Havilah's Podcast

By Havilah CunningtonReligion & Spirituality

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September 22, 2021 186: Shake Off The Dust
Enjoy this message Havilah preached in San Jose earlier this month at the Unique Conference. Your call is too great and your purpose too essential to be deterred by offense. Shake the dust of offense off of you so you can go into your promised land free and clear! You don’t want to take the offense of the desert in with you to the next season and land God has sent you into.
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43 min
September 01, 2021 185: Cunnington Catch Up
Havilah has so many things she wants to catch you up on today!
Remember when the Cunnington’s started asking God if they were in the right place back in June? Remember when they visited Nashville? Tune in to hear their new thoughts on this and where God is leading them.
Havilah shares the importance of really leaning into what God has for them instead of doing it and then asking for blessing in it. Waiting sucks, we get it! But waiting on God is never a bad idea.
Havilah shares encouragement if you’re in a season where you don’t know what’s next and you’re longing for something different. What you have control over is today! So let’s focus on the one thing you can do to give God glory TODAY.
You won’t want to miss the BIG NEWS that came out of a meeting with a few Bethel leaders recently and how it affects everything else in their world. Did someone say new home?
Havilah is excited to dive head first into something new and we hope you stick around for the ride!
P.S. Make sure you go back and listen to our Boundaries Series we did last month!
P.P.S. Join Havilah for her brand new FREE event “Created For More: Defining Your Boundaries, Knowing God’s Voice, and Dreaming His Way” by saving your spot HERE!
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22 min
August 25, 2021 184: Boundaries and Ministry with Danny Silk
In today’s podcast with special guest Danny Silk, Havilah and Danny discuss how to set boundaries in a ministry setting. Listen in as they talk about common themes that are experienced in ministry like how no one has taught Christians to say no to one another or how to be unhappy with one another. It sounds funny, but it’s true. We have been taught that people pleasing is ‘Godly’ and having people upset with us means we did something wrong. But is that true? Find your answers to the questions of what is AND IS NOT healthy in ministry and how to set boundaries in a ministry setting.
Also: Don’t forget to sign up for Havilah’s FREE EVENT: CREATED FOR MORE event at: https://www.thetruthacademy.com/created-for-more
Get clear on boundaries and how to maintain them, how to chase your dream God’s way and how to hear God’s voice in every circumstance in your daily life! We are taking all of your most-asked questions and rolling it into a 3-Day exclusive event where Havilah will teach you everything you need to know about how to live your purpose and remove the blocks that stand in your way!
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43 min
August 18, 2021 183: Boundaries and Work
How do you set Boundaries in your workspace and still work with integrity? Having boundaries in the workplace is the kindest thing you can do for your employers. When you figure out your YES’s - your core values - your NO’s will get really clear. Your boss doesn’t burn you out - YOU burn you out. You train your employers what access they have to you. That doesn’t make you a bad employee it makes you more reliable and trustworthy. Boundaries are FOR us, not AGAINST someone else. Showing up like a spiritual grownup means you set boundaries, which is showing up more obediently to God. We serve God and not man; a fear of man will likely result in boundary issues in the workplace. Being clear on the boundaries of your role and duties, your boss’s role and duties and what hours you will be able to work to produce with excellence and bring maximum value to your role and responsibilities is foundational. Then, sticking to it and not allowing guilt or shame to run the show is the key to maintaining boundaries in your work! What did you think of this episode? Let us know in our socials! Can’t wait to hear from you on Facebook and Instagram - tag us in your stories + posts! @truthtotable @havilahcunnington
30 min
August 11, 2021 182: Boundaries and Family featuring Dr. Alison Cook
Family of origins is tricky especially in the faith space There’s the verse: “Honor your father and mother in the Lord for this is right.” So how do we reconcile that and live with healthy boundaries and apply them to our family of origins? Isn’t it disrespectful to come up against your parent’s wishes and say ‘no’?
This week licensed therapist Dr. Alison Cook @alisoncookphd is on the show and shares about how honoring our parents isn’t about how they feel, but rather, about becoming the person God wants us to be. Dr. Cook and Havilah about how to set boundaries in the relationships in life that tend to be the relationships that are the most sticky: family. Nothing is off-limits, we talk about relationships with mothers, in-laws, children, what does actual toxicity in a relationship look like? We took questions we heard from you on socials and got answers straight from Dr. Cook! Listen in and find out the key signals that clue you in that there is an issue with unhealthy boundaries in your life.
57 min
August 04, 2021 181: Boundaries in Marriage
Boundaries in marriage might sound like it’s a contradictory statement. Anyone else have a hard time knowing how to be ‘one’ with someone while also maintaining boundaries? The biggest question I get when speaking is “How do I know I’m in unity and still say no when it’s healthy?” Following the example of the Trinity and God and creation we find some key markers for how boundaries in marriage work. There is no whole, pure love where there is no power of choice. Distinctly different entities and yet they are wholly and fully God as one. Living powerfully means you don’t need to wait for anyone else to participate. You living the abundant life only requires one participant: YOU. He knows how to make 2 one - but He also doesn’t require us to lose ourselves for the sake of our spouse. Are you showing up wholeheartedly in taking ownership of your attitudes, choices and feelings and stewarding them in a way that doesn’t require your spouse's participation? Listen in as Havilah shares a real, personal story that illustrates how Boundaries in marriage work and unpacks how it plays out in real life when you partner with the Holy Spirit.
