Breaking Free from OCD, Anxiety & Stress with Matt Codde

Harm OCD – Harmful Intrusive Thoughts & Why Fighting Them Makes It Worse


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Harm OCD and harmful intrusive thoughts can feel terrifying — especially when your mind produces violent or disturbing thoughts that feel completely against who you are.


In this episode of The Restored Minds Show, licensed therapist Matt Codde, LCSW explains Harm OCD and harmful intrusive thoughts, what they really mean, and why having these thoughts does not make you a dangerous person.


If you’ve ever wondered why these intrusive thoughts appear and why trying to control or analyze them only makes them worse, this episode will help you understand the real mechanism behind the OCD loop.


Rather than focusing on eliminating thoughts, Matt explains why recovery from Harm OCD comes from changing how you respond to thoughts, emotions, and compulsions.


🧠 What You’ll Learn in This Episode

✅ What Harm OCD and harmful intrusive thoughts actually are

✅ Why intrusive thoughts do not reflect who you are

✅ The difference between intrusive thoughts and real harmful intent

✅ Why trying to control or suppress thoughts strengthens OCD

✅ How shame and guilt reinforce the intrusive thought cycle

✅ Why compulsions keep harmful intrusive thoughts stuck


These insights will help you start breaking the OCD loop and understand why intrusive thoughts lose power when you stop reacting to them.


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⏱️ Timestamps

00:00 – Introduction: Harm OCD & harmful intrusive thoughts

01:31 – Harmful intent vs intrusive thoughts (key difference)

03:02 – Why Harm OCD thoughts feel so frightening

04:41 – Why intrusive thoughts don’t reflect who you are

06:01 – Why the brain produces disturbing thoughts

07:30 – You are not your thoughts

09:03 – How shame and guilt intensify Harm OCD

11:03 – The compulsions that keep the OCD loop alive

13:01 – Why trying to control thoughts makes them worse

16:00 – The real problem: the OCD loop, not the thoughts

17:23 – Why talk therapy often fails with intrusive thoughts

19:52 – Thoughts vs emotions: what’s actually driving OCD

21:30 – Three steps to start breaking the Harm OCD cycle

24:03 – Final encouragement and recovery message

⚠️ Disclaimer

This content is for educational purposes only and is not medical advice. Consult a licensed professional for personalized support.

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