Gentlemanly

I Relapsed for a Woman: Lust, Cocaine, and the Lie of Control

A raw confession: what led to the slip, what it revealed about ego, love, and addiction — and how you claw your way back with style and power.

→ The allure of chaos. The myth of control. The addict's ego dressed in desire.

If you're done with fluff and ready to hear something real — you're in the right place.🔗 Listen on Your Favourite Platform:🎧 Spotifyhttps://open.spotify.com/show/484Vi59...🍎 Apple Podcasts💥 Want More?📩 Get the free daily emailhttps://troy-francis.kit.com/a585a69c46 🖋 Read the full essays on Substackhttps://gentlemanly.substack.com📞 Apply for private coachingEmail: [email protected]📸 Instagram / realtroyfrancis 🐦 X (Twitter) / troyfrancis #masculinity #datingadvice #mensstyle #selfmastery #gentlemanly

Today’s episode is about one of the most ruthless men in American history — Roy Cohn.
A man who played the power game like Machiavelli with less heart.
He mentored Donald Trump.
He was the ultimate political fixer.
And yes — he was morally bankrupt.
But he was effective.

And that’s what most men don’t understand:
Power doesn’t reward goodness. It rewards usefulness.

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🔗 Listen on Your Favourite Platform:🎧 Spotifyhttps://open.spotify.com/show/484Vi59...🍎 Apple Podcasts💥 Want More?📩 Get the free daily emailhttps://troy-francis.kit.com/a585a69c46 🖋 Read the full essays on Substackhttps://gentlemanly.substack.com📞 Apply for private coachingEmail: [email protected]📸 Instagram / realtroyfrancis 🐦 X (Twitter) / troyfrancis #masculinity #datingadvice #mensstyle #selfmastery #gentlemanly

🔥 What Nobody Tells You About Charisma
Gentlemanly Podcast #5

Two decades in the trenches.
Scars on my body. Scars on my soul.
I’ve lived this. Bled for it. Paid in full.

In this episode, I reveal the real mechanics of charisma — the stuff no one dares to teach.
Not tricks. Not gimmicks.
Just the hard-earned truth about presence, magnetism, and the quiet power that makes people lean in.

If you’re tired of the surface-level spiel, this one’s for you.

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This is not a podcast about pickup.It’s about presence.Seduction.Style.Power.And the mythic art of staying dangerous in a world that wants you tame.If you're done with fluff and ready to hear something real — you're in the right place.🔗 Listen on Your Favourite Platform:🎧 Spotifyhttps://open.spotify.com/show/484Vi59...🍎 Apple Podcasts💥 Want More?📩 Get the free daily emailhttps://troy-francis.kit.com/a585a69c46 🖋 Read the full essays on Substackhttps://gentlemanly.substack.com📞 Apply for private coachingEmail: [email protected]📸 Instagram / realtroyfrancis 🐦 X (Twitter) / troyfrancis #masculinity #datingadvice #mensstyle #selfmastery #gentlemanly

Most men soften with age. They lose their edge, their presence, their power.
But some of us — the few — refuse to go quietly.
This episode is about choosing intensity over comfort, polish over passivity… and how to stay dangerous long after the world says you should settle down.

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This is not a podcast about pickup.It’s about presence.Seduction.Style.Power.And the mythic art of staying dangerous in a world that wants you tame.If you're done with fluff and ready to hear something real — you're in the right place.🔗 Listen on Your Favourite Platform:🎧 Spotifyhttps://open.spotify.com/show/484Vi59...🍎 Apple Podcasts💥 Want More?📩 Get the free daily emailhttps://troy-francis.kit.com/a585a69c46 🖋 Read the full essays on Substackhttps://gentlemanly.substack.com📞 Apply for private coachingEmail: [email protected]📸 Instagram / realtroyfrancis 🐦 X (Twitter) / troyfrancis #masculinity #datingadvice #mensstyle #selfmastery #gentlemanly

I used to think love was about being nice.About loyalty. Waiting. Hoping.I got everything wrong.In this episode of Gentlemanly, I break down the hard truths I learned the hard way—about women, dating, neediness, game, and how I went from romantic failure to seductive force.This is not a podcast about pickup.It’s about presence.Seduction.Style.Power.And the mythic art of staying dangerous in a world that wants you tame.If you're done with fluff and ready to hear something real — you're in the right place.🔗 Listen on Your Favourite Platform:🎧 Spotifyhttps://open.spotify.com/show/484Vi59...🍎 Apple Podcasts💥 Want More?📩 Get the free daily emailhttps://troy-francis.kit.com/a585a69c46 🖋 Read the full essays on Substackhttps://gentlemanly.substack.com📞 Apply for private coachingEmail: [email protected]📸 Instagram / realtroyfrancis 🐦 X (Twitter) / troyfrancis #masculinity #datingadvice #mensstyle #selfmastery #gentlemanly

This is not a podcast about pickup.
It’s about presence.
Seduction.
Style.
Power.
And the mythic art of staying dangerous in a world that wants you tame.

If you're done with fluff and ready to hear something real — you're in the right place.

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In this first episode, I explain what Gentlemanly is — and what it isn’t.

This is not a podcast about pickup.

It’s about presence.

Seduction.

Style.

Power.

And the mythic art of staying dangerous in a world that wants you tame.

I lay out the philosophy behind the show, who it’s for, and why most men fade into irrelevance… but you don’t have to.

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Coming up . . .

Coming up . . .

In this episode Tusk and Troy discuss why cold approach is still important even in 2024, the importance of building sustainable habits, why we all need to man up, and why self-improvement is not a choice.