In this episode, we continue our conversation with Suhail Stephen, exploring how the Enneagram can deepen spiritual formation and self-understanding. We discuss the Enneagram’s origins, its nine personality types, and how it helps us recognize both our strengths and areas for growth.

Suhail shares personal insights and practical ways the Enneagram can foster compassion, freedom, and more authentic relationships—with God, others, and ourselves.

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00:00 - Welcome & Introduction 00:29 - Show Begins, Guest Introduction 00:55 - Announcements: Dash Away & Trauma Course 01:41 - Transition to Enneagram Topic 01:52 - Suhail on Spirituality & Enneagram 02:14 - Cathy’s Enneagram Story 02:58 - Suhail: Enneagram’s Impact & History 05:19 - Christian Perspective on Enneagram 08:00 - Suhail’s Personal Enneagram Experience 10:32 - Triads & Undercurrents Explained 13:37 - Cathy & Melinda Discuss Their Types 15:13 - Suhail: What the Numbers Mean 16:58 - Triads: Shame, Anxiety, Frustration 18:45 - Compulsions & Avoidances 19:41 - Melinda: Resistance to Labels 21:47 - Suhail: Why Use “Undercurrent” & “Compulsion” 23:28 - Melinda & Cathy’s Types Explored 24:39 - Cathy’s Leadership & Independence 27:50 - Why Self-Awareness Matters 29:03 - Enneagram for Relationships 31:56 - Final Thoughts & Resources 34:15 - Where to Find Suhail 34:58 - Enneagram: Affirming the Good 35:54 - Closing Remarks 36:07 - Outro & Call to Action 36:27 - End

 

In this episode of the Face to Face podcast, we engage in a profound conversation with Suhail Stephen, a spiritual director from Manitoba, Canada. We delve into Suhail's multicultural upbringing, his journey into spiritual direction, and the significance of the contemplative Christian tradition. We also discuss practical steps like the Daily Examen and the role of a spiritual director in deepening one's spiritual experience. Suhail shares his personal experiences and insights, making this episode a valuable resource for anyone interested in authentic spiritual growth and connection with God.

 

00:28 Exciting Announcements and Upcoming Events

01:50 Meet Our Special Guest: Suhail Stephen

06:30 Suhail's Journey and Cultural Experiences

12:54 Exploring Spirituality Across Cultures

22:45 The Path to Spiritual Direction

24:49 Understanding Spiritual Direction

26:02 Personal Journey with God 

27:52 First Encounter with Spiritual Direction

28:52 Discovering the Call to Spiritual Direction

30:39 Training and Becoming a Spiritual Director

37:02 The Contemplative Tradition

46:40 Practical Steps for Spiritual Growth

50:22 Conclusion and Final Thoughts

In Part 2 with Jessie Cruickshank, we discuss deeper connections and meaningful relationships through the lens of Identity Formation Theory. Our conversation covers various phases of human and spiritual development from infancy to adulthood, highlighting how our understanding of ourselves and God evolves. 

You will be invited to explore phases of growth, the importance of autobiographical memory, and the concept of deconstruction in faith. This rich discussion provides insights for anyone interested in emotional and spiritual maturity.

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00:00 Introduction and Welcome

