Male pleasure is a great experience of a man’s life, but it comes with many physical and emotional challenges. Cam Fraser, a men's sex coach, delves into the main man myths, intrigue, and advice for exploring men's body parts. If you want to learn about having healthy male pleasure, or just want sex to last longer, this episode is for you. Both men and women play important roles in keeping the society away from pointless criticisms. Cam, a men sex coach, shares his thoughts on the prevailing stereotyping and shaming on males. Most people are still stuck with the perception that a man will always say yes to sex or that every man watches porn offhandedly. These shallow viewpoints create a barrier to the full disclosure of numerous facts such as educational porn, men having sexuality concerns as well, different kinds of erection, high and low sex drives, and many more. Sadly though, men aren't given that much space for the mere acceptance of who they really are. Truth is there's more to being a man as there is to being a woman. Both men and women share a commonality but that doesn't mean we're all the same. That's a mindset all of us need to work on.
Men are hypersexual and always say yes to sex.
If a guy has an erection it means he is aroused.
Ejaculation equals orgasm.
Men have to be dominant, assertive, and aggressive.Step by step work exploring the parts of your body:
Normalizing
Male pleasure/Masturbation
Prostate play or prostate stimulationGolden Nuggets From This Episode:
✨ “We can have an ejaculation without an orgasm and we can also have an orgasm without ejaculation.”
✨ “You're your best lover.”
✨ “Not all porn is bad. Not all porn is good.”
✨ “Recognize your own boundaries.”
✨ “Learn how to communicate. Learn how to ask your partner if they're ready to be touched.”
✨ “If you want to last longer, simply try to engage your parasympathetic nervous system as much as possible by slowing your breath down, relaxing your body, and slowing your heart rate.”
✨ “The ejaculation doesn't have to be the pinnacle of the peak of your experience of pleasure.”
✨ “Ejaculatory orgasm is different from prostate orgasm.”
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11:13 How did he allow men to start stepping into who they truly are and exploring other parts of themselves
15:13 Talking about body shaming for men
18:30 Cam’s thoughts on porn
23:03 Where to find healthy porn resources
25:33 Cam’s advice for people having problematic porn viewing
26:58 How he encourages men to use consent with sex
34:19 How does he help men that have had sexual trauma
36:20 Cam talked about coffee and erectile dysfunction
45:04 He explained what is a prostate orgasm
49:09 His recommendation on exploring yourself first
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