Embarking on a heartfelt exploration,  with myself, Geo, as guest host this week, we grapple with the heavy shadows of shame and guilt, those unwelcome companions that have trailed many of us from childhood to the labyrinth of parenthood. With the sagacious Allison Garner, an executive coaching connoisseur, our roundtable pulses with the shared beat of parent's hearts, including tales from Anna and Juli. The dialogue weaves through the textures of leadership and parenting, discovering how the tenacity we admire in boardrooms can also fortify the bonds with our children, and how self-compassion serves as a beacon through our most testing times.

This episode doesn't just recount personal crossroads; it lays bare the transformative journey that follows. Through the act of journaling—a simple yet profound tool—we learn to 'get complete', fostering a deeper understanding with our children and ourselves, even amidst the stormy seas of adolescence.

Yet, the odyssey doesn't end there; it's in the ruins of a family breakdown where the seeds of discovery are often sown. I share the solace found in the embrace of Parental Alienation Advocates(PAA), where self-work became the cornerstone of my healing. Our candid discussions traverse the rocky terrain of divorce, co-parenting, and facing false accusations, concluding that transparency and ongoing dialogue are the golden threads in the tapestry of rebuilding trust and understanding within our families.

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A L L I S O N   G A R N E R

 www.bethoughtly.com

 Speaker, TedX Talk. 

 Author, "Think Possible" and “Unconditional”

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Allison’s podcast "Unhooked":

https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/unhooked/id1685954627

https://open.spotify.com/show/5b0rWoAFxlYEqp0S64oPLr 

This podcast is made possible by the Family Disappeared Team:
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As an alienated father, I've walked the rocky path of connecting with my daughters through the thinnest of threads, and that's where I discovered the healing balm of Nonviolent Communication (NVC). With my guest, Mary Mackenzie, we unravel my journey, and offer you the tools to mend and deepen the bonds within your family, even when the waters of communication seem unnavigable. My story is one of listening, not just to the words of my daughters, but to the emotions and needs that drive us all, and it's a story I'm eager to share with you.

Through the lens of empathy and patience, especially in the turbulent teen years, we examine how to manage our own emotional tempests, and extend a bridge of understanding. I'll recount the surprising advantages of 'making wrong guesses' when attempting to empathize, a tactic that invites clarity and connection rather than distance. It's not just about weathering the storm, but learning the dance steps to move in harmony with the resistance of a blossoming young adult, respecting their pace and space.

In our heart-to-heart discussion, we pivot to the ripple effects of NVC in all facets of life, highlighting it's role in personal stress relief and enhanced communication. Mary and I also explore the channels of support such as the NVC Academy and community groups that offer solace to parents feeling the ache of estrangement. Glean wisdom from our open conversation, and consider this your invitation to practice NVC for more authentic, compassionate interactions that extend far beyond the family tree.

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Mary Mackenzie : www.marymackenzie.net
NVC : www.nvcacademy.com
"Taste of Compassionate Leadership" - nvcacademy.com/media/_live-nvc-courses/TOCL/index.html
"Non Violent Communication: A Language of Life" Marshall Rosenberg
Feelings and Needs sheets and local NVC trainers: cnvc.org
International Intensive Training: cnvc.org/learn/iit

This podcast is made possible by the Family Disappeared Team:
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Have you ever found yourself in the midst of a heated argument, desperately wishing for a lifeline to navigate the emotional chaos? That's where my encounter with Nonviolent Communication (NVC) revolutionized not just how I speak, but how I live. Alongside the wisdom of Mary Mackenzie, a seasoned NVC trainer, we venture into the transformative realm of compassionate connection. This episode is far from your average communication tutorial; it's a deep dive into the very fabric of human interaction. We unravel the threads of NVC that weave through the toughest conversations, turning conflict into opportunities for growth and connection. 

 Embrace the shifts I share within my own family, where learning to engage rather than avoid conflict fostered a newfound tenderness between us. We share moments where empathy broke barriers, from guiding my mother towards understanding responses, to the surprising adeptness of young minds embracing empathetic listening. This episode is a heartfelt exploration of the profound effects empathy can have on our most cherished relationships, offering a beacon of hope for anyone yearning to bridge the gaps that keep us apart.

