Happy Slut

Jennifer Kaylo is on husband #3 after having a sexual awakening while married to husband #2, all while co-parenting her two kids with husband #1. She hosts the Open Bedroom Podcast, where she talks candidly about sex, life, dungeons, threesomes, foursomes, and moresomes. When I was on her show recently, she told me about a Thanksgiving dinner she threw with her husband that turned into an orgy. Talk about a horn o'plenty!

Even though Jen's outlook on sex and love is fun and adventurous AS HELL, she also knows how to navigate her relationships with clarity and compassion. You'll be shocked at the revelation she shares at the end of the episode.

In this episode:

• Growing up a Catholic schoolgirl, then landing in a hardcore independent Baptist school where a pastor told her that Satan loved her short, red hair
• Having unexpectedly great, orgasmic sex as a teenager, and the wise pastor who told her and her boyfriend NOT to get married
• Marriage number one: a decade with a man who was never really present, what the sex actually looked like, and the past-life regression that cracked the whole thing open
• The spiritual lesson she took from that regression, and how it reframed her entire relationship history
• Marriage number two: eight years of "safe," scheduled, disconnected sex, and the moment she realized she didn't want to die having had sex in only two positions
• Trying to find a sex-positive therapist in a deeply conservative area (and the "crazy cat lady" who finally got it)
• The conversation that opened her second marriage — and how fast it ended once it did
• Meeting husband number three on Tinder, the rocky first date, and the three-hour reunion that reset her whole idea of sex
• How she told her kids that she could love more than one person — and what they actually said back
• The current chapter with husband three: swinging versus polyamory, a near-breakup, and where they are now
• What her story reveals about how differently women are allowed to want things once patriarchy stops deciding what a "good wife" is supposed to look like

FOLLOW JENNIFER KAYLO & THE OPEN BEDROOM PODCAST:

Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-open-bedroom-podcast/id1523922106

Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/1EmsUcd7s9n4HNNR0LDyG5

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@theopenbedroompodcast/podcasts

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theopenbedroompodcast/

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Send this to the friend who thinks you have to pick one relationship style forever, and to the one who's quietly wondering if "good wife" ever meant what she thought it did.

xoxo,

Samia

David Carlson was a professional organizer years before they began identifying as polyamorous, but their slutty pansexual ways went back to high school. When they found an opportunity to start fighting for your right to be a slut—or poly, or ENM/CNM, or just a group of people with a tight-knit chosen family who wanna buy a damn house together—they jumped at the chance.

David is now the Campaign Director for OPEN, the Organization for Polyamory and Ethical Non-monogamy. You might have heard news of random cities across the US passing legislation protecting nonmonogamous folks from discrimination. That’s the work David and the team at OPEN are doing every day, and they are gaining ground. It’s an exciting time to be slutty, pinecones!

NOTE: David reached out after this episode was published to make two corrections. First, the laws protecting nonmonogamous people may not be able to be applied to chosen family groups—it’s a gray area right now, and untested. Second, protections were passed in Hazel Park, MI, NOT Ferndale, MI.

In this episode:

• Why David told their high school dates they didn’t want to be exclusive, being labeled a fuck boy, and the pushback they got from boys
• The delicious night David had at 18 that clued them in to being bi (and later, pan)
• Growing up queer in a town of 3,000 on the Oregon coast
• “Not terrible”: how we downplay pleasure we’ve been taught to be ashamed of
• Taking the crumbs: why David ended up in monogamous relationships through their twenties even after being a subversive, nonmonogamous high schooler.
• Omission and small lies, and the cost of managing a partner’s reactions by not telling the whole truth
• Relationship anarchy explained, and why ranking partners can feel so wrong
• The sale of a polycule’s house that got canceled at the last minute
• How one letter to a local DSA chapter turned into a unanimous city council vote
• Seattle, Portland, Olympia, Ferndale, Somerville, West Hollywood and more: where non-monogamous people are now protected
• Plural domestic partnerships, and how a throuple from Portland went to Somerville, MA, to get one
• How patriarchy made romantic relationships the only kind that demands exclusivity
• How feeling politically helpless can stop you from doing anything to make a difference—and how easy it can actually be to do that if you’re willing to write a letter or make a call.

