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Five Year You episodes

  • How To Deal With Disappointment

    Disappointment is part of being human — but that doesn’t mean it’s easy. In this episode, we unpack how to actually deal with the daily (and devastating) letdowns of life — without losing yourself or spiraling.

    🧠 What You'll Learn:
    • A compassionate definition of disappointment (hint: it’s unmet expectations)
    • Why disappointment hurts more when you internalize it
    • The difference between processing vs. avoiding pain
    • Why your disappointment is likely tied to control or safety
    • How to express hurt to others without damaging your relationships
    • The power of reframing setbacks as invitations for something better

    💡 Real-Life Insights:
    • What to say to someone who constantly cancels plans
    • How Andrew and Cat are teaching their kids to ask for what they need
    • Why expressing disappointment in a kind, clear way can actually strengthen relationships
    • The mind-body impact of suppressing negative emotions

    ✅ Our Go-To Reframes:
    • “Rejection is protection.”
    • “I’m not upset — I’m just disappointed.”
    • “There must be something better coming.”
    • “This didn’t define my worth — I’m still me.”
    • “What if this is an invitation for something I couldn’t see yet?”

    🛠️ Tools to Work Through Disappointment:
    • ✍️ Journaling: Don’t let unspoken emotion fester
    • 🧘 Deep Breathing or a Walk: Move the energy through you
    • 🎯 Core Values: Anchor into who you are, not what happened
    • 💬 Honest Conversations: Kindly express what let you down
    • 🧠 Curiosity: “I wonder what this situation is trying to teach me?”

    ✨ Glimmers of the Week:

    Cat: A wild “May-cember” day suddenly opened up — less chaos, more music, and her daughter’s orchestra concert.

    Andrew: His son finally gets to go fishing, and his daughter is graduating. A proud and peaceful parenting week.

    💬 Want Help Navigating Life’s Letdowns?

    If you’ve been stuck in a loop of disappointment — with people, plans, or yourself — you don’t have to stay there. Five Year You coaching can help you reframe, rebuild, and rediscover your path.

    👉 Book a Clarity Call → https://fiveyearyou.com

    📧 Email us → [email protected]

    📸 Follow us → https://instagram.com/fiveyearyou

    Remember:

    Disappointment isn’t failure — it’s feedback.

    It’s not a signal that you’re broken — it’s an opportunity to build a deeper relationship with yourself.

    Feel it, learn from it, release it.

    #FiveYearYou #DisappointmentRecovery #MindsetShift #SelfCompassion #EmotionalResilience #LetdownRecovery #RejectionIsProtection #GrowthMindset #PersonalDevelopmentPodcast #MindBodyConnection

    26 min
  • How to Stop Procrastinating

    Hosts: Andrew Dewar & Catherine Collins

    Ever feel like you're stuck in a loop of “I’ll do it later”? You're not alone. In this episode, we unpack why procrastination isn’t a character flaw — it’s part of being human. And more importantly, we share real strategies (and deep compassion) to help you take that first step forward.

    🧠 What You'll Learn:
    • Why procrastination is not laziness — it’s actually how your brain protects you
    • How procrastination is often a self-worth issue in disguise
    • The science behind why starting is the hardest part
    • Why “future you” is your best productivity hack
    • The tools, systems, and mindset shifts we use to get things done without burnout
    • How scaffolding and environment design beat willpower every time

    ✅ Practical Tips We Share:
    • The “Future Me” Hack: Leave little love notes for tomorrow’s you
    • Light the First Log: Do the smallest possible action to build momentum
    • Habit Stacking (from Atomic Habits)
    • The 5-Minute Rule: If it takes less than 5 minutes, do it now
    • Environmental Scaffolding: Use cues like headphones or a clean desk to trigger deep work
    • The Magic of Timing Tasks: Most dreaded tasks take less time than you think
    • App & Tech Tools for focus and productivity

    📱 Tools We Mention:
    • 📱 Opal App – Focus tool that blocks distractions on your phone
    • https://www.opal.so
    • 🎧 Brain.fm (Free YouTube Version) – Binaural beats to help you focus
    • https://www.youtube.com/@BrainfmApp
    • 📖 Atomic Habits by James Clear
    • https://www.amazon.com/dp/0735211299?tag=5yy-20
    • 📖 Hidden Potential by Adam Grant
    • https://www.amazon.com/dp/0593653141?tag=5yy-20

    💬 Our Favorite Mantras:
    • “Future me will thank me for this.”
    • “Light the first log.”
    • “Progress beats perfection.”
    • “If it’s less than five minutes, do it now.”
    • “You're not behind — you're just beginning.”

