Finding Fertility

How Radical Honesty Can Transform Your Mindset & Fertility Journey with Rebecca Rankin Part 2


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"If you're still feeling stuck, if you're still feeling there's something more, it's because you're not going inward enough."

Topics Discussed
  • How hormonal shifts impact motivation, mindset, and fertility
  • The importance of radical honesty in personal transformation
  • Why slowing down is essential for healing and self-awareness
  • The false sense of security in doing "all the things" vs. actually going inward
  • How subconscious patterns and generational imprints affect health and fertility
  • Breaking free from the belief that healing must be instant or dramatic
  • The underestimated power of sitting with discomfort and listening to intuition
  • Menstrual cycles as a roadmap to self-awareness and hormonal balance
  • How society conditions women to override their natural rhythms
  • The importance of practitioners as mirrors for inner work rather than fixers
  • Menopause as a transition into personal power rather than a decline
  • The silent crisis of men’s sperm health and why fertility is an overall health marker
  • How epigenetics play a role in generational health challenges
  • The importance of creating daily habits that support long-term well-being
  • "The answer is within, the answer is always within."

    Hello, beautiful—the voice of Monica is here to shake up your fertility mindset once again. If you’re still on the never-ending hamster wheel of “doing all the things” but still feel like you’re getting nowhere, buckle up because today’s episode is your reality check. We’re talking about something that might make your Type A tendencies twitch—slowing down. Yep, the thing that feels impossible but is actually the secret sauce to unlocking your fertility and overall well-being.

    Rebecca Rankin is back, and we’re diving deep into why ignoring your body’s signals, overriding your natural rhythms, and stuffing your schedule with all the “fertility must-dos” is actually working against you. We’re talking about real radical honesty—the kind that makes you question your midnight Googling sessions and your obsession with finding the next best supplement. Spoiler alert: the answer isn’t out there. It’s in you. Always has been.

    We also get into the not-so-sexy but oh-so-important truth about consistency, how your hormones affect EVERYTHING (yes, even that sudden urge to question your entire existence while doing the dishes), and why menopause might actually be your power era instead of something to dread. Plus, we tackle the biggest lie in the fertility world: the idea that once you “fix” your health, life will be smooth sailing forever. Newsflash—it’s a lifelong journey, but one you actually have control over.

    So, if you’re ready to ditch the frantic energy and actually start aligning with your body’s wisdom, this episode is for you. Let’s go.

    "Slowing down enough to listen to yourself is the most radical act of self-care you can do."

    Timestamps

    00:37 – The power of radical responsibility and self-trust in fertility

    01:17 – Why the inner work feels “slow” but is actually the fastest way to transformation
    02:32 – The hard truth about healing: Why modalities don’t work if you avoid the real work
    03:53 – How past traumas and subconscious programming affect your nervous system
    04:51 – The lost art of slowing down: Why we ignore our intuition
    06:19 – Practitioners as mirrors, not saviors—how to know when to trust yourself
    07:48 – Are you living on autopilot? Why you need to take back control
    09:14 – The silent work your body does for you—hormones, gut health & energy
    10:36 – Consistency over perfection: The secret to long-term healing
    11:34 – The domino effect of small daily changes on your health & mindset
    13:30 – How society has conditioned women to ignore their own needs
    16:21 – The rising infertility crisis: What sperm health tells us about modern health
    17:19 – Why birth control masks issues instead of fixing them
    19:42 – Menopause: The era of not giving a f*** and stepping into your power
    21:30 – The body’s signals don’t lie: How to listen and respond to your own needs
    22:56 – Can you sit with yourself? Why true transformation happens in stillness
    23:50 – The radical idea of just being with yourself—no distractions, no numbing
    24:47 – Final thoughts: The one small action you can take today to shift your energy

    "You don’t have to be perfect, but you do have to show up for yourself every single day."

    Connect with Rebecca Rankin:

    • Free Cyclical Living Journal - https://www.rebeccarankinyoga.com/journalprompts
    • 1 Month FREE Trial of The Women's Moon Wisdom Self Care App - https://womensmoonwisdom.mvt.so/
      • Use code: findingfertility to receive 1st month free
      • Website: https://www.womensmoonwisdom.com
      • Connect on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/womensmoonwisdom
      • Full Transcript on the Blog: https://www.findingfertility.co/blog/how-radical-honesty-can-transform-your-mindset-fertility-journey-with-rebecca-rankin-part-2

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        Anything written or said about health and diet are my opinions, that I have formed over the years, through trial and error, study, reading, listening and observing. What worked for me, may not work for you. I am not a doctor, nutritionist or dietician and all medical advice should be gotten from a qualified professional. Product recommendations are based on what I used during my infertility journey or wish I had.
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