SUPPORT OPEN:

Take OPEN’s 2026 Community Survey (open until Nov 12): https://www.open-love.org/survey

Website: https://www.open-love.org

Donate: https://www.open-love.org/donate

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/openloveorg

Bluesky: https://bsky.app/profile/openloveorg.bsky.social

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FetLife: https://fetlife.com/OPENnonprofit

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Send this to the ones you know who are flying under the radar…but wish they could fly free.

xoxo,

Samia

Isaac Cardona has a degree in accounting, a penchant for devising ambitious community service projects, a vanilla husband he calls his soulmate, and a deep desire to be flogged by his sir. He's also my very first local happy slut! Based right here in San Antonio, Texas, a place one might not expect there to be a social group for gay men who love leather. AND YET! Isaac is one of the founding members of the San Antonio Leather Men, and he's helped grow them into one of the biggest leather groups in Texas in the last four years.

In this episode:

• The Hanky Code, decoded: what the different colors actually mean (yes, we go there)
• Growing up Jehovah's Witness, getting kicked out of the church at sixteen, and the uncle whose unapologetic queerness changed everything
• His "emancipation proclamation" coming-out story, timed down to the hour
• Five years estranged from his parents, and how that relationship slowly mended
• Meeting his husband of six years by mercilessly teasing their lovesick friends on Facebook
• Opening up a vanilla marriage into an ethically non-monogamous one
• How a now-closed dive bar became "home" and launched him into leather culture
• Building the San Antonio Leathermen from twelve people at a social to 75+
• Winning the title Mr. Alamo City Leather and using it to fund toy drives, food drives, and an upcoming AIDS Foundation fundraiser
• What actually happens in his body and mind when he goes "primal" during impact play
• The harm-reduction rules he swears by for his more adventurous kinks
• Why living out loud and unashamed tends to turn people into more generous, active members of their community — a pattern Samia keeps finding, episode after episode, once patriarchy and purity culture stop running the show

FOLLOW THE SAN ANTONIO LEATHERMEN:

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/satxleathermen/

Facebook (event calendar — socials, Kinky Carnival, gear nights): https://www.facebook.com/groups/satxleathermen/?ref=share_group_link

Website: https://sanantonioleathermen.com/

Donate to the Nov 21 San Antonio AIDS Foundation fundraiser: https://www.sanantonioaids.org/donate

SUPPORT THE SHOW!

Subscribe to my Substack: https://samiamounts.substack.com

Instagram: https://instagram.com/samia.mounts & https://instagram.com/happyslutcast

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Send this to the friend who thinks "kinky" and "community-minded" can't coexist, and to the one who still needs convincing that living out loud only makes the world around you better.

xoxo,

Samia

Taara Rose and her partner James were literally crowned Queen and King of the swinger community, but during the pandemic, Taara realized her pleasure had never been her priority. She set out to reconnect with her body, understand her own pleasure, and start advocating for it in all of her encounters.

And the results...?

Let's just say fire emojis abound, pinecones. And uhh, Taara got a tattoo of two pairs of scissors. 🔥✂️🔥✂️🔥

In this episode:

• How Taara and James started out as friends with benefits, and decided to be non-monogamous from day one of their Official Relationship
• Beach blowjobs under a double rainbow (yes, that really happened)
• What it's like to be crowned royalty at one of the biggest swinger conventions in the world
• The anxiety that started showing up in her body before events, how she wrote it off in the moment, and what it was actually telling her
• The article that got her kicked out of the swinger community
• How Taara's whole life changed when she trained to become a certified somatic sex educator
• The moment she realized her own pleasure had never been her priority
• Decentering orgasms and finding pleasure in coffee, dog walks, and sexy trees
• Negotiating a scene weeks in advance, and what two full weeks of aftercare looks like
• Going from swinging together to polyamory apart, and how James feels about it
• The Wheel of Consent, and why "thank you for your no" is part of it
• Why patriarchy has all of us—women and men—performing in bed instead of feeling anything

WORK WITH TAARA ROSE:

Website: https://sexedforthemodernbed.com

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sexedforthemodernbed

Email: [email protected]

SUPPORT THE SHOW!

Substack: https://samiamounts.substack.com

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/samia.mounts & https://www.instagram.com/happyslutcast

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Send this to the friend who keeps saying yes when they want to say no, and to the one who thinks "listen to your body" sounds too woo-woo.

xoxo,

Samia

A man who makes the plans, cooks the meals, puts his phone away, and genuinely loves giving women pleasure? Pinecones, we need to talk.

George Goulburn is a 54-year-old Australian male escort who traded corporate life for a career making women feel safe, seen, and wanted. His bookings can include beach getaways, home-cooked dinners, and plenty of sex—but the attention he describes giving his clients had me swooooooning!