    ✨ Glimmers of the Week:

    Cat: Finally scheduled a dentist appointment that’s been on the list for a year.

    Andrew: His daughter received two scholarships — proof that effort pays off.

    🧭 Want Support With Procrastination or Clarity?

    If you know what you want to do, but keep putting it off, coaching may help. We specialize in helping people get unstuck, build momentum, and create a life they love — one day at a time.

    👉 Book a Clarity Call → https://fiveyearyou.com

    📧 Email us → [email protected]

    📸 Follow us → https://instagram.com/fiveyearyou

    ⚠️ Reminder:

    You’re not lazy — you’re just tired, overwhelmed, or misaligned. Give yourself grace, use the right tools, and take one small step today.

    #StopProcrastinating #FiveYearYou #SelfWorthJourney #ProductivityTips #AtomicHabits #MindsetShift #DeepWork #OvercomeOverwhelm #BinauralBeats #FocusTools

    30 min
  • How We Lost 50 Lbs

    Hosts: Andrew Dewar & Catherine Collins

    This episode isn’t about weight loss fads or rigid diet plans. It’s a real, raw look at how we changed our lives through self-worth, gut health, and intentional choices. We didn’t set out to lose weight — we set out to feel better. The 50-pound loss? That was just a powerful side effect.

    🧠 What You'll Learn:
    • Why this wasn’t a weight loss journey — it was a mental health journey
    • How healing the gut transformed everything from energy to skin
    • What autoimmune symptoms disappeared after our food changes
    • Why we focused on feeling better, not counting calories
    • How boredom and procrastination fuel emotional eating
    • The 3 key mindset shifts that helped us keep the weight off

    📚 Resources Mentioned:
    • 📖 The Plant Paradox by Dr. Steven Gundry
    • https://www.amazon.com/dp/006242713X?tag=5yy-20
    • 📖 Gut Check by Dr. Steven Gundry
    • https://www.amazon.com/dp/0062911804?tag=5yy-20
    • 📖 Fast Like a Girl by Dr. Mindy Pelz
    • https://www.amazon.com/dp/1401969925?tag=5yy-20
    • 📖 Fast This Way by Dave Asprey
    • https://www.amazon.com/dp/0062882864?tag=5yy-20
    • 📖 Calm Your Mind with Food by Dr. Uma Naidoo
    • https://www.amazon.com/dp/0316312493?tag=5yy-20
    • 🔬 23andMe Health + Ancestry DNA Kit (Used for discovering gluten and beef sensitivity)
    • https://www.23andme.com
    • 💧 Tap Water Database (EWG Water Quality Tool)
    • https://www.ewg.org/tapwater/
    • 🧠 Brain Health Coaching by A Mind For All Seasons
    • https://www.amindforallseasons.com

    💬 Our Key Takeaways:
    • Food is either fueling you or inflaming you
    • Weight loss came after gut healing — not calorie counting
    • Organic food costs balanced out by skipping processed snacks
    • Fasting helped us become aware of emotional and boredom eating
    • You don’t have to exercise first — we didn’t! Year 1 was about food and mindset
    • Feeling better led to more energy, and more energy led to action
    • True transformation begins with self-worth

    ⚡ Favorite Tools & Habits:
    • Joint iPhone Notes to track food sensitivities
    • Organic, anti-inflammatory grocery list
    • Daily minerals & supplements (Vitamin D, Magnesium, Vegan Omega-3s)
    • Simple meals = fewer decisions = less temptation
    • “Will future me thank me for eating this?” (our mental mantra)

    🌱 Want Help Creating Your Own Transformation?

    We don’t offer medical advice — but if you're ready to build a five-year plan focused on clarity, wellness, and joy, let’s talk.

    👉 Book a Clarity Call → https://fiveyearyou.com

    📧 Email us → [email protected]

    📸 Instagram → https://instagram.com/fiveyearyou

    💡 Glimmers of the Week:

    Catherine – Hearing there are no autoimmune markers in her most recent bloodwork 🙌

    Andrew – Feeling proud of the healing journey they’ve walked together 💛

    ⚠️ Disclaimer:

    This video is for educational purposes only. We are not medical professionals. Always consult with your doctor before making changes to your diet, medication, or supplements. Some links may be affiliate links.

