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Several guys have asked me recently about gym game—is it possible, is it advisable, and if so how best to go about it? To answer the first two points, yes it’s possible and yes it’s advisable—depending on the set-up in your particular gym. Like most men who are reading this—I hope—I go to the gym regularly, and have been for many years. Given that all the gyms I’ve been a member of have been unisex I’ve encountered a lot of attractive girls doing so. And being into game, I haven’t wasted the opportunity to approach many of them. Let’s deal with objections first. The most common reason I’ve heard guys give for not doing gym game is that they go there a lot and may see the girl again. It’s a variation on the ‘don’t shit where you eat’ rationale. Actually, I think there is some validity in this. If you are really serious about your gym programme, which you should be, and you train at a venue where the customer base is small and you run into the same people time and again, then fair enough, it shouldn’t be your first port of call for pickup. Your focus should absolutely be on your physique and fitness first. However, the truth is that most gyms have a fairly transient membership, especially in large cities. After all, the ‘new year’ effect is well known: you January recruits hogging the benches, free weights and machines for a month or so before they give up and things return to normal once more. As such, if you do it right, approaching in this environment can be a good thing as you may never see her again otherwise.    Remember to sign up for my free online training The Renegade Playbook for renegade dating and business techniques. Go here: https://troy-francis.teachable.com/p/renegade-playbook    

Several guys have asked me recently about gym game—is it possible, is it advisable, and if so how best to go about it? To answer the first two points, yes it’s possible and yes it’s advisable—depending on the set-up in your particular gym. Like most men who are reading this—I hope—I go to the gym regularly, and have been for many years. Given that all the gyms I’ve been a member of have been unisex I’ve encountered a lot of attractive girls doing so. And being into game, I haven’t wasted the opportunity to approach many of them. Let’s deal with objections first. The most common reason I’ve heard guys give for not doing gym game is that they go there a lot and may see the girl again. It’s a variation on the ‘don’t shit where you eat’ rationale. Actually, I think there is some validity in this. If you are really serious about your gym programme, which you should be, and you train at a venue where the customer base is small and you run into the same people time and again, then fair enough, it shouldn’t be your first port of call for pickup. Your focus should absolutely be on your physique and fitness first. However, the truth is that most gyms have a fairly transient membership, especially in large cities. After all, the ‘new year’ effect is well known: you January recruits hogging the benches, free weights and machines for a month or so before they give up and things return to normal once more. As such, if you do it right, approaching in this environment can be a good thing as you may never see her again otherwise.    Remember to sign up for my free online training The Renegade Playbook for renegade dating and business techniques. Go here: https://troy-francis.teachable.com/p/renegade-playbook    

Whatever it is you are trying to do, whether build a business or enliven your dating life, implementing daily habits can be enormously powerful.  In this episode of the podcast I discuss the impact that daily habits have had on my own life, both where they are useful and where they have been (in some cases) detrimental.  Remember to sign up for my FREE 4-part online course The Renegade Playbook here: https://troy-francis.teachable.com/p/renegade-playbook

Whatever it is you are trying to do, whether build a business or enliven your dating life, implementing daily habits can be enormously powerful.  In this episode of the podcast I discuss the impact that daily habits have had on my own life, both where they are useful and where they have been (in some cases) detrimental.  Remember to sign up for my FREE 4-part online course The Renegade Playbook here: https://troy-francis.teachable.com/p/renegade-playbook

Being confident and going for what you want is about grasping the nettle and feeling the discomfort in the moment that will yield positive results in the medium / long term. There is a two-part process that will yield positive results in most dating and business situations and it is this: 1. Make a decision to go for the thing you want  2. Accept that this might involve short / medium term pain and take action anyway.  If you do both of these things regularly then you will undoubtedly see greater success in your endeavours in short order.  Remember to sign up for my FREE 5-part online course Renegade Playbook here: https://realtroyfrancis.com/free-book/            

Being confident and going for what you want is about grasping the nettle and feeling the discomfort in the moment that will yield positive results in the medium / long term. There is a two-part process that will yield positive results in most dating and business situations and it is this: 1. Make a decision to go for the thing you want  2. Accept that this might involve short / medium term pain and take action anyway.  If you do both of these things regularly then you will undoubtedly see greater success in your endeavours in short order.  Remember to sign up for my FREE 5-part online course Renegade Playbook here: https://realtroyfrancis.com/free-book/            

This FREE 4 -part video training course teaches you the exact renegade principles you need to follow to 10X your dating life AND your business success. Enrol in The Renegade Playbook here: https://troy-francis.teachable.com/p/renegade-playbook

This FREE 4 -part video training course teaches you the exact renegade principles you need to follow to 10X your dating life AND your business success. Enrol in The Renegade Playbook here: https://troy-francis.teachable.com/p/renegade-playbook

Many guys have the idea of leaping into a relationship as though it will solve all of their problems when actually the opposite it often the case.  In fact, a long-term relationship is a serious undertaking, and you need to be very certain about what you want - and what you're getting into - before jumping in.  I'm not saying don't get into a relationship - but you should certainly consider these things before you do so.  To sign up for my DAILY email (and get a free book on copywriting) go here https://realtroyfrancis.com/free-book/ To find out more about my online course Personal Brand Mastery go here: https://troy-francis.teachable.com/p/...  

Many guys have the idea of leaping into a relationship as though it will solve all of their problems when actually the opposite it often the case.  In fact, a long-term relationship is a serious undertaking, and you need to be very certain about what you want - and what you're getting into - before jumping in.  I'm not saying don't get into a relationship - but you should certainly consider these things before you do so.  To sign up for my DAILY email (and get a free book on copywriting) go here https://realtroyfrancis.com/free-book/ To find out more about my online course Personal Brand Mastery go here: https://troy-francis.teachable.com/p/...