If you’re ready for a massive identity shift, this episode is for you.

Because you don’t become your future self by “trying harder”, you become her by deciding who she is, then moving like her until your life catches up.

In this episode, I’m teaching you the method that changed my identity, changed my life, and created “The Queen of Confidence” version of me.
It’s called the Alter-SHE-go Method.

The practice that helped me go from a shy, traumatised, playing-small version of me, to building the Queen identity and everything that came with it.

We talk about:

• Why identity comes before results, every time

• The biggest trap people fall into, “when I have it, then I’ll be it”

• The real shift, Be, Do, Have

• Why this is not fake, and what to do if you feel cringe trying it

• The science behind it, enclothed cognition, and why what you wear changes how you perform

• How I used Alter Shigo energy to do scary things, including stepping onto big stages

• The questions to build your future self, her values, standards, boundaries, style, beliefs, and energy

• The real challenge, taking action as her, not just journaling about her

This is your reminder that the future version of you is not coming to save you, she’s waiting for you to meet her.

Mentioned in this episode

Watch Beyoncé talking about Sasha Fierce (Alter Ego energy):
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BtTlFW9_sTI

Chapters

• 00:00:00 Welcome to the Alter Shego Experience
• 00:00:30 The Origin Story
• 00:01:45 Main Character Energy and Becoming Magnetic Preview
• 00:02:59 The Confession: From Hot Mess to Queen of Confidence
• 00:06:36 Why Confidence Matters
• 00:08:39 The Five Steps to Becoming Magnetic Framework
• 00:09:24 Beyoncé and Sasha Fierce: The Alter Shego Method
• 00:10:18 Flipping the Script
• 00:13:42 Forget Fake It Till You Make It: Just Make It
• 00:16:25 The TEDx Story: Alter Shego in Action
• 00:20:00 The Science Behind Dressing the Part
• 00:21:16 Let's Create YOUR Alter Shego
• 00:24:20 Don't Confuse Your Future Self With Your Present Self
• 00:26:09 The Challenge: Share and Embody Your Alter Shego
• 00:28:49 The Final Question

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