    📌 Comment below:

    Have you ever made a major change that started with a small decision? Tell us about it.

    And don’t forget to Like + Subscribe if you want more real, relatable personal development content.

    #FiveYearYou #GutHealth #WeightLossJourney #MentalHealthMatters #AutoimmuneHealing #AntiInflammatoryDiet #PersonalGrowth #LifeTransformation #NotADiet #SelfWorthJourney

    37 min
  • Not Feeling Ready

    In this episode, Andrew and Catherine open up about what it really means to “not feel ready.” Whether it’s rollerblading again as an adult, starting a business, or making a major life change, the truth is: you may never feel fully ready—and that’s okay. This episode is here to help you take that first step anyway.

    🧠 What You'll Learn:
    • Why waiting to feel ready might be holding you back
    • How to reframe fear as a signal, not a stop sign
    • Real client stories about starting before you felt “ready”
    • What neuroscience says about creating a new version of yourself
    • The difference between being avoidant and being aware
    • Why coaching, accountability, and micro-moves create momentum

    🛠️ Practical Tools & Insights:
    1. Do it badly: Anything worth doing well is worth doing horribly at first
    2. Create space to be a beginner again
    3. Focus on joy, not outcomes
    4. Take the first step, not the full staircase (MLK Jr.)
    5. Try new things without monetizing them
    6. Ask: What could I do today that’s just for me?

    🧭 Resources & Mentions:
    • Book: Breaking the Habit of Being Yourself by Dr. Joe Dispenza
    • https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/13562982-breaking-the-habit-of-being-yourself
    • Quote Reference: Rumi – “As you start to walk on the way, the way appears.”
    • https://www.goodreads.com/quotes/106298-as-you-start-to-walk-on-the-way-the
    • Quote Reference: Martin Luther King Jr. – “You don’t have to see the whole staircase…”
    • https://www.goodreads.com/quotes/948-you-don-t-have-to-see-the-whole-staircase-just-take
    • Audible Free Trial (for the books mentioned):
    • https://www.amazon.com/dp/B00NB86OYE?tag=5yy-20

    💡 Glimmers of the Week:

    Catherine – Getting book ideas from her vibrant Instagram community

    Andrew – Watching the Winnipeg Jets win in overtime and feel alive again

    🌐 Connect with Five Year You:

    Website → https://fiveyearyou.com

    Instagram → https://instagram.com/fiveyearyou

    Email → [email protected]

    ⚠️ Disclaimer:

    This podcast is for educational and inspirational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional coaching or therapy. Some links may be affiliate links, meaning we may earn a small commission at no extra cost to you.

    💬 What’s one thing you’ve been waiting to feel ready for?

    Drop it in the comments—and take one small step today.

    🔔 Subscribe for weekly episodes to help you become your future self.

    #FiveYearYou #PersonalGrowth #SelfImprovement #NotFeelingReady #MindsetShift #BeginnerMindset #CoachingSupport #Neuroplasticity #FiveTribe

    25 min
  • How To Find Hope

    Hosts: Andrew Dewar & Catherine Collins

    Feeling anxious about the world, your future, or just stuck in a funk? You’re not alone—and you’re not broken. In this heartening episode of Five Year You, Andrew and Catherine share how to reconnect with hope during uncertain times, using mindset shifts, body-based tools, and small acts of kindness that actually work.

    Whether you’re struggling with job loss, burnout, or just the general heaviness of the news cycle, this episode offers realistic and uplifting ways to find hope—even when it feels out of reach.