00:28 Upcoming Events and Opportunities

01:03 Immanuel Institute Programs

01:35 Understanding Trauma Course

02:28 Identity Formation Theory: Phases 0 to 1

04:13 Identity Formation Theory: Phase 2

08:57 Identity Formation Theory: Phase 3

13:08 Deconstruction and Faith Transitions

20:15 Phase 4: Owning Your Faith

23:18 Organizational Dynamics and Faith

30:15 Phase 5: The Dark Night of the Soul

40:08 Petty Doctrinal Issues in Modern Faith

40:31 Understanding Phase Five in Spiritual Growth 

42:27 The Role of Community in Faith Transitions

43:20 Elder Stage and Teaching Teenagers

44:40 Navigating Spiritual Direction Schools

46:26 Fear and Control in Religion

48:22 Creating Safe Spaces for Questions

50:51 The Journey of Identity Formation

59:53 Final Thoughts and Encouragement

01:04:54 Autobiographical vs. Semantic Memory

E167 - Jessie Cruickshank - Part 1 | Understanding Identity & Faith Development

In this episode, we introduce Jessie Cruickshank, a neuro-ecclesiologist with a background from Harvard. We discuss the concept of identity formation, delving into various phases of human development based on a theory Jessie evolved from Fowler's stages of faith development. The episode covers infancy and toddler stages, emphasizing the importance of naming and identity in the early years. Jessie shares insights on how our experiences shape our perception of self and God. We have compelling conversation on the significance of naming children and how it impacts their identity and faith journey.   00:28 California Vibes and Upcoming Events 01:25 Dash Away and Immanuel Institute Announcements 04:24 Introducing Jessie Cruickshank 05:13 Jessie Cruickshank's Background and Journey 14:32 Neuro Ecclesiology and Organizational Psychology 19:08 The Art of Connection: Sales Techniques and Attunement 21:01 Exploring Identity Formation Theory 22:44 The Journey of Faith Development 24:41 Introducing Identity Formation Theory 27:06 The Role of Caregivers in Spiritual Development 34:13 The Importance of Naming and Identity 37:52 Helping Others Discover Their True Identity 42:31 Conclusion and Next Steps

In this episode, we continue our deep conversation with Australian guest David Tensen. David shares a provocative viewpoint on decentering God from one's life and discusses the symbolic concept of the Trinity as a non-centralized entity. We explore notions of deep spiritual maturity, deconstruction of religious belief systems, and the importance of eldership. The episode further discusses how to experience personal transformation through retreats like Dash Away Weekends and closes with a reflective poem by David. The overarching theme emphasizes the importance of embracing unity with Christ, letting go of dogmatic constructs, and finding freedom in spiritual growth.   00:28 Episode 166: Part Two with David Tensen 01:15 Upcoming Dash Away Weekends Retreat 02:32 David Tensen on Decentering God 04:37 Understanding Union with God 11:31 The Concept of Panentheism 14:07 Deconstruction and Decentering in Faith 19:12 Maturity and Letting Go of Constructs 22:58 Navigating Personal Beliefs and Open-Mindedness 24:47 The Role of Love and Guidance in Healing 25:18 Decentering the Need for Change 26:40 The Impact of Social Media on Judgment and Arguments 29:37 Companioning and Grieving 32:58 Embracing Mystery and Uncertainty in Faith 35:45 The Value of Diverse Perspectives 37:41 Closing Reflections and Poetry 39:47 Final Thoughts and Farewell   To learn more about David’s work: https://davidtensen.com/

In this episode, we discuss important shifts, including the transition from 'Face to Face Ministries' to 'Face to Face Network'. We had an excellent conversation with David Tensen, an Australian philosopher, teacher, chaplain, and poet, known for his profound insights into eldering and inner healing. David shares his journey through advanced pastoral care, internal healing methods, and his new book, 'Decenter Everything'. The conversation delves into why decentering is essential, especially the critical distinction between centering God versus our construct of God. David also touches on the Life Model's stages of human development, and the urgent need to embrace eldering in a world stuck in adolescent and early adulthood stages. Tune in for part two to explore deeper into the concept of decentering God.   00:32 Exciting Changes and New Beginnings 01:15 Rebranding to Face-to-Face Network 02:05 The Vision and Philosophy Behind the Network 04:16 Challenges with the Term 'Ministries' 06:48 Upcoming Events and Website Changes 07:29 Introducing Our Guest: David Tenson 10:37 David Tenson's Background and Work 22:53 Reflecting on Ministry and Personal Challenges 23:48 Discovering the Life Model 24:35 Experiencing Burnout and Transitioning to Academia 26:55 Writing and Publishing 'The Wrestle' 27:42 Introducing 'Decenter Everything' 28:29 Exploring the Life Model Stages 32:39 The Concept of Eldering 37:57 The Call to Decenter Everything 40:41 Concluding Thoughts and Future Discussions To learn more about David’s work: https://davidtensen.com/

