Many young people face challenges they don’t always understand, such as stress, self-doubt, or confusion about the future. These struggles can feel overwhelming, but they don’t have to control you. The key is realizing that the way you talk to yourself can make a huge difference. It’s not about pretending everything is okay, but taking charge of your thoughts and working through problems.

Garrett Powell, a golf professional and entrepreneur, shares his story of learning to balance work, family, and personal growth. He talks about how his mindset shifted when he decided to focus on effort over outcome, the importance of surrounding himself with the right people, and his deep love for his family. As he prepares for fatherhood, Garrett reflects on what truly matters and how he wants to shape his life and leadership.

Matt Beaudreau also adds insight, pointing out that “you’ll never be criticized by someone doing more than you” and that criticism often comes from those who are doing less. This is a reminder to focus on what you’re doing, not the negative opinions around you.

Quotes:

• “The way we talk to ourselves directly shapes our mindset and emotional responses.” – Garrett Powell

• “Effort is more important than outcome. If you focus on that, the rest will follow.” – Garrett Powell
• “Time is the most precious resource, and you can't get it back once it’s gone.” – Garrett Powell
• “You’ll never be criticized by someone doing more than you. You’ll be criticized by someone doing less.” – Matt Beaudreau

Takeaways:

• Focus on effort, not just results. Celebrate trying hard, even if things don’t go perfectly.
• Prioritize relationships over impressing others. People appreciate real connections more than perfection.
• Own your time. Decide how you spend it and with whom you spend it.
• Let go of the need for approval. Fulfillment comes from being true to yourself.

Conclusion:

Garrett’s story reminds us that life isn’t about chasing fame or external approval. By focusing on what matters—effort, relationships, and time—we can approach life’s challenges with more confidence and peace.