    🧭 What You’ll Learn in This Episode:
    • How to shift out of fear and panic into possibility
    • The power of perspective: finding silver linings in everyday struggles
    • What to do when your nervous system is overloaded
    • How movement, music, and even Super Mario Bros. can rewire your mood
    • Using gratitude and future-self journaling to build internal hope
    • How being the hope for someone else can lift your own spirits
    • Simple ways to interrupt negative thought patterns
    • Why your coping skills matter more than ever

    🛠️ Practical Takeaways:
    1. Change your input: Unfollow negative news and seek out uplifting content.
    2. Move your body: Go for a walk, dance, or play Tetris (yes, really—it’s backed by neuroscience).
    3. Future journal: Write a note from your future self, imagining life going right.
    4. Give to others: Deliver a meal, send a note, or join a volunteer group like Lasagna Love.
    5. Use a “feel better” checklist: Check sleep, hydration, food, sunlight, and laughter.
    6. Play and laugh: Watch a silly show, listen to happy music, or revisit childhood joy.
    7. Practice gratitude: Even old cars with broken locks can become part of your healing story.
    8. Accept your feelings: Hope doesn’t mean you ignore what’s hard—it means you believe in what comes next.

    📚 Resources Mentioned:
    • Lasagna Love Volunteer & Request a Meal
    • Show Her Off Dance App
    • Hidden Potential by Adam Grant
    • Audible Free Trial
    • Opal App – Screen Time Management

    ✨ Favorite Quotes:“Hope isn’t something you find—it’s something you build, one small action at a time.”“What you do for others, you do for yourself.”“If you’ve survived everything so far, you’ll survive this too.”🌟 Glimmers of the Week:

    Catherine: Starting a couples' living room dance class through Show Her Off and smiling the entire time.

    Andrew: Dusting off his rollerblades and feeling the joy of moving outside again.

    📲 Let’s Stay Connected:

    🌐 Website: https://fiveyearyou.com

    📸 Instagram: https://instagram.com/fiveyearyou

    📧 Email: [email protected]

    ⚠️ Disclaimer:

    We are not licensed therapists. This podcast is intended for educational and inspirational purposes only. Please reach out to a mental health professional if you’re in need of personalized support. Some links may be affiliate links—we only recommend what we truly love.

    💬 Feeling hopeless lately? Drop a comment below with one thing that brings you joy—big or small. Let’s build hope together.

    🔔 Don’t forget to subscribe so you never miss a weekly dose of inspiration.

    #FiveYearYou #FindHope #MentalHealthPodcast #AnxietySupport #CopingSkills #PersonalGrowth #FutureSelf #PodcastDescription #GratitudePractice #HopeBuilders

    27 min
  • Healing Isn't Always Pretty

    Hosts: Andrew Dewar & Catherine Collins

    Let’s talk about the real side of healing—the hard, messy, emotional parts that no one puts in a quote card. In this heartfelt episode, Andrew opens up about his return to EMDR therapy, and both hosts explore what it actually feels like to face emotional growth head-on.

    Whether you're just beginning your healing journey or you're knee-deep in the “garbage removal” phase, this episode will remind you that you're not alone—and it’s okay to feel all the feelings.

    Book your coaching call here: https://fiveyearyou.com/call

    👇 Scroll for tools, inspiration, and resources to support your journey.

    🧠 Topics We Cover in This Episode:
    • What EMDR therapy is and why it’s helpful
    • Why healing feels worse before it feels better
    • The “emotional garbage” metaphor and why it’s spot-on
    • How to support someone going through a dark day
    • Self-care vs. avoidance: knowing the difference
    • Building your “coping skill fanny pack”
    • How to recognize your healing patterns over time
    • Why we need to normalize therapy and mental health check-ins


    📚 Resources Mentioned:

    🧠 What Is EMDR Therapy? - EMDR Institute

    📱 Opal App – Mindful Screen Time

    🎧 Try Audible Free – Process & Reflect on the Go

    🍳 Our Favorite Instant Pot


    💬 Favorite Quotes:

    “Healing isn’t always pretty. Sometimes it’s crying in the shower or just making it through the day.”

    “You can’t outsource your healing—you have to take out your own emotional trash.”

    “Your batting average for surviving hard days is 100% so far.”


    🌟 Glimmers of the Week:

    Andrew: A joyful and productive week spent together with Catherine.

    Catherine: Sunshine, blooming tulips, and walks in the spring air after a long Chicago winter.


    🧰 Action Steps You Can Take:
    • Book a therapy session—before you’re in crisis.
    • Identify your coping tools (music, walks, calling a friend).
    • Create a post-therapy buffer zone—no PTA meetings right after deep work.
    • Tell someone you trust if you’re struggling.
    • Repeat this mantra: “I am allowed to heal at my own pace.”


