giving (un)bothered

In this unfiltered episode, we're talking cheating, U-Hauling, and role-play - aka the chaotic trifecta of queer dating. Through “Would You Rather” questions and relatable scenarios, we unpack it all: What to do if your partner’s kissing style isn’t it? Thoughts on role-play and strap-ons. Is cheating always a dealbreaker? And yes… how fast is too fast to U-Haul? Whether you're deep in your situationship or just here for the tea, this episode is full of laughs, honesty, and queer chaos.

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This week, we sit down with Zan Moon—women’s rights activist and founder of sapphic events in London. Zan takes us through her coming out story, from realising she was a lesbian in boarding school, to navigating a religious upbringing and internalised homophobia. She opens up about the challenges of finding queer community in London and why she started organising sapphic events to create safe spaces for the LGBTQ+ community. We also dive into her work as a women’s rights activist, including her role in helping British Transport Police campaigning for safer public spaces and tackling harassment. From the fight for queer visibility to advocating for safer public spaces, this episode is packed with insight, activism, and relatable LGBTQ+ experiences.

Find Zan Moon on: 

• Instagram: ⁠@zan_moon_
• Tiktok: ⁠@zan.moon⁠

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In this episode, we talk about how the male gaze shaped our fashion and behaviour to gain validation. Since coming out, we’ve stepped away from these influences, reclaiming our confidence and dressing for ourselves. We discuss how shedding the male gaze has allowed us to express our true identities authentically and embrace freedom in our style and behaviour. 

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This week, we’re breaking down iconic lesbian stereotypes—from vegans & carabiner code to tattoos and rock climbing lesbians—We’re decoding the ultimate signs of sapphic energy and asking the real question: are these just fun tropes, or are we all guilty? 

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In this episode of Let’s Get Naked, we’re getting real about sapphic sex! We dive into all the juicy details—strap-ons, scissoring, tantric sex, and some hilariously awkward sex stories. Whether you’re curious, experienced, or just here for the laughs, we’re breaking down the myths, sharing personal intimacy experiences, and spilling the tea on what really goes down in the bedroom.

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Your 20s are a wild ride, and in this week's episode, we’re spilling all the hard-earned lessons we’ve learned along the way. From navigating friendship breakups, realizing the importance of family time, and embracing the ultimate post-breakup glow-up, to taking risks and chasing your dreams—we’re covering it all. Plus, we dive into how your friendships can shape your sexuality journey in ways you might not expect.

If you’ve ever questioned a friendship, gone through a major life shift, or felt like you're still figuring it all out—this one's for you. Tune in for real talk, personal stories, and the best advice we wish we had in our early 20s.

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In this week’s episode, Alana shares her journey of self-discovery, mental health, and embracing her identity. From being diagnosed with OCD, anxiety, and depression as a teenager to understanding how her struggles were tied to her sexuality, Alana opens up about the challenges she’s faced and the resilience that got her through.

Join us for a powerful and unfiltered conversation about mental health, coming out, and navigating life as part of the LGBT+ community.

Helplines:
United Kingdom:

• Samaritans – 24/7 confidential support for anyone in distress. Call 116 123 or email [email protected](samaritans.org)
• Shout – Free, confidential 24/7 text service. Text "SHOUT" to 85258 (giveusashout.org)
• Mind – Offers advice and support for mental health challenges. Call 0300 123 3393 (Monday to Friday, 9 am–6 pm) or text 86463 (mind.org.uk)
• OCD Action – Support for individuals affected by OCD. Call 0300 636 5478 (Monday to Friday, 9:30 am–8 pm) or email [email protected]
  

United States:

• 988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline – 24/7 support for individuals in crisis. Call or text 988 (988lifeline.org)
• Crisis Text Line – Free 24/7 text support. Text "HOME" to 741741 (crisistextline.org)
• International OCD Foundation (IOCDF) – Resources for those affected by OCD. Visit iocdf.org for guidance on finding help
  

Please remember, if you or someone you know is in immediate danger, call emergency services. You're not alone—help is available. 

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Would you stay unbothered if your partner was still close with their ex? What about “networking” on dating apps? In this episode, we’re playing a game of Bothered or Unbothered? with our guest Chloe Barker, debating relationships scenarios that blur the line between harmless and sketchy. From liking thirst traps to still wearing an ex’s hoodie, we’re spilling all the tea.

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This week, we get real about everything related to sex, relationships, and all those juicy topics we’re told to avoid with another round of Let’s Get Naked. We’re talking about sex drought struggles, first-time experiences, and diving into fetishes. Plus, we’re opening up about our experiences with one-night stands and discussing what we truly enjoy when it comes to intimacy—whether that’s using our hands, our mouths, or something else entirely.

Get ready for a raw and honest conversation about navigating sexual desires, exploring new territories, and breaking free from the shame and taboo surrounding sexuality.
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• Instagram: ⁠@giving.unbothered⁠
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Is she making you a mixtape… or just being nice? Does that deep eye contact mean she’s into you, or is she just an intense listener? This week, we’re diving into the chaotic world of decoding sapphic signals. From reading each other’s birth charts to writing love poems "as a friend," we’re breaking down the fine line between flirty and friendly.

Are lesbians just naturally romantic, or are we all doomed to misinterpret the signs? We spill our own confusion-filled stories and debate the ultimate queer love language.
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• Instagram: ⁠@giving.unbothered⁠
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