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Taara Rose and her partner James were literally crowned Queen and King of the swinger community, but during the pandemic, Taara realized her pleasure had never been her priority. She set out to reconnect with her body, understand her own pleasure, and start advocating for it in all of her encounters.

And the results...?

Let's just say fire emojis abound, pinecones. And uhh, Taara got a tattoo of two pairs of scissors. 🔥✂️🔥✂️🔥

In this episode:

• How Taara and James started out as friends with benefits, and decided to be non-monogamous from day one of their Official Relationship
• Beach blowjobs under a double rainbow (yes, that really happened)
• What it's like to be crowned royalty at one of the biggest swinger conventions in the world
• The anxiety that started showing up in her body before events, how she wrote it off in the moment, and what it was actually telling her
• The article that got her kicked out of the swinger community
• How Taara's whole life changed when she trained to become a certified somatic sex educator
• The moment she realized her own pleasure had never been her priority
• Decentering orgasms and finding pleasure in coffee, dog walks, and sexy trees
• Negotiating a scene weeks in advance, and what two full weeks of aftercare looks like
• Going from swinging together to polyamory apart, and how James feels about it
• The Wheel of Consent, and why "thank you for your no" is part of it
• Why patriarchy has all of us—women and men—performing in bed instead of feeling anything

WORK WITH TAARA ROSE:

Website: https://sexedforthemodernbed.com

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sexedforthemodernbed

Email: [email protected]

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Send this to the friend who keeps saying yes when they want to say no, and to the one who thinks "listen to your body" sounds too woo-woo.

xoxo,

Samia

A man who makes the plans, cooks the meals, puts his phone away, and genuinely loves giving women pleasure? Pinecones, we need to talk.

George Goulburn is a 54-year-old Australian male escort who traded corporate life for a career making women feel safe, seen, and wanted. His bookings can include beach getaways, home-cooked dinners, and plenty of sex—but the attention he describes giving his clients had me swooooooning!

George joins me to talk about what women actually ask for when they hire him, how he finds genuine attraction in his work, and what happens when someone catches feelings. We get into pleasure after menopause, the emotional demands of paid intimacy, and the double standard that celebrates men for the same work women are shamed for. George loves his job, and he’s candid about both its joys and its complications. Whether or not you ever book an escort, you'll come away from this one knowing what it looks like when someone gives you their full, undivided attention, and why you deserve it.

In this episode:

• What George's last booking looked like, hour by hour (spoiler: he booked the Airbnb and did all the cooking)
• Why most of his clients are over 50, and what they ask for that women in their 30s don't
• The line between performing intimacy and feeling it, and why George refuses to act
• How he screens clients, and the red flags that make him turn a booking down
• The "you don't haggle at Gucci" rule for knowing your worth
• The myth that menopause means you "shut up shop," and why some of his clients have never felt more alive
• The sensitive question: does he ever not get aroused on the job?
• Catching feelings for clients, and what he does when that happens
• Sex worker burnout, a week-long overseas booking, and how he recharges
• The scariest thing that's happened to him on the job
• Why a male escort gets called a "stud" while women doing the same work get stigma
• George's message to the men of the world who blame women for their problems

FOLLOW GEORGE:

Website: https://georgegoulburn.com

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/georgegoulburnofficial

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Become a paying subscriber on Substack: https://samiamounts.substack.com

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Share this episode with the friend who's sworn off dating apps forever, and with the man in your life who could stand to learn a thing or two about paying attention.

xoxo,

Samia

Abortion is good for sex. I SAID IT, pinecones. I’m proudly pro-abortion for lots of reasons, but one of them is that without abortion access, consenting to sex can mean consenting to pregnancy…and y’all, that can really, really ruin sex.

And then there are all the other, bigger reasons: women being able to control their own bodies, direct their own lives, and not be forced to give birth when they don’t want to. That’s the real moral issue around abortion.

Sophie Nir is the founder of the Abortion Positivity Project, a nonprofit working to move us beyond the apologetic, shame-filled language that still surrounds abortion—even among people who consider themselves pro-choice.

Sophie joins me to talk about what happens when we stop treating abortion like something we have to reluctantly defend and start talking about it as healthcare, freedom, bodily autonomy, and a social good.

