We’re revisiting one of our most popular early episodes — Getting a Fair Property Settlement.

Everyone going through a separation wants a fair outcome. The challenge is that your idea of “fair” and your ex-partner’s can be very different — and emotions or past hurts often get in the way.

In this episode, family law expert Heather McKinnon shares her top tips for reaching a fair financial settlement without unnecessary conflict or cost. Her practical advice remains just as relevant today as when we first aired this episode.

Key takeaways include:

• Agree early on what property and liabilities you both have.

• Do your due diligence — know your own and your ex-partner’s financial position.

• If you can’t agree on an asset’s value, agree to get a valuer.

• Don’t let emotional attachment block a sensible outcome.

• Get early legal advice to understand your best- and worst-case scenarios.

• Focus on fairness, not punishment.

• Consider a financial planner for fresh ideas and solutions.

• Mediate once both parties understand the full asset picture.

• Keep communication open.

• Wait 3–6 months after separation before finalising finances.