    📲 Stay Connected:

    🌐 Website: https://fiveyearyou.com

    📸 Instagram: https://instagram.com/fiveyearyou

    📧 Email: [email protected]


    ⚠️ Disclaimer:

    We are not licensed therapists. This podcast is for educational and inspirational purposes only. Please reach out to a mental health professional for personal guidance. Some links are affiliate links—we may earn a small commission.


    💬 Have you had a moment when healing didn’t feel pretty—but you came out stronger?

    Share it in the comments. Your story might help someone else.


    🔔 Subscribe for new episodes every week and share with someone who might need this message today.


    #FiveYearYou #HealingIsntAlwaysPretty #MentalHealthMatters #EMDR #PersonalGrowth #CopingSkills #EmotionalHealing #TherapyJourney #SelfCareTools #Podcast

    28 min
  • Overcoming Setbacks

    Hosts: Andrew Dewar & Catherine Collins

    In this episode of Five Year You, we get real about failure, setbacks, and those moments when life just… derails. If you’ve ever asked, “Why is this happening to me?”—this conversation will help you reframe the tough moments and find meaning, strength, and even humor in the mess.

    👇 Scroll for tools, timestamps, and links!

    ✨ What You'll Learn in This Episode:

    • Why setbacks are a natural part of the growth journey
    • The importance of mindset: victim vs. curiosity
    • Practical coping skills for when you’re in the middle of a setback
    • The power of contrast days
    • How reframing failure helps you become the person you're meant to be
    • Parenting wisdom: why we shouldn’t shield kids from failure
    • How to process big feelings—without getting stuck
    • Fanny pack of coping tools (yes, we said that)

    ✅ Helpful Tools & Resources:

    📱 Opal App – Reduce Screen Time & Reclaim Life

    🎧 Audible Free Trial – Personal Development on the Go

    🍳 Instant Pot – Save Time, Eat Well

    💬 Favorite Quotes:

    “Setbacks are just bricks in the foundation of your strength.”“If being hard on yourself worked, you'd be happy by now.”“Sometimes a contrast day is exactly what reminds you how good the good days are.”“You don’t need a podcast to use your pain to help someone else.”



    🌟 Glimmers of the Week:

    Catherine: Finally making a long-put-off doctor appointment thanks to a little loving push.

    Andrew: Wearing yellow for the first time and loving the way it feels.


    📲 Stay Connected:

    🌐 Website: https://fiveyearyou.com

    📸 Instagram: https://instagram.com/fiveyearyou

    📧 Email: [email protected]


    ⚠️ Disclaimer:

    This content is for informational purposes only and not intended as a substitute for professional mental health or medical advice. Some links may be affiliate links. As an Amazon Associate, we may earn from qualifying purchases.


    💬 Your Turn:

    What’s a setback that taught you something valuable?

    Drop it in the comments—we’d love to hear your story.

    🔔 Don’t forget to subscribe and tap the bell for weekly inspiration.

    🎧 Available wherever you get your podcasts.


    #FiveYearYou #OvercomingSetbacks #MentalHealthTools #PersonalGrowth #CopingSkills #LifeLessons #SelfImprovement #Resilience #Podcast #AndrewDewar #CatherineCollins

    29 min
  • How To Find More Time
    Episode Overview:

    In this episode, Andrew and Catherine dive into one of the most common challenges of modern life: time scarcity. They debunk the myth that "everyone has the same 24 hours" and offer practical strategies for reclaiming your day, without guilt or shame. Whether you're feeling overwhelmed or just want to use your time more intentionally, this conversation blends mindset shifts with real-life hacks to help you create more freedom in your schedule.


    Key Topics Covered:
    • Why the "same 24 hours" concept is flawed
    • The first step: awareness and identifying where your time really goes
    • Tools like the Opal app to track screen usage and recapture time
    • Time guilt vs. intentional living
    • How micro-moments of connection count more than rigid blocks
    • Reframing movement: "exercise sipping" and stacking activity into existing routines
    • Future Self Thinking: framing daily choices as gifts to your tomorrow self
    • Identifying "dead time" and turning it into productive or restful time
    • Avoiding shame around productivity and honoring seasons of life



    Actionable Steps for Listeners:
    1. Track Your Time: Use screen trackers like Opal to bring awareness to phone use.
    2. Make One Meaningful Connection a Day: Especially with your kids, focus on quality, not quantity.
    3. Use "Dead Time" Wisely: Listen to audiobooks during errands, do squats while your coffee brews.
    4. Time Things: Fold laundry, clean the kitchen – then realize how little time it really takes.
    5. Stack Habits: Pair movement or learning with existing routines.
    6. Give Yourself Grace: Your season of life might not be your season for building big things, and that's okay.



