How She Really Does It

To stop settling for "as good as it gets," you have to notice the gap between what you have and what you want. And you have to take small, courageous steps to close that gap and make your dream a reality.

Listen in to this episode as I talk about how I stopped settling for "good enough" and have helped clients do the same. I'll share some tips for being a compassionate observer of your desires and I'll give you some suggestions for having courageous conversations to close the gaps in your life.

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It's much easier to believe in yourself when things are going well. But you have to believe in your ability to change even when things are difficult.

This episode is all about how and why you should believe that change is possible for you. I'll break down the step-by-step process for believing that you are capable of change and how to be kind with yourself along the way.

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Success is built on a pile of failures. You've got to fail - a lot - and keep learning, growing, and challenging yourself if you really want to feel successful. This can apply to any part of your life, including work, home, and money.

Failure is an integral part of success, and it makes the moment you achieve your goal even sweeter. But you have to learn how to fail with curiosity and a growth mindset, rather than beat yourself up about it.

For this episode, I'm talking all about success, how to define it for yourself, and how to shut out all the noise about what you "should" do if you want to be "successful".

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Being a people pleaser or an approval whore means we are selling ourselves out in order to gain someone else's approval. We act in a way that's not in alignment with who we are or who we want to be.

I talk about the eight steps you can take to stop approval whoring (or approval whore recovery, as I like to call it). The keys to this process include accepting the fact that you're selling yourself out to gain approval, not judging yourself for this behavior, and slowing down the process of seeking acceptance when you feel shame.

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Choosing your words carefully allows you to take back control over how you define your emotions + beliefs. Instead of being dictated by negative language, consciously using positive words to describe yourself + your boundaries can help you reframe difficult situations.

Today, I share how my clients and I have worked on using more empowering language to reframe issues that range from work conflicts, familial boundaries, and self-perception.

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You don't have to be perfect to be an adult. Realizing that you will mess up + move on is part of adulting.

Tune in to this week's episode as I talk about all things adulting and share my tips about what it means to take care of yourself + lead your life in the direction you want to go.

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In order to build authentic friendships and relationships, we first have to build a deep, committed, authentic connection with ourselves.

In this episode, I'm talking about the ups and downs of coming to accept yourself as you are. It takes courage to do this, but the rewards of stripping away the perfectionist armor that keeps us weighed down are huge.

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On this episode, I'm talking about two types of focus - soft focus and hard focus - and what they look + feel like.

Soft focus feels like flow, play, and learning. Hard focus feels like forcing it, gritting your teeth, and telling yourself you HAVE to get this thing done - or you're a failure.

Listen in to this episode as I describe my own experience with soft and hard focus and how I'm learning to apply this lens across my life.

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This episode is all about why you should say YES when there's an opportunity for a courageous conversation in your life, whether it's personal or professional. These conversations are a chance for you to practice showing up as your best self in tough times.

The path to success isn't a straight line - it's a messy, vulnerable, and sometimes frightening process, and you'll have to have courageous conversations on the way.

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In this episode, I dive deep into the connection between enoughness, being yourself, and using your values to guide your life.

Your badass self is already inside of you. And you can bring the badass out by working through shame, leaning into the areas of your life where you feel most rooted, and by making time to connect and recharge with loved ones and activities.

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