How should you initiate texting and what do women actually want to hear when you’re talking dirty over text? Plus, are voice memos just as hot as texts and pics? In this ep we also discuss:

Using emojis during sexting, including when you want to send reactions

What’s your “signature” emoji and what does it mean to you?

We rank the best and worst words to text a woman to describe her body parts

Whether or not someone can please you as well as you please yourself

The ultimate test of feelings: finger blasting 

Talia is in her “Fallia” era as the seasons change

A preview of our Halloween costume plans

picky & selfish is created and hosted by Talia Lichtstein and Sean Kilby.

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