<a href="https://hell.bio/dunkfamily" target="_blank">Support the Dunk Family</a> • <a href="https://hell.bio/donate" target="_blank">Support the Show </a> —  3rd and final part of Santiago's interview with Charlotte Hayes (Charli), a Gen-Z ex-Adventist. After escaping her abusive home, Charli discovered she didn't have proof of her U.S. citizenship, so she had to get a green card and worried about possibly being deported. We also discussed her journey of healing and leaving the faith she grew up in.Charli's Links:  <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@charli.hayes" target="_blank">TikTok @charli.hayes </a> <a href="https://www.instagram.com/charlihayes_/" target="_blank">Instagram @charlihayes_ </a> <a href="https://www.youtube.com/@charlihayes_" target="_blank">YouTube @charlihayes_</a>Resources / Topics Mentioned:  <a href="https://en.wiktionary.org/wiki/maskrosbarn" target="_blank">Maskrosbarn ("Dandelion Child") </a> <a href="https://hell.bio/mental-health" target="_blank">Mental Health and Therapist Resources</a>Support for Victims of Abuse:  <a href="https://www.rainn.org/resources" target="_blank">RAINN - National Sexual Assault Hotline </a> <a href="https://www.childhelphotline.org/" target="_blank">Childhelp - National Child Abuse Hotline </a> <a href="https://www.thehotline.org/" target="_blank">The Hotline - National Domestic Violence Hotline</a>Full Transcripts, resources and more: <a href="https://hell.bio/notes" target="_blank">hell.bio/notes </a> —  Have a story to share? <a href="https://hell.bio/share-story" target="_blank">Write to us</a>, send a DM or voice message on <a href="https://www.instagram.com/haystacksnhell/" target="_blank">Instagram</a>, or leave a voicemail at (301) 750-8648‬. We take your privacy seriously: <a href="https://hell.bio/privacy" target="_blank">Privacy Policy </a> —  <a href="https://twitter.com/haystacksnhell" target="_blank">Twitter</a> • <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@haystacksnhell" target="_blank">TikTok</a> • <a href="https://www.instagram.com/haystacksnhell/" target="_blank">Instagram</a> • <a href="https://www.youtube.com/@haystacksnhell" target="_blank">YouTube</a> • <a href="https://www.facebook.com/haystacksnhell" target="_blank">Facebook </a> —  Credits: Music: Hall of the Mountain King Kevin MacLeod (incompetech.com) • Licensed under <a href="https://creativecommons.org/licenses/by/3.0/" target="_blank">Creative Commons: By Attribution 3.0 License</a>

Support the Dunk Family • Support the Show — 3rd and final part of Santiago's interview with Charlotte Hayes (Charli), a Gen-Z ex-Adventist. After escaping her abusive home, Charli discovered she didn't have proof of her U.S. citizenship, so she had to get a green card and worried about possibly being deported. We also discussed her journey of healing and leaving the faith she grew up in. Charli's Links: TikTok @charli.hayes Instagram @charlihayes_ YouTube @charlihayes_ Resources / Topics Mentioned: Maskrosbarn ("Dandelion Child") Mental Health and Therapist Resources Support for Victims of Abuse: RAINN - National Sexual Assault Hotline Childhelp - National Child Abuse Hotline The Hotline - National Domestic Violence Hotline Full Transcripts, resources and more: hell.bio/notes — Have a story to share? Write to us, send a DM or voice message on Instagram, or leave a voicemail at (301) 750-8648‬. We take your privacy seriously: Privacy Policy — Twitter • TikTok • Instagram • YouTube • Facebook — Credits: Music: Hall of the Mountain King Kevin MacLeod (incompetech.com) • Licensed under Creative Commons: By Attribution 3.0 License

