giving (un)bothered

giving (un)bothered

By Alana Banks and Jelka LepeverSociety & CultureRelationshipsPersonal Journals
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giving (un)bothered episodes

  • Hinge icks: threesomes, thirst traps & short-term relationships
    In this episode, we’re spilling the tea on the icks and dealbreakers that make us swipe left on dating apps like Hinge, Raya and Tinder. Join us as we reveal our top dating app pet peeves, discuss how our profiles can make or break a connection, and laugh at some of the most outrageous dealbreaker moments we’ve experienced. Get ready for a real talk on online dating and how to avoid the biggest profile mistakes.
    Find us on: 

    Instagram: ⁠@giving.unbothered⁠ Tiktok: ⁠@giving.unbothered⁠ Youtube: ⁠@givingunbothered⁠

    Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    42 min
  • why is trump obsessed with what's in our pants?
    In this episode, we unpack Trump’s two-gender policy and our thoughts on it. We also get real about homophobic encounters, how to handle them, and why some people still feel the need to show up at Pride just to hate. We share our experiences traveling abroad, the challenges we’ve faced, and why queer-friendly spaces feel so important to us.
    Find us on: 

    • Instagram: ⁠@giving.unbothered⁠
    • Tiktok: ⁠@giving.unbothered⁠
    • Youtube: ⁠@givingunbothered⁠

    Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    28 min
  • let’s get naked : sex parties, orgasms & open relationships

    This week, we’re raising the temperature with another round of Let’s Get Naked—the ultimate card game that sparks bold, unfiltered conversations about sex, intimacy, and modern relationships. From jaw-dropping confessions and expert tips to navigating open relationships, this episode is packed with laughs, insights, and all the juicy details you didn’t know you needed. Whether you’re curious, experienced, or just here for the fun, this is your go-to listen for all things love and desire.


    Find us on: 

    • Instagram: ⁠@giving.unbothered⁠
    • Tiktok: ⁠@giving.unbothered⁠
    • Youtube: ⁠@givingunbothered⁠

    Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    40 min
  • did I ruin the relationship?

    In this episode, we’re getting brutally honest about the biggest relationship mistakes we’ve made and how they’ve shaped us: 

    • That time we stayed in a toxic relationship (oops)
    • How our attachment styles turned conflicts into chaos
    • Why jealousy and silent treatments were so toxic (and how we’ve learned to handle conflict better)
    • The lessons we’ve learned about love, healing, and setting boundaries


    This episode is a mix of self-reflection and plenty of laughs as we look back on our messy love lives and the glow-ups that came after. Tune in for relatable stories, hard-won wisdom, and all the chaos you’ve come to expect from us


    Find us on:

    - Instagram: ⁠@giving.unbothered⁠

    - Tiktok: ⁠@giving.unbothered⁠

    - Youtube: ⁠@givingunbothered 

    Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    35 min
  • 2024 was a hot mess, but we’re still trying

    In this episode, we’re reflecting on the highs and lows of 2024—turning all those hot mess moments into valuable lessons. From setting boundaries to leaving behind toxic habits, we’re sharing our resolutions for 2025 and how we’re embracing personal growth and self-love. We talk about everything from ending the year with lessons learned to entering the new year with a fresh mindset. Get ready for a mix of humor, real talk, and some serious inspiration for your own 2025 glow-up
    Find us on:

    - Instagram: ⁠@giving.unbothered⁠

    - Tiktok: ⁠@giving.unbothered⁠

    - Youtube: ⁠@givingunbothered 

    Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    36 min
  • 2024 dating unwrapped : who said dating women is easier?

    As 2024 comes to a close, we’re taking a stroll down memory lane—or should we say, the dating battlefield. In this episode, we break down our “Dating Wrapped” stats: the best moments, worst dates, unexpected sparks, and total flops. From lessons learned to love lost (or found?), we’re getting real about what this year taught us about the wild world of modern romance. Buckle up for some laughs, a few cringe-worthy confessions, and maybe a little hope for 2025!
    Find us on:

    - Instagram: ⁠@giving.unbothered⁠

    - Tiktok: ⁠@giving.unbothered⁠

    - Youtube: ⁠@givingunbothered

    Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    41 min
  • let's get naked

    This week, we’re turning up the heat with Let’s Get Naked—a provocative card game that dives into all things bedroom! We answer juicy, hilarious, and downright awkward questions about intimacy, sex, and relationships. From shocking confessions to spicy tips, this episode is packed with unfiltered fun and fresh perspectives on love and desire.


    Find us on:

    - Instagram: @giving.unbothered

    - Tiktok: @giving.unbothered

    - Youtube: @givingunbothered

    Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    29 min
  • attachment styles and texting: how they impact your romantic connections

    In this episode of giving (un)bothered, we took a quiz to uncover our own attachment styles and reflect how they shape the way we communicate through texts. We share our personal reactions, dive into what these styles mean for our texting habits, and explore how they affect romantic communication.


    Find us on:

    - IG: @giving.unbothered

    - Tiktok: @giving.unbothered

    - Youtube: @givingunbothered

    Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    36 min
  • Nail gun to my head & sleeping with the boss

    In this episode, we’re sharing some of our most shocking and uncomfortable workplace experiences. Alana opens up about the time her boss crossed all kinds of boundaries. Meanwhile, Jelka spills on the dark side of the modeling industry. Buckle up for a jaw-dropping ride through the chaos behind the scenes of our careers!


    Find us on:

    • IG: @giving.unbothered
    • Tiktok: @giving.unbothered
    • Youtube: @givingunbothered

    Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    42 min
  • Weird icks & turn ons

    In this episode, we’re diving into the little things that give us the “ick” and the surprising quirks that make us swoon. From awkward first-date habits to oddly specific turn-ons, we’re sharing the moments that make us question—or double down on—our dating choices. It’s a rollercoaster of cringe, laughs, and maybe a few unexpected confessions.


    Find us on:- IG: @giving.unbothered

    - Tiktok: @giving.unbothered

    - Youtube: @givingunbothered


    Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    27 min

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Two (un)bothered best friends navigating LGBTQ+ dating, friendships, and adulting in your 20s. Tune in for candid, unfiltered conversations on dating disasters, relationship advice, the ups and downs…

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