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NVC : www.nvcacademy.com

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Ever struggled with the delicate dance of blending families and navigating the shadows of parental alienation? I know I have. This week on Family Disappeared, join me, Lawrence Joss, alongside Steve and Alain—both fellow alienated parents—for a candid discussion on these intricate dynamics. We peel back the layers of introducing new partners to our children, the art of cultivating self-awareness, and the pivotal role communication plays in mending and forging family bonds. 

Building a family amidst the remnants of alienation is akin to treading a tightrope of emotions. Steve opens up about finding strength in the empathy of his spouse, whose own battle scars from alienation bring a depth of understanding to their union. As we traverse the landscape of these formidable ties, we discover the necessity for emotional boundaries, and the profound effects our partner's support can have on our own willingness to be vulnerable. Our collective tales give voice to the silent hopes that life's milestones might just be the catalysts for healing fractured relationships.

The act of reconnecting with a child after alienation is a journey laden with a mix of trepidation and elation. We delve into the emotional intricacies of parental reconnection, highlighting the flux of joy and apprehension when a child signals readiness to rebuild bridges. Our conversation serves as a beacon of cautious optimism for those fostering rekindled ties, emphasizing the importance of savoring triumphs while staying grounded. For anyone bracing the path of reconnecting, or simply seeking to be more present for their children, this episode is an affirmation of the resilience of the parental spirit in the face of adversity.

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Have you ever wondered how the threads of a new family are woven together amidst the remnants of the past? On this heartfelt episode of Family Disappeared, we traverse the intricate path of remarriage and step-parenting. As your host, Lawrence Joss, I share a slice of my own life, revealing the profound impact of these transitions on children, and the power of inclusivity and understanding. Our panel of parents, including Steve and Alain, peel back the layers of their experiences to offer invaluable insights into the delicate process of fostering new bonds while nurturing existing ones.

Strap in for a raw look at the emotional upheaval that comes with reconnecting with children from whom you've become estranged. Steve and Alain open up about their steps toward healing the wounds of parental alienation, from the tentative beginnings of email communication to the poignant joy and sorrow of witnessing their children's life milestones from the sidelines. Their stories lay bare the tough reality of mending parent-child relationships, navigating financial discussions, and the often-unspoken struggles that come with these efforts.

But the journey doesn't end there; understanding parental alienation can be a transformative moment for many. Listen to Alain and Steve share their tales of confusion and guilt, and how a newfound awareness has guided them towards recovery. We examine the lifeline that is community support, and the integration of alienation awareness in counselling practices.  This episode is a testament to the resilience of families, the compassion of new partners, and the profound journey towards healing and reconciliation.

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As I unraveled my own knots of estrangement and marital upheaval, I discovered the unexpected gifts hidden in life's trials. Our latest podcast episode invites you into this personal journey, alongside insights from Dr. Paul, who illuminates the indispensable role of energy management in navigating the turbulent waters of family dynamics and child custody battles.

In the throes of adversity, it's the transformative potential of our hardships that can lead us to a place of growth and creativity. Dr. Paul and I dissect the delicate dance of personal safety, righteousness, and their effects on our connections with others. We also question the impact of clinging to victimhood versus utilizing support groups as launching pads for resilience. Mary Louise Zeller, an 80-year-old 6-degree black belt in Taekwondo, graces us with her wisdom on the "white belt stuff"—the daily practice of gratitude and self-improvement that lays the foundation for a positive outlook.

Concluding with a heartfelt reminder of the power of love and gratitude, we beckon you to share these gleaned pearls of wisdom with those in your own circles. This conversation is an invitation to transform your mess into a message, a mantra to carry with you as you continue to foster happiness and well-being in every facet of life.

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Dr. Paul Jenkins - www.drpauljenkins.com

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When hope flickers in the darkness of life's toughest moments, transformation awaits.  Dr. Paul Jenkins, a psychologist specializing in positivity psychology,  joins the conversation today, illuminating the path to emotional wholeness. The conversation includes Dr. Paul's response to the heart-stopping diagnosis of his son's cancer, and champions the resilience that springs from hope, and the relentless pursuit of self-improvement.

Imagine a world where our perceptions don't imprison us but instead liberate us, where the weight of circumstance is but a feather on the scale of our minds. This revelation forms the crux of our conversation, where we delve into the power of positive thinking. We unveil how shifting comparisons, from the despairing to the hopeful, can transform our emotional landscape. This conversation is a testament to the strength we have to paint our experiences with the hues of positivity, altering the canvas of our lives.