In this episode:

• Why "safe, legal, and rare" still carries abortion stigma
• What Sophie calls abortion fan fiction
• Why "I could never have an abortion" may not mean what you think it means
• How abortion restrictions became embedded in American healthcare and politics, and how the original motivation wasn't morality - it was money
• Why Sophie uses the term forced birth
• How abortion is less politically controversial than we’ve been led to believe
• The times Sophie witnessed anti-abortion protestors coming into the clinic she worked at...to get abortions
• The difference between being pro-choice and being proudly pro-abortion
• The three pillars of abortion positivity
• Why abortion access matters for women’s economic, social, and political freedom
• What the Turnaway Study tells us about what happens when people are denied abortions they want
• Why saying "abortion is healthcare" isn’t enough if we don’t actually treat it like healthcare
• How nobody is conducting a national poll on whether Sophie should get sinus surgery
• What it would look like to live in a culture where restricting abortion feels completely unthinkable
• And why we need to stop talking like we’re losing

CHECK OUT THE ABORTION POSITIVITY PROJECT:

Learn more about Sophie’s work, donate, join the mailing list, and check out their merch:

https://abortionpositivity.com/

Instagram:

https://www.instagram.com/abortionpositivity/

SPONSORS:

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SUPPORT THE SHOW!

Subscribe to my Substack:

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Happy Slut TikTok:

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Happy Slut YouTube:

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If this episode made you rethink something you’ve always assumed about abortion, send it to somebody else who might be ready to think about it differently too.

xoxo,

Samia

Getting tested for STIs is responsible. But what if your “comprehensive” STI test…isn’t actually comprehensive?

Shameless Care founder Robert Johnson found that out the hard way when he tested negative for gonorrhea while unknowingly carrying it in his throat and passing it to a partner. That experience eventually led him to build Shameless Care, a sex-positive telehealth company designed to fill some pretty massive gaps in sexual healthcare.

Robert and his Sex Is Good podcast co-host Anna join me to talk about what we actually need to know to take the fear out of sex - so it can be ALL FUN, BABY!

In this episode:

• How Robert tested negative for gonorrhea while unknowingly spreading it
• Why your STI panel may be missing infections
• Why HPV is the glitter of the sexual world
• The HPV vaccine—and why adults over 45 may still want it
• PrEP, DoxyPEP, and the golden age of sexual health
• Why gay orgies are safer now than they were in the ’80s and ’90s
• Why STI prevention can actually give us more sexual freedom
• The ridiculous stigma around herpes
• HSV-1 vs. HSV-2 and how either can show up orally or genitally
• My own experience living—and having lots of sex—with herpes
• How herpes has mostly functioned as an douchebag screener for me
• Viagra and Cialis…for women?!
• An oxytocin nasal spray that I immediately decided I need
• Why sex-positive doctors matter
• And why knowing more about sexual health can make sex a whole lot more fun

CHECK OUT SHAMELESS CARE:

Get private, nonjudgmental sexual healthcare from sex-positive doctors, including comprehensive STI testing, DoxyPEP, PrEP, valacyclovir, sexual wellness medications, oxytocin, and more.

Samia’s Shameless Care affiliate link: https://shamelesscare.sjv.io/aNP1Xb --> Use code HAPPYSLUT at checkout for $15 off your order.

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/shamelesscareofficial/

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@shamelesscareofficial

LISTEN TO SEX IS GOOD:

Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/sex-is-good-podcast/id1816808892

All episodes: https://www.buzzsprout.com/2505799/episodes

The episode where they go into the weeds on DoxyPEP for Women: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/doxypep-and-women-the-truth-shall-set-us-free/id1816808892?i=1000717357537

SPONSORS:

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SUPPORT THE SHOW!

Subscribe to my Substack: https://samiamounts.substack.com/

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Happy Slut YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@happyslutcast

If this episode taught you something you didn’t know about your own sexual health, send it to somebody else who deserves to have more fun and less fear around sex.

xoxo,

Samia

Natalie Davis was a straight-and-narrow, rule-following lawyer mom who married her college boyfriend and fully expected to live happily ever after inside the white-picket-fence monogamy model.

Then her husband cheated—and eventually asked whether they could start having sex with other people.

What followed was messy, painful, liberating, awkward, sexy, and completely life-altering. Natalie is now the author of Saying Yes: My Adventures in Polyamory, a radically candid memoir about surviving infidelity, dismantling everything she thought she knew about marriage, and discovering a version of herself she never knew existed.