Joni us as our conversation takes a deep dive with guest Hannah Ploegstra, an expert on Gen Z, discussing the unique challenges and strengths of this generation. Hannah shares her personal journey of raising four Gen Z children and explains the generational need for deeper relational skills and connection. Emphasizing compassion and the importance of presence, she articulates ways older generations can support and understand Gen Z, highlighting their potential to bring healing and leadership to the world.  The episode concludes with a hopeful message for Gen Z about their essential role and the healing they can bring to society.   00:00 Introduction to the Face-to-Face Podcast 00:28 Episode 164 Kickoff and Updates 00:38 Dash Away Retreat Recap 01:29 Upcoming Events and Trainings 03:02 Introducing Hannah Ploegstra 03:47 Hannah's Journey with Gen Z 06:40 Challenges and Insights on Gen Z 18:08 Gen Z's Struggles with Technology and Connection 25:27 The Role of Maturity in Guiding Gen Z 25:53 Challenges Faced by Gen Z 27:20 Building Relational Experiences 28:45 The Importance of Presence and Support 29:55 Understanding and Connecting with Gen Z 31:30 Practical Steps to Engage with Gen Z 32:51 The Unique Traits of Gen Z 41:54 A Message to Gen Z 45:07 Closing Remarks and Future Episodes   For more information: https://www.brineknit.com/

Join us today on the Face to Face Podcast as we dive into a profound conversation with guest Cyd Holsclaw on the topic of embodiment and spiritual connection. Discover the importance of being in tune with your body, practical exercises to increase body awareness, and how this awareness impacts your spiritual and emotional health. Learn more about the Immanuel Approach, the significance of healthy attachments, and the joy of Jesus' presence in our lives. Don't miss out on valuable insights and practical advice that can transform your relationship with yourself and God.

For more info visit: https://www.cydholsclaw.com/

00:00 Welcome and Introduction

00:32 Updates

01:02 Immanuel Institute Announcement

02:01 Upcoming Events and Registration Details

03:24 Introduction to Cyd Holsclaw and Embodiment

03:39 Practical Ways to Connect with Your Body

07:15 Understanding Attachment and Nervous System

17:13 Building Healthy Attachment with Jesus

22:31 Understanding Healthy Attachments

22:52 Exploring Emotional Landscapes

25:10 The Role of Parts in Spiritual Experiences

31:13 Embracing Emotions as Gifts

37:28 Resources and Final Thoughts

 

 

 

Join hosts Melinda Wilson and Cathy Little on the Face-to-Face Podcast as they dive deep into the importance of living an embodied life with guest Cyd Holsclaw. Discover the interconnectedness of body, mind, and spirit, and explore how our faith roots in our physical forms. From nervous system regulation to Jesus' incarnation, this episode offers insights on embracing our bodies fully. 

00:32 Meet Our Guest: Cyd Holsclaw

00:56 Upcoming Events and Announcements

02:51 The Importance of Living Embodied

04:00 Understanding Embodiment and Faith

12:51 Misinterpretations of Scripture on the Body

16:18 Practical Examples of Embodied Living

21:14 Recognizing Unconscious Patterns

21:49 The Role of Relationships in Self-Awareness

22:39 Imagining Your Ideal Life

23:26 Compassionate Self-Exploration

25:01 Understanding and Honoring Survival Strategies

26:43 The Concept of Parts

34:41 Implicit vs. Explicit Memory

37:09 The Importance of Embodiment

41:38 Conclusion and Upcoming Content

For more information or to contact Cyd: https://www.cydholsclaw.com/

In this episode, we continue our conversation with Michael Sullivant who is addressing the pressing issues of church victimization and the celebrity culture within religious communities. Discover practical steps for aiding victims, rebuilding trust, and experiencing genuine spiritual healing through the Immanuel Approach.

Learn more about Michael at radiusministries.org   00:00 Introduction to the Face to Face Podcast 00:28 Exciting Announcements and Upcoming Events 03:22 Introducing Michael Sullivant 03:26 Addressing Scandals in Christian Ministries 12:15 Creating Safe Church Cultures 20:52 Embracing Weakness and Finding Strength 21:14 The Rhythms of Spiritual Life 22:03 High Energy Ministries and Nervous System Health 23:42 The Importance of Lament 26:00 Joy and Peace Amidst Sorrow 27:25 Creating Healthy Church Cultures 33:09 Offering Hope to the Victimized 36:24 Resources and Training Opportunities 37:57 Conclusion and Final Thoughts