Makes Sense - with Dr. JC Doornick

Flow Burglars - The Uninvited Guests that make you grow - Episode 123


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It’s no secret and plain to see what the true cause of disease and most of all the problems we face today comes from Emotional Mismanagement. Our inability to control the only thing we actually have control over. Our response to the inconvenient obstacle course of challenges life throws at us..

Today, we’re talking about one of the most critical skills in emotional self-mastery: protecting your peace by recognizing the people who quietly drain it. These people and their patterns show up so subtly that we often don’t notice our energy leaking until we’re already exhausted, frustrated, and combative. In essence, we all work hard to maintain consistency and reach the flow state where things start going our way. These people seemingly show up with the intention of stealing that flow.

Therefore, I call them Flow Burglars, and I’ve identified five predictable archetypes, each of which disrupts your flow in its own way. 

During today’s playtime, we are going to learn how to recognize, disarm, and outsmart them BEFORE they drain your energy and burglarize your flow.

Here are the 5 Archetypes:

  1. Comfort Clinger, who uses your support to avoid growth
  2. Ungrateful Goblin, who absorbs your kindness without a hint of appreciation
  3. Validation Vampire, who appears to want guidance but really wants your agreement
  4. Narrative Ninja, who manipulates through emotional storytelling
  5. Hard-Headed Hurricane, who chooses chaos again and again and invites you into it.
  6. Each of these patterns drains your energy differently. However, the solution to all of them is the same: discernment, the power to see people clearly and consciously, read their intentions accurately, and choose your response from a place of wisdom rather than reflex. 

    Discernment protects your peace because it keeps you from stepping into roles you were never meant to play.

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    • Highlights:

      0:00 - Intro

      3:42 - The Flow Burglar

      6:05 - My first encounter with a Flow Burglar

      15:15 - What are they looking for?

      18:02 - Repeat Offenders: Advanced forms of Flow Burglars

      21:36 - The Final Truth


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