By Diane Brandon Moody
A fun romp through dating in the golden years with tips & tricks for dating, discussions about female sexuality after age 50, relationship goals, living with loss of the love of your life, heal
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Give this to your guy friends.
Make an effort!
Ask her out within the week.
Do NOT talk about sex with her until the third date minimum!
Just tell her if you're not interested.
Put some good photos on your profile. No shots up the nose.
Send it to all your pals!
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Women, what you can do to stand out in the sea of single women out there.
*Be positive! In the early stages, you are trying to impress not repel. You have plenty of time to be real eventually but start out sunshine and roses.
*He doesn't have enough data to know you otherwise. Give him enough good data so when the little stuff going wrong won't stand out.
*Be specific if you change dates.
*Do you know what you want? And are you realistic? These are real men not Disney princes. Please don't over rotate on the topic of wanting a tall man.
*Uncertainty is uncomfortable but you can get over it.
*Pictures!!! Do them right.
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Are you up for this challenge?!
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50 places = 52 weeks in a year
Pick one place a week and have an open mind. Look for evidence and data.
Not your obligation to worry about whether he/she is married or not. Ask for advice, reach for a top shelf, what do you like with your steak? BFD, no issues.
Use a journal, write about your experience. What went right and what didn't?
Pick something else the next week.
I love dancing.
Take a girlfriend, but separate at the door.
Home Depot, but don't worry about it if it doesn't work.
Kicking off on October 1.
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FENG SHUI – WHEN YOU WANT TO USE A LITTLE WOO IN YOUR WOOING
*BIG BELIEVER IN FENG SHUI. I DON’T KNOW IF IT WORKS BECAUSE I THINK IT WORKS OR BECAUSE IT REALLY DOES. DON’T KNOW AND DON’T CARE.
*Feng Shui is the ancient Chinese art of placement and energy. The belief is that energy swirls around your home and you can either block the energy or you enhance it. Each home has areas assigned to each part of life, including love. Let’s enhance that area, not block it!
*I DON’T BELIEVE FENG SHUI TAKES THE PLACE OF COACHING BECAUSE YOU COULD STILL GET IN YOUR OWN WAY PLENTY OF TIMES, BUT I THINK IT HELPS.
*HERE’S HOW TO DO IT:
DOWNLOAD A BAGUA FROM THE INTERNET – I’VE INCLUDED ONE I LIKE IN THE SHOW NOTES.
FENG SHUI MANHATTAN https://fengshuimanhattan.com/blog/2018/6/21/feng-shui-bagua-map-basics-for-your-home
PRETEND YOU’RE LAYING THIS GRID OVER THE FLOOR PLAN OF YOUR HOUSE.
THE CAREER AREA IS YOUR FRONT DOOR OR THE DOOR TO ANY ROOM YOU PLAN TO WORK ON.
FROM THE CAREER AREA, YOU LOOK TO THE BACK OF THE HOUSE AND IN THE FAR RIGHT CORNER IS YOUR LOVE AND ROMANCE CORNER. HERE ARE SOME TIPS FOR YOUR LOVE AREA:
*First of all, no single items, no photos or pictures of you by yourself or anyone by themselves. These may be wonderful pieces of art, but make sure you put them in other places in your bagua.
*You only want pairs. Somehow I inherited two wooden carved elephants. Those are perfect for where my love area is, which incidentally is our bedroom. If you have a picture up, make it one of you and your beloved. If you don’t have a beloved, move the picture of just you elsewhere. If you have a picture of your dog, move it unless you have two dogs. Lovebirds is a great option, amazon has some.
*You can decorate with fresh flowers – make sure they are alive and get rid of them immediately once they die. You can also decorate with photos or paintings with flowers. That works just as well.
*You don’t want conflict in this room. No object or image that’s negative, sad, makes you angry or lonely. If you really like the art, put it in another place.
*Feel free to decorate with pink, red or white – but don’t make it too girly if you’re single. If you’re looking for a relationship with a man, you’ll want the place to be very comfortable for both of you.
*If you like sexy art, I found some great pieces for a reasonable about of money on Etsy. But again, if you have a person in the artwork, make sure it’s two people.
*Do not put a mirror across from your bed. The energy bounces back and forth. You can cover it with a towel or a sheer curtain if you want to improve the restfulness.
*if your love area is in a cluttered area like a garage or a closet, clean it out as soon as possible.
*Healthy green plants are helpful in the love area. Put them in a clay pot for maximum effect.
Let me know how these tips help – or don’t – at [email protected]. I’ll try to help you out.
And here’s a reminder. If you haven’t reached out for my 50 places to meet people over 50, now’s a great time. Go to my website – dianebrandonmoody.com and you’ll find it. Easy breezy!
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00:40 What's important to you in a relationship?
01:30 Staying longer than you should
02:10 What's really important?
03:40 An illustration of why knowing what's important
04:58 Ridiculous ideas of compatibility
06:40 Pick your biggest ally and fan
07:31 Rapidfire questions
08:40 Signoff
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No fancy music this week, just slapping it up there!
Talking to the single ladies over 50 today.
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Book a Love Audit with me - 30 minute, no obligation call. www.dianebrandonmoody.com/love-audit
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Taking a little break so replaying some of my biggest hits.
Talking to Vanessa Ross, a clinician, midwife and certified menopause educator.
You really want to hear this one!
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Joan Wiseman is a coach for women who are ready to leave the relationship with a married man.
This was an incredibly popular episode when it first aired in May.
How do you feel about this episode? Like it? Does it piss you off? Let me know!
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Introduction to Diane Brandon Moody. Get 50 ways to meet singles over 50 at www.dianebrandonmoody.com/50-ways.
Talking to Deanna Marie who is coaching women in alcoholic relationships. She talks about her background and how there were no resources for her. So she created them!
How could she understand their struggles without her life history?
Pervasive issue: they didn't get into the relationship because they really loved the alcoholic and had a vision for the future. How to reconcile?
How do you help? Case by case basis. Some choose to stay, some choose to go. Empowering them to create a life tomorrow by working today. She supports them wherever they are.
DeannaMarieLifeCoaching.com. Online group therapy sessions available.
One tip: Why you want to stay/go and see which one aligns with you more.
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This is Diane Brandon Moody, a dating coach for people over 50. Join us today as I explore the topic of conscious men with Mike Watts. He's married to Kate Northrup, is a co-founder of their company together and the father to two daughters. He's the first guy to appear as a guest on FiftySomething Love and the first person much younger than 50.
What's a panty dropper?! Listen and we'll finish the thought from the first episode.
I encourage women to encourage the men in their lives to listen.
Have a conversation, a real one without distractions, talk about the future.
Don't get stuck in the how.
The super power is in the discomfort.
The panty dropper is learning how to listen and apologize, but women need to quit apologizing all the time.
He genuinely apologized for something he did wrong. Usually when he's mad, it's about him, not "you." He felt like apologizing might be weakness.
Discusses relationship to time, end of life and where healing needs to take place.
Dudes, you can learn to apologize correctly and we don't have to fix everything.
What do you want? It helps give guidance.
Discussing polarity. For men, find men to work things out with and the same with women.
If men would ask questions of women they meet, they are automatically up several notches.
Talking about getting to know people dating.
Asking my list of favorite questions.
Parting words of wisdom. Have a lot of grace for each other. Become the person you want to be with! "I am the only one I can be in charge of." How do I show up in the world? Who are you hanging with?
www.dianebrandonmoody.com/50-places to find a list of 50 places to meet people over 50.
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The podcast currently has 31 episodes available.