Gentlemanly

Want to rewire your dating life, your confidence, and your self-mastery? Don’t think. Don’t overanalyze. Just do it 100 times. The Rule of 100 changed everything for me—and it will for you too.

This is not a podcast about pickup.

It’s about presence.

Seduction.

Style.

Power.

And the mythic art of staying dangerous in a world that wants you tame.

If you're done with fluff and ready to hear something real — you're in the right place.

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He’s got the watch. The apartment. The abs.
But at 2 a.m., he’s scrolling, spiralling, and wondering why it all feels so empty.

This isn’t therapy. It’s an autopsy.
We’re dissecting the quiet crisis behind the curated lifestyle.
The gentleman villain always wins — but at what cost?

Live now.

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🇨🇴 Bogotá Bootcamp: The Ultimate Social Adventure Awaits 🕴️🔥

Dates: 24th–27th April, 2025

Location: Bogotá, Colombia

Trainers: James Tusk, Troy Francis, Les Thomas

Spots are limited.

5 confirmed. Just 2 remaining.

Come train, transform — and have a blast. 🥂🔥

DM / email: [email protected]

Subject line: BOGOTÁ BOOTCAMP

Include WhatsApp & we’ll jump on a quick call.

You’ll never look at travel — or dating — the same way again. 🌍✈️

Smooth. Dangerous. Impeccably dressed. From Tom Ripley to Patrick Bateman, the "Gentleman Villain" has captivated culture for decades—and he's more seductive than ever. In this episode, we explore why this archetype resonates so deeply with modern audiences, what he represents in the male psyche, and how his dark charm can be both a warning and a weapon. Is he a mirror of our hidden desires... or a mask we long to wear?

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🇨🇴 Bogotá Bootcamp: The Ultimate Social Adventure Awaits 🕴️🔥Dates: 24th–27th April, 2025Location: Bogotá, ColombiaTrainers: James Tusk, Troy Francis, Les⸻Welcome to the show.Straight into Bogotá — our favourite City of Sin. 💃🏻🌆This isn’t just a bootcamp. It’s a f*cking experience. A wild, electric social laboratory tucked inside one of the world’s most deceptively conservative capitals.Bogotá looks buttoned-up on the surface: shirts tucked in, people going to work, polite smiles.But just beneath the skin… 🥵There’s fire. Sensuality. Insane receptivity.This is not Medellín, overrun with tourists and gringos.Bogotá is raw, real — and you’re still rare here. Foreigners stand out.And Colombian women? They love foreigners. 🤵🏽‍♂️❤️🇨🇴⸻💥 Why Bogotá? • It’s walkable, high-energy, ridiculously social. • It’s sexual. Latin American culture is unapologetically sensual. • Women dress up, dance hard, and own their femininity. • Even if you don’t speak Spanish — it doesn’t matter.Flirting is vibe, not vocab. Language is 10%.The rest is your state, your swagger, your intent. 💫⸻🎯 What You’ll Get • 20 hours of in-field training • 2 sessions per day: daygame focus, with optional nightgame • Personalised feedback on your vibe, look, and approach • Filmed sets with breakdowns & analysis 🎥 • Access to trainers before and after the camp • A 3-month post-camp action plan tailored just for you⸻👊 Who’s It For?If you’re tired of swiping.If you want to take life by the balls.If you want to meet hot, feminine, social women in real life — this is your cheat code. 🚀We vet every applicant to ensure good vibes and a solid crew.Expect a high-value group of men levelling up together.⸻🧠 Bonus: It’s Not Just About WomenWe assess the whole picture.Your style. Physique. Social skills. Lifestyle.We map out where you’re strong — and what needs work.It’s social calibration meets high-performance coaching.Become the most attractive, magnetic version of you.⸻Spots are limited.5 confirmed. Just 2 remaining.Come train, transform — and have a blast. 🥂🔥📩 Email:[email protected] line: BOGOTÁ BOOTCAMPInclude WhatsApp & we’ll jump on a quick call.You’ll never look at travel — or dating — the same way again. 🌍✈️

♤ Colombia 🇨🇴Bogotá Immersion: 24th – 27th April 2025Perched high in the Andes at 2,600m, Bogotá pulses with raw energy — a city of contrasts: colonial grandeur and modern chaos, salsa and techno, candlelit cafés and neon-lit clubs. The women? Charming, social, and refreshingly open. This isn’t just another bootcamp. It’s an adventure.🎯 One of the best places on earth to sharpen your social blade🌞 Perfect for Daygame, Bargame, and wild Nightgame🔥 20 hours of immersive infield training🤝 2-to-1 client-to-coach ratio = tailored attention💸 Low cost of living = more freedom, more fun🚨 8 spots taken – only 2 remainTrainers:Tusk | Troy Francis | Les Thomas💌 If you’re ready to take the leap:DM me or email [email protected] with the subject:“BOOTCAMP”Include your WhatsApp number, and we’ll jump on a call.Step into the myth.— Troy

You’ve got the car, the suit, the Instagram feed—but she’s still lukewarm. Why? Because money can’t substitute for soul. Charisma. Depth. Energy. You can’t buy presence. You become it.