As the episode draws to a close, the power of community comes to the forefront. The exchange of stories and questions through email isn't just encouraged, it's vital. It's in the sharing of wisdom where true growth blossoms. So, as I extend this invitation to you, our listeners, to engage and connect, let's remember that together, we're building a bastion of support for each other, a place where hope thrives and the spirit of positivity prevails.

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Glaze Gonzales- Podcast Manager

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As I laid bare the raw edges of my heart, recounting the times my children seemed like distant stars in a sky I could no longer reach, our community conversation took a turn toward the cathartic. We navigated the difficult terrain of parental alienation, a path I've walked with heavy steps, and emerged with a deeper understanding of the healing process that is possible when one embraces accountability and personal growth. As a group, we shed light on the silent struggles and the unexpected gratitude that can blossom from such profound adversity, reshaping relationships and offering a beacon of hope for reconciliation.

This episode is a heartfelt exploration of the transformative journey from estrangement to emotional and spiritual health. It's about the courage it takes to let go of anger and to become receptive to new ways of connecting, sharing, and healing. We delve into the significance of truth-telling within family systems, the vulnerability required to break the cycle of generational trauma, and the gentle balance needed to respect autonomy while fostering connection. By the end, you'll come away with not only a collection of personal recovery stories, but also an invitation to reflect on your own relationships, and perhaps find your own doorway to healing, peace, and a deeper connection with those you love.

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The pain of family estrangement cuts deep, and in our latest episode, we grapple with this silent struggle alongside guests from the PAA community.  We share not only our own heart-wrenching experiences of alienation from our children but also the journeys of others who are navigating these turbulent waters. Embark on a conversation that is both a map and a compass for those seeking to mend the fractures within their own families, and discover the solace that comes with knowing you're not navigating these rough seas alone.

As we unfold the layers of emotional landscapes shaped by broken bonds and societal constructs, you'll find yourself immersed in a dialogue that's as real as it gets. We delve into how childhood traumas echo through generations and the ways in which these hidden currents can lead to alienation. The insights gained here are not just theoretical—they're lived experiences that provide clarity on the path to healing, the responsibilities of parenting, and the transformation that comes when one confronts their identity within the family unit.

The journey doesn't end with understanding the problem; it beckons us toward recovery and advocacy. Our conversation culminates as we highlight the transformative power of support systems, such as Parental Alienation programs that foster self-improvement and bridge-building with our children. These poignant tales reveal the strength found in vulnerability, the gratitude for life's trials, and the hope for a reunion. Each story is a testament to the relentless pursuit of reconnection and the belief that, despite the past's shadows, a brighter future for our families is within reach.

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Glaze Gonzales- Podcast Manager

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Embarking on a profound odyssey through emotional landscapes, I found that healing personal wounds and transforming relationships starts with the language we use and the understanding of our own neural pathways. Our guest, Sarah, with her expertise in relational neuroscience and self-compassion, joins me to share insights that can turn the brain into a sanctuary of warmth and empathy. Throughout the discussion, we unravel how Nonviolent Communication (NVC), family constellations, and neuroscience not only reshaped my relationship with my father but also offer others a blueprint for reconnecting with family members and resolving generational scars.

Touching upon the nurturing power of empathy in parenting, we reveal the subtle strength behind a simple phrase like "Are you willing?" and discuss how it can cultivate cooperation in our children. The transformative journey from confrontation to compassion exemplifies the shift that's possible when we apply NVC in our familial interactions. We also delve into the concept of embodied parenting, exploring how our language patterns and attachment styles can pave the way for a partnership-oriented family dynamics, and how creating a secure emotional environment can lead to healthier, more grounded offspring.

Finally, we dissect the systemic factors that seep into our family fabric, acknowledging how societal influences like poverty and racism contribute to the intergenerational transmission of trauma. A captivating case study from a constellation workshop provides a vivid example of how historical events still echo in today's relationships. Sarah's contributions, including her works "Your Resonant Self" and the accompanying workbook, are highlighted as essential guides for anyone on the quest for personal growth and healing. Together, we underscore the significance of understanding family systems in the broader context of societal struggles and the importance of supporting initiatives that bring these life-affirming communication modalities to the forefront of our community.

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Sarah Peyton:  www.sarahpeyton.com

This podcast is made possible by the Family Disappeared Team:
Anna Johnson- Editor/Contributor/Activist/Co-host
Glaze Gonzales- Podcast Manager

Connect with Lawrence Joss:
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