<a href="https://hell.bio/dunkfamily" rel="noopener noreferrer">Support the Dunk Family</a> • <a href="https://hell.bio/donate" rel="noopener noreferrer">Support the Show&nbsp;</a> —&nbsp; 3rd and final part of Santiago's interview with Charlotte Hayes (Charli), a Gen-Z ex-Adventist. After escaping her abusive home, Charli discovered she didn't have proof of her U.S. citizenship, so she had to get a green card and worried about possibly being deported. We also discussed her journey of healing and leaving the faith she grew up in.Charli's Links:&nbsp; <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@charli.hayes" rel="noopener noreferrer">TikTok @charli.hayes&nbsp;</a> <a href="https://www.instagram.com/charlihayes_/" rel="noopener noreferrer">Instagram @charlihayes_&nbsp;</a> <a href="https://www.youtube.com/@charlihayes_" rel="noopener noreferrer">YouTube @charlihayes_</a>Resources / Topics Mentioned:&nbsp; <a href="https://en.wiktionary.org/wiki/maskrosbarn" rel="noopener noreferrer">Maskrosbarn ("Dandelion Child")&nbsp;</a> <a href="https://hell.bio/mental-health" rel="noopener noreferrer">Mental Health and Therapist Resources</a>Support for Victims of Abuse:&nbsp; <a href="https://www.rainn.org/resources" rel="noopener noreferrer">RAINN - National Sexual Assault Hotline&nbsp;</a> <a href="https://www.childhelphotline.org/" rel="noopener noreferrer">Childhelp - National Child Abuse Hotline&nbsp;</a> <a href="https://www.thehotline.org/" rel="noopener noreferrer">The Hotline - National Domestic Violence Hotline</a>Full Transcripts, resources and more: <a href="https://hell.bio/notes" rel="noopener noreferrer">hell.bio/notes&nbsp;</a> —&nbsp; Have a story to share? <a href="https://hell.bio/share-story" rel="noopener noreferrer">Write to us</a>, send a DM or voice message on <a href="https://www.instagram.com/haystacksnhell/" rel="noopener noreferrer">Instagram</a>, or leave a voicemail at (301) 750-8648‬. We take your privacy seriously: <a href="https://hell.bio/privacy" rel="noopener noreferrer">Privacy Policy&nbsp;</a> —&nbsp; <a href="https://twitter.com/haystacksnhell" rel="noopener noreferrer">Twitter</a> • <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@haystacksnhell" rel="noopener noreferrer">TikTok</a> •&nbsp;<a href="https://www.instagram.com/haystacksnhell/" rel="noopener noreferrer">Instagram</a> •&nbsp;<a href="https://www.youtube.com/@haystacksnhell" rel="noopener noreferrer">YouTube</a> •&nbsp;<a href="https://www.facebook.com/haystacksnhell" rel="noopener noreferrer">Facebook&nbsp;</a> —&nbsp; Credits: Music: Hall of the Mountain King Kevin MacLeod (incompetech.com)&nbsp;• Licensed under <a href="https://creativecommons.org/licenses/by/3.0/" rel="noopener noreferrer">Creative Commons: By Attribution 3.0 License</a>