    Quotes:"Your internal representation of time becomes your external experience of it.""The dishes don’t take an hour – they just feel like they do when you’re tired.""Sometimes the kindest thing you can do is stare into space while the coffee brews."



    Catherine’s Aha Moments:
    • Realizing that she was spending decades of her life on her phone and using Opal to cut that time dramatically.
    • Switching from task-shaming to future-self thinking: "Morning Catherine will love that I did this now."

    Andrew’s Aha Moments:
    • Understanding how micro-movements like "planking during espresso" add up to full workouts over time.
    • Emphasizing that if something truly matters to you, you'll find the time for it, but it has to be intentional.



    Glimmers of the Week:

    Catherine: Morning puzzles and one-on-one time with her son, appreciating the rarity of alone time with twins.

    Andrew: Clothes shopping with his son – fast, intentional, and a reminder of the joy in simple connections.



    Resources Mentioned:
    • Opal App for Screen Time Management
    • Instant Pot
    • Audible Free Trial



    Connect with Us:

    Visit Five Year You for more resources and coaching opportunities.

    Follow us on Instagram: @fiveyearyou

    Email: [email protected]



    Disclaimer:

    This podcast is for informational purposes only and does not substitute professional advice. Please consult a healthcare provider for any medical, emotional, or personal concerns. Some links mentioned in this episode may be affiliate links. As an Amazon Associate, we earn from qualifying purchases.

    28 min
  • How to Constantly Improve Yourself

    Hosts: Andrew Dewar & Catherine Collins

    🔑 Episode Overview:

    What does it actually take to grow into your best self—not just once, but every single day? In this episode, Andrew and Catherine break down the mindset, strategies, and small daily decisions that lead to ongoing self-improvement. They share hard-earned insights on how to enjoy the process of becoming, rather than chasing the elusive finish line of success. From their own lifestyle shifts to practical coaching tools, this episode is for anyone who wants to feel proud of their growth and find peace in the present.

    🔍 Key Topics Covered:
    • Why achievers often struggle with contentment
    • How to enjoy where you are and pursue growth
    • Why being kind to yourself speeds up results
    • What the "energy of improvement" really means
    • The dangers of trying to fix everything at once
    • Steps to build momentum that actually sticks

    🌟 Actionable Steps for Listeners:
    1. Start with why you want to improve—what’s your real motivation?
    2. Narrow your focus to one area or habit at a time.
    3. Make your first step so small it feels silly.
    4. Track your gain, not your gap.
    5. Be kind to yourself every step of the way.

    💬 Quotes:

    Andrew’s Aha Moments:

    • “If being hard on yourself worked, you'd be happy by now.”
    • “Happiness isn't in the future. It's a choice you make now.”
    • “You need to build trust with yourself by keeping small promises.”
    • “Start every step as if you could only pick 10 changes for life.”
    • “Every puzzle gets solved one piece at a time. So does your life.”

    Catherine’s Aha Moments:

    • “Kindness to yourself is the biggest cheat code in self-growth.”
    • “Try a slow roll. Habits stick better that way.”
    • “Improving your life should be joyful—not punishment.”
    • “You can love your life now and still want more.”
    • “Even thinking about improving your life is a form of growth.”

    🎨 Glimmers of the Week:

    Andrew: A short read called Walking Your Blues Away by Thom Hartmann. It unlocked the science behind walking as emotional therapy and daily healing. Highly recommend!

    Catherine: Bulletproof Coffee Pods from Amazon. An easy, on-the-go version of the full Bulletproof morning routine. Tastes good, feels even better!

    📅 Resources Mentioned:
    • Walking Your Blues Away by Thom Hartmann: Amazon Affiliate Link
    • Bulletproof Coffee Pods – Amazon

    💬 Connect with Us:
    • Visit FiveYearYou.com for more resources and coaching.
    • Follow us on Instagram: @fiveyearyou
    • Email us anytime at: [email protected]

    ⚠️ Disclaimer:

    This podcast is for informational and inspirational purposes only and does not substitute for professional advice. Always consult your own coach, therapist, or medical professional before making significant life changes. Some links in this episode may be affiliate links, meaning we may receive a small commission if you purchase through them—at no cost to you. Thank you for supporting the show!

