Episode Description: What do you do when you're struggling in a relationship and almost anything you say, ends up in an argument? Neil explains how the pattern is the same in many different situations, what to do about it, and why it works.

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Episode Description: What do you do when your adopted young adult child can't take care of themselves, you don't want to put them out on the street, and you're out of options? Neil, along with co-host Robin, respond to this mother's dilemma, and discuss how adoption conditions and accurate assessments will impact child development. But all is not lost, as critical next steps are offered up.

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Episode Description: This episode responds to a mom who was hoping for a better school year with her now 15 year old ADHD son. But it's the same old story of getting him to do his work, deciphering excuses, and withdrawing privileges. In this episode, Neil and Co-Host Robin explore the difference between trying to understand what's wrong with a youth or the situation, to trying to understand what might be missing and what to do about it. It's moving from a pathology based model to a wellness model with lots of optimism and ideas for this mom.

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Episode Description: In this episode Neil, along with his co-host Robin, respond to a mother who is confused about whether or not to require her 13 year old daughter and 9 year old son to visit or stay with their father. While it's clear from Mom that neither child feels emotionally safe, supported or even wanted by their father, she has felt compelled to go by the legal order or agreement. The discussion covers when and when not to require kids to go by a schedule and why, too often, women in particular don't trust their own judgment.

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Episode Description: In this episode Neil, along with his co-host Robin, responds to a therapist looking for ways to deal with dads who expect their kids to do what they're told -- and become angry when they don't get the response they expect. Neil shares his best strategies.

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Episode Description: In this episode Neil, along with his co-host Robin, respond to a woman concerned about her living situation with her partner and his young adult daughter. The daughter is not working or going to school, and has chased away other girlfriends of her father. Neil and Robin discuss the phenomenon of pathological enmeshment: what it is, where it comes from, and what to do about it.

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Episode Description: In this episode Neil, along with his co-host Robin, responds to a Mom whose 17 year old son doesn't want to talk to her, and wants to move out as soon as he turns 18. This podcast explores the cultural elements of parenting as well as ways to interpret the expressions of teenagers and the opportunities for personal growth and healing as we grow our parenting skills.

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Episode Description: In this episode Neil, along with his co-host Robin, responds to a therapist looking for guidance about when to send or not send a depressed or anxious teenager to school. Neil clarifies the roles of parents, doctors, therapists, school personnel, and most importantly, an empowered role for the youth. Neil adds that the skills in Motivational Interviewing and CBT can be powerful tools for parents.

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Episode Description: In this episode Neil, along with his co-host Robin, discuss a New York Times article by Matt Richtel. It's titled 10 Psychiatric Drugs While in High School, And She Was Far From Alone. The discussion looks at the medicalization of emotional issues and mental health, and explores ways to create a mentally healthier society for our youth.

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Episode Description: In this episode Neil, along with his co-host Robin, respond to questions from a mom concerned that her efforts to offer advice to her adult children has led to hurt feelings and misunderstandings. Mother is Indian and reports that advice giving from elders is expected. Neil and Robin offer a new way for this mom to think about her adult children's emotional needs and open up the discussion of cultural transformation.

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