S2:E8 - Charli: Escaping her Adoptive SDA Parents - Pt. 3

<a href="https://hell.bio/dunkfamily" target="_blank">Support the Dunk Family</a> • <a href="https://hell.bio/donate" target="_blank">Support the Show </a> —  Santiago interviews Charlotte Hayes (Charli), a Gen-Z ex-Adventist. She was adopted from Russia and brought to the U.S. as a baby by an Adventist couple. Growing up, Charli experienced emotional, physical, and sexual abuse at home. The police and Child Protective Services investigated, but nothing happened, so she ran away from home at 18. She now has over 500k people on TikTok who have been following her life story.Charli's Links:  <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@charli.hayes" target="_blank">TikTok @charli.hayes </a> <a href="https://www.instagram.com/charlihayes_/" target="_blank">Instagram @charlihayes_ </a> <a href="https://www.youtube.com/@charlihayes_" target="_blank">YouTube @charlihayes_</a>Resources / Topics Mentioned:  <a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QXM2o_Hb9Ls" target="_blank">VeggieTales - Jericho Slushies </a> <a href="https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Battle_of_Jericho" target="_blank">Battle (Genocide) of Jericho - Wikipedia </a> <a href="https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Institute_in_Basic_Life_Principles" target="_blank">IBLP - Wikipeda </a> <a href="https://www.amazon.com/Shiny-Happy-People-Duggar-Secrets/dp/B0B8TR2QV5" target="_blank">Shiny Happy People: Duggar Family Secrets </a> <a href="https://twitter.com/AWWritesStories/status/1666068007574028288" target="_blank">Alisa Williams' Thread on SDAs & Shiny Happy People</a> <a href="https://www.youtube.com/@Katimorton" target="_blank">Katie Morton - Licensed Therapist, YouTuber </a> <a href="https://hell.bio/mental-health" target="_blank">Religious Trauma-informed Therapists & Other Resources</a>Support for Victims of Abuse:  <a href="https://www.rainn.org/resources" target="_blank">RAINN - National Sexual Assault Hotline </a> <a href="https://www.childhelphotline.org/" target="_blank">Childhelp - National Child Abuse Hotline </a> <a href="https://www.thehotline.org/" target="_blank">The Hotline - National Domestic Violence Hotline</a>Kati Morton Videos:  <a href="https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PL_loxoCVsWqzBWn4D3fRaj0O05BkQ50Uf" target="_blank">Abuse Topic Playlist </a> <a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JAMwyyybA7I" target="_blank">Sexual Abuse: How do we recover & how long does it take? </a> <a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=B-ltH7RIpWU" target="_blank">What is Consent, Assault & Harassment? </a> <a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZRfdR1nJ2-k" target="_blank">What's considered sexual abuse? </a> <a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AWPYJR7p-50" target="_blank">Struggling with childhood sexual abuse? </a> <a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LabfE6BQ7dI" target="_blank">Healing from Sexual Abuse & Incest</a>Full Transcripts, resources and more: <a href="https://hell.bio/notes" target="_blank">hell.bio/notes </a> —  Have a story to share? <a href="https://hell.bio/share-story" target="_blank">Write to us</a>, send a DM or voice message on <a href="https://www.instagram.com/haystacksnhell/" target="_blank">Instagram</a>, or leave a voicemail at (301) 750-8648‬. We take your privacy seriously: <a href="https://hell.bio/privacy" target="_blank">Privacy Policy </a> —  <a href="https://twitter.com/haystacksnhell" target="_blank">Twitter</a> • <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@haystacksnhell" target="_blank">TikTok</a> • <a href="https://www.instagram.com/haystacksnhell/" target="_blank">Instagram</a> • <a href="https://www.youtube.com/@haystacksnhell" target="_blank">YouTube</a> • <a href="https://www.facebook.com/haystacksnhell" target="_blank">Facebook </a> —  Credits: Music: Hall of the Mountain King Kevin MacLeod (incompetech.com) • Licensed under <a href="https://creativecommons.org/licenses/by/3.0/" target="_blank">Creative Commons: By Attribution 3.0 License</a>

Support the Dunk Family • Support the Show — Santiago interviews Charlotte Hayes (Charli), a Gen-Z ex-Adventist. She was adopted from Russia and brought to the U.S. as a baby by an Adventist couple. Growing up, Charli experienced emotional, physical, and sexual abuse at home. The police and Child Protective Services investigated, but nothing happened, so she ran away from home at 18. She now has over 500k people on TikTok who have been following her life story. Charli's Links: TikTok @charli.hayes Instagram @charlihayes_ YouTube @charlihayes_ Resources / Topics Mentioned: VeggieTales - Jericho Slushies Battle (Genocide) of Jericho - Wikipedia IBLP - Wikipeda Shiny Happy People: Duggar Family Secrets Alisa Williams' Thread on SDAs & Shiny Happy PeopleKatie Morton - Licensed Therapist, YouTuber Religious Trauma-informed Therapists & Other Resources Support for Victims of Abuse: RAINN - National Sexual Assault Hotline Childhelp - National Child Abuse Hotline The Hotline - National Domestic Violence Hotline Kati Morton Videos: Abuse Topic Playlist Sexual Abuse: How do we recover & how long does it take? What is Consent, Assault & Harassment? What's considered sexual abuse? Struggling with childhood sexual abuse? Healing from Sexual Abuse & Incest Full Transcripts, resources and more: hell.bio/notes — Have a story to share? Write to us, send a DM or voice message on Instagram, or leave a voicemail at (301) 750-8648‬. We take your privacy seriously: Privacy Policy — Twitter • TikTok • Instagram • YouTube • Facebook — Credits: Music: Hall of the Mountain King Kevin MacLeod (incompetech.com) • Licensed under Creative Commons: By Attribution 3.0 License