George joins me to talk about what women actually ask for when they hire him, how he finds genuine attraction in his work, and what happens when someone catches feelings. We get into pleasure after menopause, the emotional demands of paid intimacy, and the double standard that celebrates men for the same work women are shamed for. George loves his job, and he’s candid about both its joys and its complications. Whether or not you ever book an escort, you'll come away from this one knowing what it looks like when someone gives you their full, undivided attention, and why you deserve it.

In this episode:

• What George's last booking looked like, hour by hour (spoiler: he booked the Airbnb and did all the cooking)
• Why most of his clients are over 50, and what they ask for that women in their 30s don't
• The line between performing intimacy and feeling it, and why George refuses to act
• How he screens clients, and the red flags that make him turn a booking down
• The "you don't haggle at Gucci" rule for knowing your worth
• The myth that menopause means you "shut up shop," and why some of his clients have never felt more alive
• The sensitive question: does he ever not get aroused on the job?
• Catching feelings for clients, and what he does when that happens
• Sex worker burnout, a week-long overseas booking, and how he recharges
• The scariest thing that's happened to him on the job
• Why a male escort gets called a "stud" while women doing the same work get stigma
• George's message to the men of the world who blame women for their problems

FOLLOW GEORGE:

Website: https://georgegoulburn.com

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/georgegoulburnofficial

SUPPORT THE SHOW!

FirmTech: use code HAPPYSLUT for 15% at https://myfirmtech.com

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Become a paying subscriber on Substack: https://samiamounts.substack.com

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YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@happyslutcast

Share this episode with the friend who's sworn off dating apps forever, and with the man in your life who could stand to learn a thing or two about paying attention.

xoxo,

Samia

Abortion is good for sex. I SAID IT, pinecones. I’m proudly pro-abortion for lots of reasons, but one of them is that without abortion access, consenting to sex can mean consenting to pregnancy…and y’all, that can really, really ruin sex.

And then there are all the other, bigger reasons: women being able to control their own bodies, direct their own lives, and not be forced to give birth when they don’t want to. That’s the real moral issue around abortion.

Sophie Nir is the founder of the Abortion Positivity Project, a nonprofit working to move us beyond the apologetic, shame-filled language that still surrounds abortion—even among people who consider themselves pro-choice.

Sophie joins me to talk about what happens when we stop treating abortion like something we have to reluctantly defend and start talking about it as healthcare, freedom, bodily autonomy, and a social good.

In this episode:

• Why "safe, legal, and rare" still carries abortion stigma
• What Sophie calls abortion fan fiction
• Why "I could never have an abortion" may not mean what you think it means
• How abortion restrictions became embedded in American healthcare and politics, and how the original motivation wasn't morality - it was money
• Why Sophie uses the term forced birth
• How abortion is less politically controversial than we’ve been led to believe
• The times Sophie witnessed anti-abortion protestors coming into the clinic she worked at...to get abortions
• The difference between being pro-choice and being proudly pro-abortion
• The three pillars of abortion positivity
• Why abortion access matters for women’s economic, social, and political freedom
• What the Turnaway Study tells us about what happens when people are denied abortions they want
• Why saying "abortion is healthcare" isn’t enough if we don’t actually treat it like healthcare
• How nobody is conducting a national poll on whether Sophie should get sinus surgery
• What it would look like to live in a culture where restricting abortion feels completely unthinkable
• And why we need to stop talking like we’re losing

CHECK OUT THE ABORTION POSITIVITY PROJECT:

Learn more about Sophie’s work, donate, join the mailing list, and check out their merch:

https://abortionpositivity.com/

Instagram:

https://www.instagram.com/abortionpositivity/

SPONSORS:

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SUPPORT THE SHOW!

Subscribe to my Substack:

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Happy Slut TikTok:

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If this episode made you rethink something you’ve always assumed about abortion, send it to somebody else who might be ready to think about it differently too.

xoxo,

Samia

Getting tested for STIs is responsible. But what if your “comprehensive” STI test…isn’t actually comprehensive?

Shameless Care founder Robert Johnson found that out the hard way when he tested negative for gonorrhea while unknowingly carrying it in his throat and passing it to a partner. That experience eventually led him to build Shameless Care, a sex-positive telehealth company designed to fill some pretty massive gaps in sexual healthcare.

Robert and his Sex Is Good podcast co-host Anna join me to talk about what we actually need to know to take the fear out of sex - so it can be ALL FUN, BABY!

