this episode, Reagan and Chesko dive into the absurd world of "Timmy Bounce Back" and his viral rant about why men are "awesome" and women are supposedly "destroyers." Between fits of laughter, they unpack the toxic mindset behind these kinds of statements, examining the fragility that leads to such ridiculous claims. They explore how patriarchal systems actually harm everyone, the importance of intersectional feminism, and why some men would rather maintain a broken system than work toward equality. And, as always, there's an extra full episode waiting for Patreon supporters who want to get to know our hosts even better!

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In this episode of 'Mr. Pick Me and the Man Hater Show,' Regan and Chesko dive into double standards, bodily autonomy, and the right to exist comfortably in shared spaces as We discuss the viral gym clothing debate currently raging on social media before moving on to discuss broader patterns of misogyny, false accusations, and the weaponization of exceptions to enforce control over women's bodies.

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Chesko and Regan weigh in on the viral question sweeping the internet this week regarding 100 men vs. a silverback gorilla and of course connect it to some deeper conversations about red flags and toxic masculinity.

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In this episode, Chesko and Regan analyze viral videos from the man suggesting funeral crashing as a dating strategy to debates about 'dad bods' and why some men refuse to listen to women's actual preferences.

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Chesko and Regan totally go off the rails talking about their love of Netflix's "Love on the Spectrum" while constantly interrupting each other with tangents (as usual). The hosts get deep about why they're obsessed with the show—relating hard to the awkward silences, info-dumping, and that whole desperate need to fill conversational space. Between Chesko's beard-pulling stems and Regan's shaky-cam rants, they dish on their fave couples while calling out the show's infantilizing music choices.

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Regan and Chesko respond to an "alpha male" content creator who is just a lil guy, and a few more clips where self-proclaimed alphas claim women prefer sharing high-value men over being loyal to "betas." The episode concludes with lighthearted "would you rather" questions.

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In today's episode, Regan and Chesko dive into the uneven expectations placed on women in relationships. From religious advice about opposite-sex friendships to shocking stories about exes demanding care after betrayal, they explore why women are expected to be martyrs while men face minimal accountability. They discuss the painful double standards in caregiving (with women 624% less likely to leave sick partners than men), why "putting boundaries" around a partner is problematic, and the unfair blame women receive when relationships fail.

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Chesko and Regan discuss the intersection of politics and dating and dive into an article titled "Are femcels the new incels?"

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