You know...like being a hot slut on a train.

In this episode:

• Why Natalie never questioned monogamy before her husband’s affair
• The humiliation of being cheated on—and why she couldn’t bring herself to tell her friends
• How infidelity became an unexpected doorway into consensual non-monogamy
• The difference between choosing polyamory and being polyamorous under duress
• Why staying after betrayal doesn’t make someone a coward or a doormat
• Watching your partner put effort into dates with someone else and realizing he never dated you that way
• Why people are sometimes more comfortable with secret cheating than consensual non-monogamy
• Natalie’s first swinger party
• What swinging taught her about boundaries, desire, and speaking up
• Falling in love with another partner for the first time
• Coming out as polyamorous to family, coworkers, and her child
• Why non-monogamous people still need legal protection from discrimination
• The public-sex adventures that transformed a responsible lawyer mom into a hot slut on a train
• Roadhead, parking-garage blowjobs, sexting, roleplay, and discovering what turns you on in your forties
• Why consensual secrecy can deliver the thrill of cheating without the betrayal
• Natalie’s current liminal dating era
• What it’s really like living in a resident V with her husband and metamour
• The difference between a V and a throuple
• The difference between a living arrangement that feels peaceful and one filled with constant low-level tension
• Why relationships don’t have to last forever to have been successful
• And why Natalie’s story isn’t finished until she’s dead

READ SAYING YES: MY ADVENTURES IN POLYAMORY:

Bookshop.org: https://bookshop.org/shop/happyslut

FOLLOW NATALIE DAVIS:

Website: https://nataliedavisadventures.com/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/nataliedavisadventures/

Medium: https://medium.com/@nataliedavisadventures

Polyamory Today: https://medium.com/polyamory-today

LEARN MORE ABOUT OPEN:

Organization for Polyamory and Ethical Non-monogamy: https://www.open-love.org/

SPONSORS:

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If this episode made you wonder what other versions of yourself might be waiting to emerge, send it to the responsible, rule-following hot slut in your life.

xoxo,

Samia

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Pinecones, this week I'm talking to JessJess — party producer, president of Mission Control, organizer with the Bonobo Network, and the woman behind Beyond the Rainbow Events, which throws some of the most thoughtfully inclusive parties in the Bay Area. She's also been non-monogamous since high school, survived a marriage that ended in a way I wouldn't wish on anybody, and rebuilt her whole life inside a community that actually showed up for her. This conversation is about kink and parties and rope suspension, but what it's really about is what it takes to believe you're wanted exactly as you are. You don't have to be kinky, poly, or anywhere near a play party for that one to hit.

In this episode:

• How JessJess ended up with three boyfriends and a girlfriend in high school, plus a full safer-sex negotiation at seventeen
• Why she and her husband said "open relationship" for years, because nobody had handed them a better word
• What happens when the person you've loved for twenty years becomes someone you don't recognize
• Her first kink party: unicorn hair and a pink strappy outfit in a room full of black and red
• Thuddy vs. sting-y impact play, and the scene where she discovered that her body talks
• The femdom party where a man volunteered to be her footstool
• What emotional play actually is, and how going into an insecurity on purpose taught her to feel jealousy in her body before reacting to it
• Why tops sometimes need aftercare too
• The sexy dinner party where she was the biggest person in the room and got more attention than anyone else
• And how patriarchy sold all of us the lie that only one kind of body gets to be wanted — a lie that has cost every single one of us something

FOLLOW JESSJESS:

Beyond the Rainbow Events LinkTree: https://linktr.ee/beyondtherainbowevents

--> that link will take you to JessJess's events on Plura, Fetlife, and everywhere else

JessJess's Personal Instagram: http://www.instagram.com/dapperbetch

Beyond the Rainbow Events on Instagram: http://www.instagram.com/beyondtherainbowevents

SUPPORT THE SHOW!