<a href="https://hell.bio/dunkfamily" rel="noopener noreferrer">Support the Dunk Family</a> • <a href="https://hell.bio/donate" rel="noopener noreferrer">Support the Show&nbsp;</a> —&nbsp; Santiago interviews Charlotte Hayes (Charli), a Gen-Z ex-Adventist. She was adopted from Russia and brought to the U.S. as a baby by an Adventist couple. Growing up, Charli experienced emotional, physical, and sexual abuse at home. The police and Child Protective Services investigated, but nothing happened, so she ran away from home at 18. She now has over 500k people on TikTok who have been following her life story.Charli's Links:&nbsp; <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@charli.hayes" rel="noopener noreferrer">TikTok @charli.hayes&nbsp;</a> <a href="https://www.instagram.com/charlihayes_/" rel="noopener noreferrer">Instagram @charlihayes_&nbsp;</a> <a href="https://www.youtube.com/@charlihayes_" rel="noopener noreferrer">YouTube @charlihayes_</a>Resources / Topics Mentioned:&nbsp; <a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QXM2o_Hb9Ls" rel="noopener noreferrer">VeggieTales - Jericho Slushies&nbsp;</a> <a href="https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Battle_of_Jericho" rel="noopener noreferrer">Battle (Genocide) of Jericho - Wikipedia&nbsp;</a> <a href="https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Institute_in_Basic_Life_Principles" rel="noopener noreferrer">IBLP - Wikipeda&nbsp;</a> <a href="https://www.amazon.com/Shiny-Happy-People-Duggar-Secrets/dp/B0B8TR2QV5" rel="noopener noreferrer">Shiny Happy People: Duggar Family Secrets&nbsp;</a> <a href="https://twitter.com/AWWritesStories/status/1666068007574028288" rel="noopener noreferrer">Alisa Williams' Thread on SDAs &amp; Shiny Happy People</a> <a href="https://www.youtube.com/@Katimorton" rel="noopener noreferrer">Katie Morton - Licensed Therapist, YouTuber&nbsp;</a> <a href="https://hell.bio/mental-health" rel="noopener noreferrer">Religious Trauma-informed Therapists &amp; Other Resources</a>Support for Victims of Abuse:&nbsp; <a href="https://www.rainn.org/resources" rel="noopener noreferrer">RAINN - National Sexual Assault Hotline&nbsp;</a> <a href="https://www.childhelphotline.org/" rel="noopener noreferrer">Childhelp - National Child Abuse Hotline&nbsp;</a> <a href="https://www.thehotline.org/" rel="noopener noreferrer">The Hotline - National Domestic Violence Hotline</a>Kati Morton Videos:&nbsp; <a href="https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PL_loxoCVsWqzBWn4D3fRaj0O05BkQ50Uf" rel="noopener noreferrer">Abuse Topic Playlist&nbsp;</a> <a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JAMwyyybA7I" rel="noopener noreferrer">Sexual Abuse: How do we recover &amp; how long does it take?&nbsp;</a> <a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=B-ltH7RIpWU" rel="noopener noreferrer">What is Consent, Assault &amp; Harassment?&nbsp;</a> <a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZRfdR1nJ2-k" rel="noopener noreferrer">What's considered sexual abuse?&nbsp;</a> <a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AWPYJR7p-50" rel="noopener noreferrer">Struggling with childhood sexual abuse?&nbsp;</a> <a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LabfE6BQ7dI" rel="noopener noreferrer">Healing from Sexual Abuse &amp; Incest</a>Full Transcripts, resources and more: <a href="https://hell.bio/notes" rel="noopener noreferrer">hell.bio/notes&nbsp;</a> —&nbsp; Have a story to share? <a href="https://hell.bio/share-story" rel="noopener noreferrer">Write to us</a>, send a DM or voice message on <a href="https://www.instagram.com/haystacksnhell/" rel="noopener noreferrer">Instagram</a>, or leave a voicemail at (301) 750-8648‬. We take your privacy seriously: <a href="https://hell.bio/privacy" rel="noopener noreferrer">Privacy Policy&nbsp;</a> —&nbsp; <a href="https://twitter.com/haystacksnhell" rel="noopener noreferrer">Twitter</a> • <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@haystacksnhell" rel="noopener noreferrer">TikTok</a> •&nbsp;<a href="https://www.instagram.com/haystacksnhell/" rel="noopener noreferrer">Instagram</a> •&nbsp;<a href="https://www.youtube.com/@haystacksnhell" rel="noopener noreferrer">YouTube</a> •&nbsp;<a href="https://www.facebook.com/haystacksnhell" rel="noopener noreferrer">Facebook&nbsp;</a> —&nbsp; Credits: Music: Hall of the Mountain King Kevin MacLeod (incompetech.com)&nbsp;• Licensed under <a href="https://creativecommons.org/licenses/by/3.0/" rel="noopener noreferrer">Creative Commons: By Attribution 3.0 License</a>