In this episode:

• How Robert tested negative for gonorrhea while unknowingly spreading it
• Why your STI panel may be missing infections
• Why HPV is the glitter of the sexual world
• The HPV vaccine—and why adults over 45 may still want it
• PrEP, DoxyPEP, and the golden age of sexual health
• Why gay orgies are safer now than they were in the ’80s and ’90s
• Why STI prevention can actually give us more sexual freedom
• The ridiculous stigma around herpes
• HSV-1 vs. HSV-2 and how either can show up orally or genitally
• My own experience living—and having lots of sex—with herpes
• How herpes has mostly functioned as an douchebag screener for me
• Viagra and Cialis…for women?!
• An oxytocin nasal spray that I immediately decided I need
• Why sex-positive doctors matter
• And why knowing more about sexual health can make sex a whole lot more fun

CHECK OUT SHAMELESS CARE:

Get private, nonjudgmental sexual healthcare from sex-positive doctors, including comprehensive STI testing, DoxyPEP, PrEP, valacyclovir, sexual wellness medications, oxytocin, and more.

Samia’s Shameless Care affiliate link: https://shamelesscare.sjv.io/aNP1Xb --> Use code HAPPYSLUT at checkout for $15 off your order.

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/shamelesscareofficial/

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@shamelesscareofficial

LISTEN TO SEX IS GOOD:

Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/sex-is-good-podcast/id1816808892

All episodes: https://www.buzzsprout.com/2505799/episodes

The episode where they go into the weeds on DoxyPEP for Women: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/doxypep-and-women-the-truth-shall-set-us-free/id1816808892?i=1000717357537

SPONSORS:

Become a more skillful lover with Kenneth Play’s Beyond Satisfied Pro course. Get $50 off at:

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Get 15% off FirmTech’s innovative sex-tech products at:

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Get private, nonjudgmental sexual healthcare from Shameless Care.

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SUPPORT THE SHOW!

Subscribe to my Substack: https://samiamounts.substack.com/

Samia’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/samia.mounts/

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Happy Slut TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@happyslutcast

Happy Slut YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@happyslutcast

If this episode taught you something you didn’t know about your own sexual health, send it to somebody else who deserves to have more fun and less fear around sex.

xoxo,

Samia

Natalie Davis was a straight-and-narrow, rule-following lawyer mom who married her college boyfriend and fully expected to live happily ever after inside the white-picket-fence monogamy model.

Then her husband cheated—and eventually asked whether they could start having sex with other people.

What followed was messy, painful, liberating, awkward, sexy, and completely life-altering. Natalie is now the author of Saying Yes: My Adventures in Polyamory, a radically candid memoir about surviving infidelity, dismantling everything she thought she knew about marriage, and discovering a version of herself she never knew existed.

You know...like being a hot slut on a train.

In this episode:

• Why Natalie never questioned monogamy before her husband’s affair
• The humiliation of being cheated on—and why she couldn’t bring herself to tell her friends
• How infidelity became an unexpected doorway into consensual non-monogamy
• The difference between choosing polyamory and being polyamorous under duress
• Why staying after betrayal doesn’t make someone a coward or a doormat
• Watching your partner put effort into dates with someone else and realizing he never dated you that way
• Why people are sometimes more comfortable with secret cheating than consensual non-monogamy
• Natalie’s first swinger party
• What swinging taught her about boundaries, desire, and speaking up
• Falling in love with another partner for the first time
• Coming out as polyamorous to family, coworkers, and her child
• Why non-monogamous people still need legal protection from discrimination
• The public-sex adventures that transformed a responsible lawyer mom into a hot slut on a train
• Roadhead, parking-garage blowjobs, sexting, roleplay, and discovering what turns you on in your forties
• Why consensual secrecy can deliver the thrill of cheating without the betrayal
• Natalie’s current liminal dating era
• What it’s really like living in a resident V with her husband and metamour
• The difference between a V and a throuple
• The difference between a living arrangement that feels peaceful and one filled with constant low-level tension
• Why relationships don’t have to last forever to have been successful
• And why Natalie’s story isn’t finished until she’s dead

READ SAYING YES: MY ADVENTURES IN POLYAMORY:

Bookshop.org: https://bookshop.org/shop/happyslut

FOLLOW NATALIE DAVIS:

Website: https://nataliedavisadventures.com/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/nataliedavisadventures/

Medium: https://medium.com/@nataliedavisadventures

Polyamory Today: https://medium.com/polyamory-today

LEARN MORE ABOUT OPEN:

Organization for Polyamory and Ethical Non-monogamy: https://www.open-love.org/

SPONSORS:

Become a more skillful lover with Kenneth Play’s Beyond Satisfied Pro course. Get $50 off at:

https://kennethplay.com/happyslut

Get 15% off FirmTech’s innovative sex-tech products at:

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SUPPORT THE SHOW!