Substack: http://samiamounts.substack.com

Instagram: @samia.mounts and @happyslutcast

TikTok: @happyslutcast

YouTube: @happyslutcast

Send this one to the friend who's been quietly wondering whether she's allowed to want more than one person. And send it to the friend who's decided nobody could want her at the size she is right now. JessJess has receipts for both of them.

xoxo,

Samia

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PINECONES I'M OVER THE MOON! Mina was my anonymous guest in episode 10 of Closeted, "My First Boyfriend Suffered a Lot Because My Sex Drive Was Too High." (Listen here: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/10-my-first-boyfriend-suffered-a-lot-because-my-sex/id1832942242?i=1000734016272) Back then, she was closeted, living with her parents, and maintaining a secret menagerie of lovers. Now, she's out of the closet and full of fresh, candid, tender, sexy updates - and holy hell, has she ever made CHANGES in the last two years.

In this episode:

• The major family breakthrough that changed everything for Mina
• When sex becomes an escape instead of a source of joy
• Getting cut off by the friends she loves most - and how that led to her healing
• Grief, loneliness, and hitting rock bottom
• Graduating from her sexual mentor
• The pressure to be the "perfect daughter"
• Junk food men, emotional support trout, and slutty salmon
• Getting rejected after perfectly fine sex—and being totally okay with it
• Reopening her sexual HR recruiting department
• Why starting a stand-up comedy career is a great way to get laid
• Mina's very shy domestic slave/puppy
• Bisexuality, kissing women, and spreading her bi wings
• Finding her voice through stand-up comedy in South Korea

LISTEN TO MINA'S ORIGINAL CLOSETED EPISODE:

Episode 10: My First Boyfriend Suffered a Lot Because My Sex Drive Was Too High

https://podcasts.apple.com/bm/podcast/10-my-first-boyfriend-suffered-a-lot-because-my-sex/id1832942242?i=1000734016272

FOLLOW MINA:

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jungmal.mina/

Stand Up Seoul: https://www.instagram.com/standupseoul_official/

SEE MINA LIVE & SUPPORT NORTH KOREAN REFUGEES:

Stand-Up Comedy Show for Freedom Speakers International (FSI)

Saturday, August 22 | 8:00 PM

Taco Amigo, Itaewon

All proceeds benefit Freedom Speakers International, a Seoul-based nonprofit that provides English public speaking, mentorship, and career development to North Korean refugees.

Learn more: https://lovefsi.org/

Advance tickets: https://www.standup-seoul.com/event-details/charity-comedy-show-freedom-speakers-international

SUPPORT HAPPY SLUT:

Subscribe to Samia's Substack: https://samiamounts.substack.com

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/samia.mounts & https://www.instagram.com/happyslutcast

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YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@happyslutcast

Questions, thoughts, feedback, dreams and wishes: [email protected]

Share this episode with the friend who's been fishing for emotional support trout in a pond full of slutty salmon.

xoxo,

Samia

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One of the biggest things making a joyful sex life hard to cultivate in patriarchy is our collective acceptance of patriarchal beauty standards. These bullshit standards have convinced almost everyone that they're not sexy. IT'S A LIE, PINECONES, IT'S A DIRTY LIIIIIIIE. All sorts of bodies are sexy, all sorts of people are sexy, and there really is someone for everyone - but only if we are able to deprogram patriarchy's fuckery from our minds and see ourselves for who and what we really are. Fat rolls aren't gross and cellulite isn't disgusting. Wrinkles are not something you have to hide to be beautiful. These ideas are just the lies of patriarchal capitalism trying to make you think you need to spend money and starve yourself to be lovable.

Reality check: You are lovable RIGHT EFFING NOW. Listen to me read my Substack essay, You Can't Hate Yourself Thin, in this week's audio-only solo episode.

In this episode:

• Why I went audio-only this week - I'm on a semi-real vacation visiting my mom for her 79th birthday!
• The lie patriarchy teaches about which bodies are allowed to be sexy
• Hitting my lifelong goal weight in 2019, and the fucked-up sense of "benevolent superiority" that came with it
• The self-love weight-loss advice I used to smugly hand out like gospel *cringe*
• How gaining the weight back spiraled into daily compulsive eating and shame
• My New York trip, the naked mirror incident, and the moment my internal sex machine screeched to a halt
• Growing up in a family that taught me to fear food and fat
• The baloney incident — my earliest memory of learning fat was bad
• The Atkins diet, the watermelon breakdown, and finally learning what hunger actually feels like
• The relationship epiphany in my mid-twenties that unlocked real, fast, joyful weight loss
• Crying into my ex's chest and realizing my "self-love" had a body-shaped asterisk on it
• What I'm doing now to reprogram myself
• Why the obsession with one "correct" body is patriarchy's rulebook, not the truth — and how we get free of it

SUPPORT THE SHOW!

