Betches Moms

Here's What Your Kid's Actions Really Mean Ft. Dr. Becky


Listen Later

Aleen and Brittany are re-joined by one of their favorite guests, clinical psychologist, author, and CEO of Good Inside, Dr. Becky Kennedy. Dr. Becky starts by outlining the 10 principle problem behaviors in children from her book. She suggests that the way we interact with our kids is the way they interact with themselves - behavior is just a window into a child. Aleen wonders if ‘bad’ behavior is inevitable, but Dr.Becky explains that it’s more about kids' temperament in relation to the environment. On the flip side, Brittany wonders how to praise ‘good’ behavior. Dr. Becky explains that their achievement isn’t their identity and neither is their ‘bad’ behavior. Ultimately, kids develop the identity their parents reflect back to them: you want to separate their identity on the inside from their actions. The Good Inside approach isn’t soft —there’s a lot between sending your kid to their room and ‘feel your feelings.’

Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

...more
View all episodesView all episodes
Download on the App Store

Betches MomsBy Betches Media

  • 4.5
  • 4.5
  • 4.5
  • 4.5
  • 4.5

4.5

413 ratings


More shows like Betches Moms

View all
The JTrain Podcast by Jared Freid

The JTrain Podcast

4,741 Listeners

@Betches by Betches Media

@Betches

2,630 Listeners

The Betchelor by Betches Media

The Betchelor

5,258 Listeners

U Up? by Betches Media

U Up?

14,491 Listeners

Girls Gotta Eat by Dear Media

Girls Gotta Eat

29,126 Listeners

Good Bodies by Betches Media

Good Bodies

3,970 Listeners

Money Please by Betches Media

Money Please

395 Listeners

Not Another True Crime Podcast by Betches Media

Not Another True Crime Podcast

2,403 Listeners

American Fever Dream by Betches Media

American Fever Dream

2,118 Listeners

Not Skinny But Not Fat by Dear Media, Amanda Hirsch

Not Skinny But Not Fat

6,166 Listeners

Conversations with Cam by Cameron Oaks Rogers

Conversations with Cam

1,577 Listeners

Betches Brides by Betches Media

Betches Brides

1,828 Listeners

Momwell by Erica Djossa

Momwell

298 Listeners

Mention It All by Betches Media

Mention It All

1,435 Listeners

The Mom Room by Renee Reina & Podcast Nation

The Mom Room

575 Listeners

Giggly Squad by Hannah Berner & Paige DeSorbo

Giggly Squad

15,077 Listeners

Pop Alarm by Betches Media

Pop Alarm

290 Listeners

Bottle Service by Sarah Merrill Hall

Bottle Service

518 Listeners

Oversharing by Betches Media

Oversharing

1,868 Listeners

ParentData with Emily Oster by ParentData

ParentData with Emily Oster

274 Listeners

Crown Jewels by Betches Media

Crown Jewels

296 Listeners

Call Waiting by Betches Media

Call Waiting

486 Listeners

Childproof by Gwenna Laithland and Tori Phantom

Childproof

1,848 Listeners

Ask Men Anything by Betches Media

Ask Men Anything

320 Listeners

Pop Crime by Betches Media

Pop Crime

300 Listeners

Honey We're Home by Caroline Crawford Patterson

Honey We're Home

375 Listeners

The Real Stuff with Lucie Fink by Dear Media

The Real Stuff with Lucie Fink

269 Listeners