S2:E6 - Charli: Escaping her Adoptive SDA Parents - Pt. 1

Were you ever part of the Seventh-day Adventist Church or exposed to fundamentalist Christianity in general? If so, have we got a show for you (queue the Veggie Tales theme song)!Haystacks & Hell is an ex-Adventist podcast where we tell stories about growing up Seventh-day Adventist, leaving faith behind, and building new, fulfilling lives.We'll also unpack topics like:<ul><li>The end of the world</li><li>Sex, dating, and purity culture</li><li>Wild quotes from SDA "prophet" Ellen White</li></ul>Have a story to share? <a href="https://hell.bio/share-story" target="_blank">Write to us</a> or leave a voicemail at (301) 750-8648‬. We take your privacy seriously: <a href="https://hell.bio/privacy" target="_blank">Privacy Policy</a>—<a href="https://hell.bio/coffee" target="_blank">Buy us a coffee</a> • <a href="https://hell.bio/patreon" target="_blank">Support us on Patreon</a>—<a href="https://twitter.com/haystacksnhell" target="_blank">Twitter</a> • <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@haystacksnhell" target="_blank">TikTok</a> • <a href="https://www.instagram.com/haystacksnhell/" target="_blank">Instagram</a> • <a href="https://www.youtube.com/@haystacksnhell" target="_blank">YouTube</a> • <a href="https://www.facebook.com/haystacksnhell" target="_blank">Facebook</a>—Credits: Abby and Ami, creators of the <a href="https://hell.bio/sdap" target="_blank">Seventh-day Atheist Podcast</a> • Music: Hall of the Mountain King Kevin MacLeod (incompetech.com) • Licensed under <a href="https://creativecommons.org/licenses/by/3.0/" target="_blank">Creative Commons: By Attribution 3.0 License</a>

Were you ever part of the Seventh-day Adventist Church or exposed to fundamentalist Christianity in general? If so, have we got a show for you (queue the Veggie Tales theme song)! Haystacks & Hell is an ex-Adventist podcast where we tell stories about growing up Seventh-day Adventist, leaving faith behind, and building new, fulfilling lives. We'll also unpack topics like:The end of the worldSex, dating, and purity cultureWild quotes from SDA "prophet" Ellen WhiteHave a story to share? Write to us or leave a voicemail at (301) 750-8648‬. We take your privacy seriously: Privacy Policy — Buy us a coffee • Support us on Patreon — Twitter • TikTok • Instagram • YouTube • Facebook — Credits: Abby and Ami, creators of the Seventh-day Atheist Podcast • Music: Hall of the Mountain King Kevin MacLeod (incompetech.com) • Licensed under Creative Commons: By Attribution 3.0 License

Were you ever part of the Seventh-day Adventist Church or exposed to fundamentalist Christianity in general? If so, have we got a show for you (queue the Veggie Tales theme song)!Haystacks &amp; Hell is an ex-Adventist podcast where we tell stories about growing up Seventh-day Adventist, leaving faith behind, and building new, fulfilling lives.We'll also unpack topics like:<ul><li>The end of the world</li><li>Sex, dating, and purity culture</li><li>Wild quotes from SDA "prophet" Ellen White</li></ul>Have a story to share? <a href="https://hell.bio/share-story" rel="noopener noreferrer">Write to us</a> or leave a voicemail at (301) 750-8648‬. We take your privacy seriously: <a href="https://hell.bio/privacy" rel="noopener noreferrer">Privacy Policy</a>—<a href="https://hell.bio/coffee" rel="noopener noreferrer">Buy us a coffee</a> • <a href="https://hell.bio/patreon" rel="noopener noreferrer">Support us on Patreon</a>—<a href="https://twitter.com/haystacksnhell" rel="noopener noreferrer">Twitter</a> • <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@haystacksnhell" rel="noopener noreferrer">TikTok</a> •&nbsp;<a href="https://www.instagram.com/haystacksnhell/" rel="noopener noreferrer">Instagram</a> •&nbsp;<a href="https://www.youtube.com/@haystacksnhell" rel="noopener noreferrer">YouTube</a> •&nbsp;<a href="https://www.facebook.com/haystacksnhell" rel="noopener noreferrer">Facebook</a>—Credits: Abby and Ami, creators of the <a href="https://hell.bio/sdap" rel="noopener noreferrer">Seventh-day Atheist Podcast</a> • Music: Hall of the Mountain King Kevin MacLeod (incompetech.com)&nbsp;• Licensed under <a href="https://creativecommons.org/licenses/by/3.0/" rel="noopener noreferrer">Creative Commons: By Attribution 3.0 License</a>

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