Subscribe to my Substack: samiamounts.substack.com

Instagram: @samia.mounts & @happyslutcast

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YouTube: @happyslutcast

Send this one to the friend who's white-knuckling a diet right now, convinced that this time it'll finally fix how she feels about herself...and to the friend who compliments everyone else's body but never her own.

xoxo,

Samia

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Amanda Dames, The Kink Consultant, loves helping couples struggling to reconcile a mismatch in their desires, specifically surrounding kink. She's a certified Somatica sex and relationship coach and certified sexologist who specializes in couples where one partner is kinky and the other one isn't, and the way she works with them will change how you think about asking for what you want, whether your fantasy involves rope or just finally being taken to a dinner you didn't have to plan.

In this episode:

- Why both monogamy and polyamory require partners to make sacrifices, and no one wants to talk about it

- Amanda's first coaching move isn't catering to the kinky partner, it's finding out what the vanilla partner actually wants

- Why "I don't have any fantasies" is almost never true

- The massage problem: why her ask and his ask are way closer than either of them thinks

- Porn vs. romance novels — both are erotic material, but only one gets made fun of by men

- Nine out of ten of Amanda's clients are husbands who want to submit (and her theory on why the dominant ones are all from New Jersey)

- Amanda's ten-session process with couples, laid out start to finish

- Why she thinks communication is NOT the most important thing in relationships

- The most freeing thing you'll hear if you're scared to top someone — they're already doing 90% of the work

- Subspace, dom flow, and finding your authentic dominant instead of playing a role

- Amanda gets real about her own jealousy, and says something out loud she never has before

- How patriarchy cuts men off from their vulnerability and women off from their power

FOLLOW AMANDA:

Join her free monthly group for women exploring their dominant side — email [email protected] with a photo or social handle

Website: https://amandadames.com

The Kink Consultant Podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/3psOpSZMQQYm2cN69bIKwc

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/the_kinkconsultant

Join Amanda at Hedonism for Swinkation (use code TKC50 for up to $400 off): https://www.swinkation.com/

SUPPORT THE SHOW!

Subscribe to My Substack: https://samiamounts.substack.com

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YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@happyslutcast

Share this episode with anyone who's been sitting on the same fantasy for fifteen years, or with the partner who'd actually want to hear it if it came at them a little slower.

xoxo,

Samia

Mentioned in this episode:

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Get a 15% discount on all FirmTech products!

Use code CLOSETED at check-out.

Marni Kinrys is the dating coach of every nervous, awkward man's dreams, pinecones. She developed her Wing Girl Method over years of watching good men fumble every time they try to connect with women - and her practical techniques for sparking attraction will make you more confident connecting with others, no matter who you are.

In this episode:

• Why the "nice guy" is just the other side of the asshole coin
• The tiny reframe that changes everything: from "what can I get from her?" to "what do I actually want to know about her?"
• Why so many men literally can't flirt—and why it's a mindset before it's a skill
• Marni's wildest exercise: sending guys to ask 10 women if they think he's sexy (and what the women actually say)
• Her flirting frameworks, decoded: OSA (Observe, Share, Ask) and LCA (Learn, Confirm, Affirm)
• The truth about the Manosphere: the real nuggets buried in all the poison
• Why you don't need six-pack abs or six figures—and what actually makes a face "morph" into hot
• Giving good men permission to go after what they actually want
• How patriarchy quietly wrecks men, too

FOLLOW MARNI:

Grab her free flirting cheat sheet: https://winggirlmethod.com/flirtcs

Website: https://winggirlmethod.com

Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/how-to-get-the-girl-an-ask-women-podcast/id651219242

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/user/marnikinrys

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/winggirlmethod/

SUPPORT THE SHOW!

Subscribe to My Substack: https://samiamounts.substack.com

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/samia.mounts & https://www.instagram.com/happyslutcast

TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@happyslutcast

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@happyslutcast

Share this episode with a good man who can't figure out why he's still single, or with any woman who's exhausted from trying to explain men to themselves.

xoxo,

Samia

Mentioned in this episode:

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