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  • Courage over Comfort

    Episode Overview:

    In this episode, Andrew and Catherine dive into the concept of "Courage Over Comfort." They explore how our brains are wired for survival, how our desire for comfort can sometimes hold us back, and how pushing through fear, even in small ways, can lead to personal growth. Whether it's making a difficult decision or simply getting through the day, courage is a key element in becoming the best version of yourself.

    Key Topics Covered:

    • Understanding the brain’s survival instincts and how they impact our fear responses.
    • The importance of pushing past comfort zones, even in small ways.
    • How everyday acts of courage, like facing fears or stepping into the unknown, contribute to growth.
    • The battle between ego and growth, and how to navigate it.
    • Courage as a daily habit and how to start small to expand your comfort zone.
    • Personal anecdotes and reflections on moments where courage was necessary, from everyday challenges to bigger life changes.

    Actionable Steps for Listeners:

    1. Acknowledge Your Fear: Understand that fear is a natural part of growth. Embrace it as a signal that you are stepping outside of your comfort zone.
    2. Start Small: Begin with small acts of courage, like trying a new food, taking a different route to work, or saying no to something you usually say yes to.
    3. Celebrate Everyday Courage: Recognize the courageous things you already do, such as getting out of bed or taking on responsibilities.
    4. Challenge Your Comfort Zone: Find one area of your life where you feel comfortable and try to push the boundary just a little bit.
    5. Shift Your Perspective: Instead of viewing fear as a barrier, see it as an opportunity for growth and learning.

    Quotes:

    • “Courage comes in all sorts of things. It comes from saying no to things that you usually say yes to.” – Andrew Dewar
    • “One of the most courageous acts you will do is to live a life that is uniquely yours.” – Catherine Collins
    • “Courage is not always about huge heroic acts; sometimes it’s just about doing the small things that push you out of your routine.” – Andrew Dewar
    • “You have been courageous your whole life, you just may not have recognized it.” – Catherine Collins

    Catherine’s Aha Moments:

    • Realized that courage can be built in the small, everyday moments and that it doesn’t always have to be a massive leap; sometimes it’s about taking one small step at a time.
    • Reflected on the courage needed to embrace life changes, like the transition of her twins to middle school, and how even everyday challenges can feel monumental.

    Andrew’s Aha Moments:

    • Emphasized how courage doesn’t have to be big or heroic—it can be seen in everyday actions that move us out of our comfort zones.
    • Shared how stepping outside of comfort zones has become a habit, and how small, consistent actions lead to bigger growth.

    Glimmers of the Week:

    Andrew:

    Reflects on the bittersweet joy of watching his children grow up and how every stage, while challenging, is a privilege to experience.

    Catherine:

    Had an emotional moment celebrating her twins’ birthday and reflecting on how they are growing up so quickly, marking the transition between childhood and adolescence.

    Resources Mentioned:

    • The Anxious Generation by [Author Name] (Book Reference)
    • The Secret Language of the Body by Inna Segal: Link to Amazon

    Connect with Us:

    Visit Five Year You for more resources and coaching opportunities.

    Follow us on Instagram @fiveyearyou.

    Disclaimer:

    This podcast is for informational purposes only and does not substitute professional advice. Please consult a healthcare provider for any medical, emotional, or personal concerns. Some links mentioned in this episode may be affiliate links. If you make a purchase through these links, we may earn a small commission at no additional cost to you. Thank you for supporting our work!

    Thank you for listening! If this episode inspired you, please subscribe, leave a review, and share it with someone looking to step outside their comfort zone. Stay tuned for Week 4, where we dive into the "Substance" layer of life. See you next time!

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About Five Year You

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Welcome to "Five Year You," the podcast that takes you on a transformative journey toward your future self. Join us as we explore the power of self-improvement, tackling challenges, setting goals, and unleashing the potential within you. Our conversations are raw, real, and relatable, offering practical tips and insights to empower you in your growth. Each episode offers useful tips to help you become the person you aspire to be. Tune in, invest in yourself, and let's embark on this adventure together!

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