Wannabe Clutter Free | Declutter, Organize, Calm the Chaos

How to Declutter Together Without Losing Your Cool (or Your Partner) with Colette Roy (Ep 261)


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Deanna chats with Colette Roy about the emotional and practical challenges of organizing with your partner. They dive into how clutter affects relationships, why communication is key, and how to tackle big home projects together (like the garage) without the arguments.

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Resources Mentioned

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  • ⁠⁠Get my children's book: Lenora and Her Super Duper Messy Room⁠⁠
  • ⁠⁠⁠Get all the links and resources at wannabeclutterfree.com/261⁠
  • Connect with Colette Roy

    • ⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠
    • ⁠⁠⁠Colette’s Book⁠⁠⁠: Clutter and Couples
    • Organize Your Garage without Killing Your Partner ⁠⁠⁠⁠

      Follow Deanna Yates, the host of Wannabe Clutter Free on:

      • ⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠
      • ⁠⁠⁠Facebook⁠⁠⁠
      • ⁠⁠⁠Website⁠⁠⁠
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        Tired of fighting every time you try to tackle a home project with your partner?

        In this episode of the Wannabe Clutter Free podcast, host Deanna Yates sits down with professional organizer Colette Roy to talk about how to declutter shared spaces without losing your cool—or your relationship.

        Whether you’re tackling the garage, the basement, or just trying to agree on what to toss, Colette brings real talk and practical strategies for making home organization a team effort (without the tension). Drawing from her course How to Organize Your Garage Without Killing Your Partner, Colette shares why organizing together is so tricky, how emotional clutter plays into the chaos, and how better communication can lead to smoother projects and stronger connections.

        You’ll walk away with smart, relationship-friendly tips to finally get that garage in shape—without turning it into a battleground.

        In this episode, you’ll learn:

        • Why clutter can create hidden emotional tension between partners
        • How to navigate different communication styles during organizing projects
        • Tips to set healthy boundaries and share the load fairly
        • The power of understanding your partner’s perspective when decluttering
        • How to transform your garage into a peaceful, functional space—together
        • Time Stamps:

          00:00 – Intro + what to expect in this episode

          02:53 – Meet Colette Roy & her clutter-with-compassion approach

          03:55 – Smart strategies for getting started on home projects

          07:11 – Why clutter causes friction in relationships

          13:12 – What makes organizing with your partner so hard

          17:03 – How to design a garage that actually works

          22:01 – Key communication tips for couples

          27:00 – Why home projects spark arguments

          28:36 – Behind the scenes of Colette’s course

          32:46 – Practical communication tools you can use today

          40:40 – Understanding needs: yours and your partner’s

          43:11 – Why having personal space matters

          47:11 – Rapid fire wrap-up + final thoughts

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          Music: Fresh Lift by Shane Ivers - ⁠⁠⁠https://www.silvermansound.com⁠⁠⁠

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