This is not a podcast about pickup.It’s about presence.Seduction.Style.Power.And the mythic art of staying dangerous in a world that wants you tame.If you're done with fluff and ready to hear something real — you're in the right place.🔗 Listen on Your Favourite Platform:🎧 Spotifyhttps://open.spotify.com/show/484Vi59...🍎 Apple Podcasts💥 Want More?📩 Get the free daily emailhttps://troy-francis.kit.com/a585a69c46 🖋 Read the full essays on Substackhttps://gentlemanly.substack.com📞 Apply for private coachingEmail: [email protected]📸 Instagram / realtroyfrancis 🐦 X (Twitter) / troyfrancis #masculinity #datingadvice #mensstyle #selfmastery #gentlemanly

He’s got the job. The car. The polite smile.

He does everything right — and still gets left behind.

Why?

Because niceness isn’t magnetism.

In this episode, we break down why playing safe doesn’t get you chosen — and what does.

You don’t become vulgar

You become unforgettable.

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Pain is inevitable - success is not

When we feel pain, whether around relationships, work, or any other aspect of our lives, we need to use it as a force for good

We need to make it fuel that drives us on even in the direst of circumstances

Remember - it's not about how many times you fall over. It's about how many times you get up again.

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This is not a podcast about pickup.

It’s about presence.

Seduction.

Style.

Power.

And the mythic art of staying dangerous in a world that wants you tame.

If you're done with fluff and ready to hear something real — you're in the right place.

🔗 Listen on Your Favourite Platform:

🎧 Spotify

https://open.spotify.com/show/484Vi59...

🍎 Apple Podcasts

💥 Want More?

📩 Get the free daily email

https://troy-francis.kit.com/a585a69c46

🖋 Read the full essays on Substack

https://gentlemanly.substack.com

📞 Apply for private coaching

Email: [email protected]

📸 Instagram

/ realtroyfrancis

🐦 X (Twitter)

/ troyfrancis

#masculinity #datingadvice #mensstyle #selfmastery #gentlemanly

Why you don’t need forgiveness, or even understanding, to move on — you need power.We’re sold a lie: that closure comes from calm conversations, mutual healing, and tied-up endings.But the truth is, most endings are jagged. Messy. Silent.In this episode of Gentlemanly, I dismantle the myth of closure — and show you what actually sets a man free.🔥 In this episode:Why "closure" is a luxury most men can't affordWhat survivors, killers, and kings all have in commonThe hidden ego trap in needing her to understandThe real path to freedom: power, detachment, and forward momentumHow to walk away without bitterness — and never look backYou don’t need her forgiveness. You don’t need a conversation.You need resolve. You need self-respect. You need to become unforgiving.******This is not a podcast about pickup.It’s about presence.Seduction.Style.Power.And the mythic art of staying dangerous in a world that wants you tame.If you're done with fluff and ready to hear something real — you're in the right place.🔗 Listen on Your Favourite Platform:🎧 Spotifyhttps://open.spotify.com/show/484Vi59...🍎 Apple Podcasts💥 Want More?📩 Get the free daily emailhttps://troy-francis.kit.com/a585a69c46 🖋 Read the full essays on Substackhttps://gentlemanly.substack.com📞 Apply for private coachingEmail: [email protected]📸 Instagram / realtroyfrancis 🐦 X (Twitter) / troyfrancis #masculinity #datingadvice #mensstyle #selfmastery #gentlemanly

If you’ve ever run out of things to say to a woman—You need to hear this.The method is simple. The impact is massive.🎙️ Gentlemanly Episode 9 is live.

This is not a podcast about pickup.It’s about presence.Seduction.Style.Power.And the mythic art of staying dangerous in a world that wants you tame.If you're done with fluff and ready to hear something real — you're in the right place.🔗 Listen on Your Favourite Platform:🎧 Spotifyhttps://open.spotify.com/show/484Vi59...🍎 Apple Podcasts💥 Want More?📩 Get the free daily emailhttps://troy-francis.kit.com/a585a69c46 🖋 Read the full essays on Substackhttps://gentlemanly.substack.com📞 Apply for private coachingEmail: [email protected]📸 Instagram / realtroyfrancis 🐦 X (Twitter) / troyfrancis #masculinity #datingadvice #mensstyle #selfmastery #gentlemanly

Average men chase balance. Great men go all in.→ Balance is for accountants. You want greatness? Get obsessed.This is not a podcast about pickup.It’s about presence.Seduction.Style.Power.And the mythic art of staying dangerous in a world that wants you tame.If you're done with fluff and ready to hear something real — you're in the right place.🔗 Listen on Your Favourite Platform:🎧 Spotifyhttps://open.spotify.com/show/484Vi59...🍎 Apple Podcasts💥 Want More?📩 Get the free daily emailhttps://troy-francis.kit.com/a585a69c46 🖋 Read the full essays on Substackhttps://gentlemanly.substack.com📞 Apply for private coachingEmail: [email protected]📸 Instagram / realtroyfrancis 🐦 X (Twitter) / troyfrancis #masculinity #datingadvice #mensstyle #selfmastery #gentlemanly