39 min
July 28, 2021 180: Restorative Singlehood
Join Havilah in the last of a relationship series for those who are in a season of waiting or singleness. This week, Havilah invited Courtney Cruz, a Truth To Table staff member to share her story of not waiting well and how that played out in her life. Married at 21, Courtney’s dream life of doing ministry and starting a family was turned upside down pretty quickly. What transpired after that was messy. Single parenthood, more than one marriage and divorce, the consequences of chasing her dreams over God’s best carried a heavy price. Hear Courtney’s journey of trying to write her own love story and chasing after her own romantic dreams and what it took for God to get her fully to Himself. Listen in as Havilah chats with her about how Ishmaels get created when we aren’t willing to wait for our Isaac and the beauty and hope that await those that truly surrender to allow God to write the story for their lives.
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1 hr 2 min
July 23, 2021 179: Cunnington Catch Up
Havilah is back with another behind the scenes peak of what’s going on in the Cunnington world.
Tune in to hear some vacation tips and how they make vacations cost effective, thoughts about their eldest going into high school this year, and are the Cunnington’s moving?!
If you heard Havilah’s latest Cunnington Catch Up, you know they were on their way to Nashville. (If you haven’t heard it, stop and go listen to episode 172 first!)
Have you ever asked God the question, “What’s next?” Hear how Havilah and her family walked through this process with Him and what He showed, or didn’t show, them through it.
Did you hear about everything Havilah and her family had to go through when they realized Grayson’s passport had expired RIGHT before they left for vacation? It was an eye-opening experience! Get the full story that you didn’t get on socials.
“I don’t know what He’s going to do. All I know is that as long as I’m where God has me, that’s all that matters, and if He has me somewhere, I’m going to give it all I’ve got.” - Havilah Cunnington
The Cunnington fam just got back from vacation. Her family started going to Cabo, Mexico when Havilah was 19 years old, and they’ve gone back ever since. Hear a cool testimony that her dad played a role in and find out all the details about how you can save money on your next vacation! Because you NEED to get away, get rest, and refresh. And it’s possible to do without getting into debt and feeling stressed the whole time.
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31 min
July 21, 2021 178: Singled Out in a Couple’s World featuring Christa Smith
Always a bridesmaid and never a bride? Ever feel advertised as the token single girl who everyone is trying to marry off? Christa Smith knows how you feel. There is a constant message of: you need to be in a relationship. And that singleness is a curse. That is not Godly, and not Truth. Being single is not a bad thing. A journey of singleness is an invitation to truly trust God with your life. Do not settle for a relationship that is anything less than God’s best, which will always be first and foremost: HIM. Learn what will help shift your perspective from a place of waiting to a place of contentment. Hear about what specific tips Christa has for you in your season of waiting and find out WHY your single years are not ‘filler years’ until you get married. Shift your perspective from waiting to be chosen to a place of a God-focused, empowered place of CHOOSING. Healed and whole marriage doesn’t happen unless you are actively chasing being healed and whole as a single person. Listen in as Christa brings the fire as she shares the top keys to lean in and maximize the power of your singleness. “Look to the future but don’t forfeit the present of what God is doing now.” - Christa Smith
Also - don’t miss out on Havilah’s ONE DAY ONLY LIVE TRAINING for How To Deliver a Message, this Thursday, July 22nd, save your seat here: https://www.messageprep.com/message-delivery
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34 min
July 14, 2021 177: Contentment While Contending for the Dream featuring Christa Smith
You can’t run from the waiting! In this episode, Havilah interviews and chats with Christa Smith, Pastor, Preacher, Teacher and Author. Content while contending for what you want. If God isn’t enough for you now, in the absence of something, He won’t be enough when you get it. In order to get to a place of contentment, you have to grieve what you don’t have. Often times the depths of your desire will connect you with the true surrender needed to carry the dream that awaits you. Listen in as Christa shares about the journey of singleness that lasted far longer than when she wanted. When you aren’t in an ‘encounter’, can you still walk out your declaration? We believe that this episode is for the single woman OR the woman who is in a painful season of waiting or who is facing longsuffering. You will find freedom in the encouragement Christa has for you, through her inspiring story and deep wisdom.
DON’T FORGET: Havilah is hosting a LIVE, FREE Message Prep Masterclass this Thursday, July 15th at 10am and 5pm PST. Register here! https://www.messageprep.com/
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47 min

About Havilah's Podcast

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Welcome to Havilah’s Podcast where we're breaking the mold, shaking things up, and keeping it real! As a full-time minister for over two decades, women’s pastor at Bethel Church, and the heart behind Truth to Table, Havilah's got some serious truth bombs to drop. Get ready for real talk on life, family, relationships, ministry and more - no fluff, just truth. Brace yourself for laughter, blush-worthy moments, and plenty of ""hey, same here!"" revelations.