giving (un)bothered

giving (un)bothered

By Alana Banks and Jelka LepeverSociety & CultureRelationshipsPersonal Journals
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giving (un)bothered episodes

  • Commitment in the age of casual swipes

    In this episode, we’re diving into what it’s like to love intensely in a world that often mistakes passion for love-bombing. Is there such a thing as being too much in modern dating? We share our own stories of loving hard, explore why it can feel so intimidating (or downright scary) for others, and chat about finding the balance between showing up authentically and not freaking people out. Get ready for laughs, some serious self-reflection, and maybe even a few tips on how to navigate love in a swipe-right culture.


    Find us on:

    - IG: ⁠⁠@giving.unbothered⁠⁠

    - Tiktok: ⁠⁠@giving.unbothered⁠⁠

    - Youtube: ⁠⁠@givingunbothered


    Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    41 min
  • Part 2: Our sexuality stories

    Part 2: In this episode we're peeling back the layers and diving into our personal stories of discovering, exploring, and embracing our sexualities. Each of us shares the twists, turns, and surprises that have shaped our journeys, from early realizations to game-changing moments. Whether it's the fun, the awkward, or the downright unexpected, we're opening up in ways we never have before. Join us for a raw, hilarious, and heartwarming conversation about what it really means to find and own who we are.


    Find us on:

    - IG: ⁠⁠@giving.unbothered⁠⁠

    - Tiktok: ⁠⁠@giving.unbothered⁠⁠

    - Youtube: ⁠⁠@givingunbothered

    Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    35 min
  • Part 1: Our sexuality stories

    In this episode we're peeling back the layers and diving into our personal stories of discovering, exploring, and embracing our sexualities. Each of us shares the twists, turns, and surprises that have shaped our journeys, from early realizations to game-changing moments. Whether it's the fun, the awkward, or the downright unexpected, we're opening up in ways we never have before. Join us for a raw, hilarious, and heartwarming conversation about what it really means to find and own who we are.


    Find us on:

    - IG: ⁠@giving.unbothered⁠

    - Tiktok: ⁠@giving.unbothered⁠

    - Youtube: ⁠@givingunbothered

    Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    36 min
  • Bewitched or bothered?

    In this Halloween special, we’re mixing spooky fun with our usual girly banter! Join us as we play "Bewitched or Bothered?" where each host shares dating stories and personal experiences with a Halloween twist. We’ll dive into scenarios that make us blush or bolt. Are these tales charming—or just plain creepy? Tune in for laughs, chills, and a little Halloween magic!

    Find us on:

    - IG: @giving.unbothered

    - Tiktok: @giving.unbothered

    - Youtube: @givingunbothered

    Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    26 min
  • Dating disasters and everything in-between

    In this episode, we’re spilling all the details on our most hilarious and cringe-worthy dating disaster stories. From awkward moments to unexpected mishaps, nothing is off-limits! Plus, we’ll break down some of the best (and worst) pickup lines we’ve encountered. Get ready to laugh, cringe, and relate to the wild ride that is dating!


    Find us on:

    - IG: ⁠@giving.unbothered⁠

    - Tiktok: ⁠@giving.unbothered⁠

    - Youtube: ⁠@givingunbothered ⁠

    Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    35 min
  • Likes and lies; social media's toxicity

    In this episode, we discuss the pressure of showing a "perfect life" online and how editing apps like Facetune contribute to unrealistic beauty standards. These trends lead to harmful comparisons, lowering self-esteem and distorting reality. Join us for a discussion on breaking free from online pressures and embracing a healthier digital life.


    Find us on:

    - IG: ⁠@giving.unbothered⁠

    - Tiktok: ⁠@giving.unbothered⁠

    - Youtube: ⁠@givingunbothered ⁠

    Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    37 min
  • Dating; red flags and green flags

    In this episode, we delve into the essential do's and dont’s of dating by examining green flags and red flags. With a mix of humor and honesty, we share our own stories—highlighting those moments that felt like a breath of fresh air and the warning signs that made us think twice.


    Find us on:

    - IG: @giving.unbothered

    - Tiktok: @giving.unbothered

    - Youtube: @givingunbothered


    Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    29 min
  • Our last 3 brain cells

    In this episode, we ventured into the wild world of Reddit to tackle some of the most random questions we could find. What started as a lighthearted exploration quickly turned into deep discussions about life, choices, and what it all means.


    Find us on:

    - IG: @giving.unbothered

    - Tiktok: @giving.unbothered

    - Youtube: @givingunbothered


    Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    28 min
  • Who said 3's a crowd?

    One podcast, three (un)bothered best friends. We’re diving into the highs and lows of dating, friendships, and adulting in your 20's. Join us for candid conversations and chaotic company while we figure it out together 🫶


    Find us on:

    - IG: @giving.unbothered

    - Tiktok: @giving.unbothered

    - Youtube: @givingunbothered

    Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    16 min
  • teaser: giving (un)bothered

    One podcast, three (un)bothered best friends. We’re diving into the highs and lows of dating, friendships, and adulting in your 20's. Join us for candid conversations and chaotic company while we figure it out together 🫶


    Find us on:

    - IG: @giving.unbothered

    - Tiktok: @giving.unbothered

    - Youtube: @givingunbothered

    Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    2 min

About giving (un)bothered

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Two (un)bothered best friends navigating LGBTQ+ dating, friendships, and adulting in your 20s. Tune in for candid, unfiltered conversations on dating disasters, relationship advice, the ups and downs…

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