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If this episode made you wonder what other versions of yourself might be waiting to emerge, send it to the responsible, rule-following hot slut in your life.

xoxo,

Samia

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Pinecones, this week I'm talking to JessJess — party producer, president of Mission Control, organizer with the Bonobo Network, and the woman behind Beyond the Rainbow Events, which throws some of the most thoughtfully inclusive parties in the Bay Area. She's also been non-monogamous since high school, survived a marriage that ended in a way I wouldn't wish on anybody, and rebuilt her whole life inside a community that actually showed up for her. This conversation is about kink and parties and rope suspension, but what it's really about is what it takes to believe you're wanted exactly as you are. You don't have to be kinky, poly, or anywhere near a play party for that one to hit.

In this episode:

• How JessJess ended up with three boyfriends and a girlfriend in high school, plus a full safer-sex negotiation at seventeen
• Why she and her husband said "open relationship" for years, because nobody had handed them a better word
• What happens when the person you've loved for twenty years becomes someone you don't recognize
• Her first kink party: unicorn hair and a pink strappy outfit in a room full of black and red
• Thuddy vs. sting-y impact play, and the scene where she discovered that her body talks
• The femdom party where a man volunteered to be her footstool
• What emotional play actually is, and how going into an insecurity on purpose taught her to feel jealousy in her body before reacting to it
• Why tops sometimes need aftercare too
• The sexy dinner party where she was the biggest person in the room and got more attention than anyone else
• And how patriarchy sold all of us the lie that only one kind of body gets to be wanted — a lie that has cost every single one of us something

FOLLOW JESSJESS:

Beyond the Rainbow Events LinkTree: https://linktr.ee/beyondtherainbowevents

--> that link will take you to JessJess's events on Plura, Fetlife, and everywhere else

JessJess's Personal Instagram: http://www.instagram.com/dapperbetch

Beyond the Rainbow Events on Instagram: http://www.instagram.com/beyondtherainbowevents

SUPPORT THE SHOW!

Substack: http://samiamounts.substack.com

Instagram: @samia.mounts and @happyslutcast

TikTok: @happyslutcast

YouTube: @happyslutcast

Send this one to the friend who's been quietly wondering whether she's allowed to want more than one person. And send it to the friend who's decided nobody could want her at the size she is right now. JessJess has receipts for both of them.

xoxo,

Samia

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PINECONES I'M OVER THE MOON! Mina was my anonymous guest in episode 10 of Closeted, "My First Boyfriend Suffered a Lot Because My Sex Drive Was Too High." (Listen here: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/10-my-first-boyfriend-suffered-a-lot-because-my-sex/id1832942242?i=1000734016272) Back then, she was closeted, living with her parents, and maintaining a secret menagerie of lovers. Now, she's out of the closet and full of fresh, candid, tender, sexy updates - and holy hell, has she ever made CHANGES in the last two years.

In this episode:

• The major family breakthrough that changed everything for Mina
• When sex becomes an escape instead of a source of joy
• Getting cut off by the friends she loves most - and how that led to her healing
• Grief, loneliness, and hitting rock bottom
• Graduating from her sexual mentor
• The pressure to be the "perfect daughter"
• Junk food men, emotional support trout, and slutty salmon
• Getting rejected after perfectly fine sex—and being totally okay with it
• Reopening her sexual HR recruiting department
• Why starting a stand-up comedy career is a great way to get laid
• Mina's very shy domestic slave/puppy
• Bisexuality, kissing women, and spreading her bi wings
• Finding her voice through stand-up comedy in South Korea

LISTEN TO MINA'S ORIGINAL CLOSETED EPISODE:

Episode 10: My First Boyfriend Suffered a Lot Because My Sex Drive Was Too High

https://podcasts.apple.com/bm/podcast/10-my-first-boyfriend-suffered-a-lot-because-my-sex/id1832942242?i=1000734016272

FOLLOW MINA:

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jungmal.mina/

Stand Up Seoul: https://www.instagram.com/standupseoul_official/

SEE MINA LIVE & SUPPORT NORTH KOREAN REFUGEES:

Stand-Up Comedy Show for Freedom Speakers International (FSI)

Saturday, August 22 | 8:00 PM

Taco Amigo, Itaewon

All proceeds benefit Freedom Speakers International, a Seoul-based nonprofit that provides English public speaking, mentorship, and career development to North Korean refugees.

Learn more: https://lovefsi.org/

Advance tickets: https://www.standup-seoul.com/event-details/charity-comedy-show-freedom-speakers-international

SUPPORT HAPPY SLUT:

Subscribe to Samia's Substack: https://samiamounts.substack.com

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