Herizon

Episode 15 - On this episode I tell you why the best thing you can do when coming out of survival is to surrender to your faith, healing and femininity. Let God take care of it and put your faith in his path forward for you. That is how you stay yourself after all the hardships you've been through! And remember, you have a lot to offer so don't sell yourself short.

Enjoy 🧡

Time Stamps:

00:00 Coming out of survival

06:00 Life immediately AFTER my relationship

10:00 Letting God take care of the rest

13:00 Staying who you are

16:00 Surrendering to your softness

21:00 Healing parts of myself I didn’t know

25:00 You have a lot to offer

Episode 14 - On this episode we have on Ashley from Todo En Vida Podcast! Special thanks to her for coming on. We began this episode going over what it's like going through your 20's in survival mode. We also open up about what went wrong in our marriages and the part we played in it not working out. Ashley then tells us why "Happy Wife Happy Life" isn't something people should aspire to in their relationships. She's also been reading a book that gave her a really insightful look at how differently men and women problem solve. This may not be a podcast on religion but we remind ourselves and our listeners that we should be leading our life with faith. And finally, appreciate the little things in life because before you know it they're gone 🧡!

I hope you enjoyed this episode 🤞🏼 Please go follow Ashley on instagram and TikTok @selfcarebyash.llc & @todonevidapod

TIME STAMPS:

00:00 Survival Mode 20’s

03:00 Surface level femininity

10:00 The complexities of married life

14:00 You are playing a part in your own suffering

21:00 Happy Wife Happy Life

24:00 How men problem solve

26:00 Lead with faith

36:00 Appreciate what you’re receiving

42:00 Learning from each situation

EPISODE 13 - On today's episode I tell you why women stay in relationships they should've left months/years before they ACTUALLY did. Also, why are we giving 2nd 3rd 4th and 5th chances to boyfriends/husbands that CLEARLY won't change. Then, is it true women check out mentally from a failing relationship before they leave physically? All this and more on episode 13 of Herizon Podcast!

Enjoy 🧡

Time Stamps:

00:00 Why women stay for so long

05:00 2nd Chances

12:00 You’re getting too comfortable

16:00 Actions speaks louder than words

20:00 Closure is something that is internal

24:00 A message to the youth

28:00 Checking out before it’s over

33:00 Choose your problems

EPISODE 12 - On today's episode I am talking to you guys about the difficulties that come with coparenting and some advice that may help other coparents get through it. As I go through it personally, I have learned a lot about how to navigate what is normally a complicated dynamic.

TLDR: Here's some coparenting thoughts and advice 🧡

I hope you enjoy the episode 🤞🏼

Time Stamps:

00:00 Learning to coparent with someone difficult

03:00 Learning to show up in spite of the other parent

05:00 Using Your Children as Leverage

11:00 Healthy Coparenting Communication

17:00 Bashing Your Coparent

24:00 Inconsistent parenting

27:00 Don’t communicate if you don’t need to

Episode 11- On this episode I tell you my BIGGEST problem with the Beauty Industry. And why you don't need a license when you're first starting out. We get into how me being fired led me to become a Lash Artist! Then why going to Esthetician school for my license taught me NOTHING. Finally, what it's been like to be in the Beauty industry as a woman.

Hope you enjoy this episode 🧡

Time Stamps:

00:00 How I got into the Beauty Industry and lashing

04:00 I knew I wanted to work for myself & my worst interview ever

06:00 Wrongful Termination led me to start my own business

13:00 Shoutout to my clients

16:00 I started without a License

18:30 Esthetician school is not NEEDED for your artistry

21:30 Bashing in the Beauty Industry needs to be stopped

24:00 Teaching other Lash Artists

29:30 Why are we hating on other women in our own industry?

38:00 Embrace your wins in the moment

Episode 10- On this episode I have a story time for you guys! What my life was like growing up as a first generation Mexican American, as the oldest of 4 kids to a single mother. Not to mention the challenges we face if we have childhood trauma to heal. And yes, I've been reading some of your comments and I have something to say about 1 VS 2 Parent Households.

Thank you for watching 🧡

Time Stamps:

00:00 Intro

01:00 Growing up First Generation Mexican American

06:00 Growing up the Oldest of 4 to a Single Mom

13:00 Childhood Trauma is REAL

19:00 1 Parent Household VS 2 Parent Household

24:00 Nurturing your children

Episode 9 - On this episode of the Herizon Podcast I talk about life after love. You've decided to end your relationship with someone you were in love with, what now? It's time to adjust to your new norm and pour into yourself. Tune in to find out what those adjustments are and what to look out for during this transition.

I hope you enjoy this episode 🧡 Please LIKE, COMMENT & SUBSCRIBE if you liked this video 🫶🏼

Time Stamps:

00:00 Intro

02:00 What is love?

6:40 The adjustment phase

15:00 When to start dating again

18:40 Being alone can be wonderful

24:00 Horrible first date after re entering the dating world for the first time

33:00 Pouring into yourself

36:00 You need a community

39:20 Abuse comes in many forms

41:00 Glowing after a breakup

Episode 8 - Last episode of 2024 🎉 Can't wait to bring in the new year! On this episode we cover lover girls, dating with intention and the casual dater. We discuss how matching energy can potentially be dangerous. And finally, we break down bread crumbing, gaslighting and love bombing.

We hope you enjoy 🧡

Time Stamps:

00:00 The World of Dating

05:00 Honesty regardless of its repercussions

11:00 Lover Girls

20:00 Gaslighting, bread crumbing and love bombing

32:00 Matching Energy

45:00 Dating with intention

EPISODE 7 - On this episode we go over the potential difficulty we may encounter during the holiday season and how to get through it so we can make it to the new year! The holidays can be a complicated time and it's normal for you to be going through a wide range of emotions. You're not the only one. It's completely normal, we assure you. Family gatherings and the dynamics of such events are overwhelming. Go where you feel comfortable. Do what you're comfortable doing. Enjoy what you can. You'll get through this!

We hope you enjoyed this episode 🧡

00:00 The good, the bad and the ugly

07:00 Family gatherings are complex

12:00 What are the Holidays about to you

17:00 Nostalgic feelings

21:00 Single around the holidays

24:00 Self Care during the holidays

28:00 Leaving behind materialism

30:00 Dealing with separation during the holidays

37:00 Supporting your kids through a separation

48:00 Happy and Peaceful

54:00 Triggers during the holidays

Episode 6 - On this episode we discuss discovering your self worth in both friendships and relationships and sticking to your standards. Therefore not putting up with actions that you determine to be unacceptable. We all have a long road ahead so enjoy the journey. Enjoy the ups and down. Don't settle for less though. In the end, it will come back t bite you. Finally, external validation is normal but the most important validation comes from yourself. Love yourself through the good and the bad, you deserve that.

We hope you enjoy this special episode 🧡

Time Stamps:

00:00 INTRO

03:50 UNDERSTANDING YOUR VALUE

12:00 STOP BENDING YOUR OWN BOUNDARIES

21:00 ENJOY THE JOURNEY

32:00 THE VICTIM MINDSET

40:00 DON’T SETTLE FOR LESS

46:00 EXTERNAL VALIDATION