How to Have Multiple Orgasms – Part 1

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Can People with Penises Have Multiple Orgasms?

Yes they can, and not just in the tantric, spiritual, unicorn-riding-on-a-rainbow kind of way. We’re talking real, repeatable orgasms, some with ejaculation, some without. And it turns out, this isn’t a magic trick reserved for adult film stars. It’s something you can explore through breath, body awareness, and some surprisingly practical techniques.

In this podcast episode, Brandon shares his experience of discovering dry orgasms (orgasmic sensations without ejaculation) through edging and mindfulness. While many assume orgasm and ejaculation are one and the same, I break down the physiological differences - two sets of contractions, the infamous PEI (point of ejaculatory inevitability), and how breath and pelvic floor control can help separate the two.

If you’re curious about having multiple orgasms, you don’t need to fit into a specific gender, identity or body type. These insights are inclusive, adaptable, and rooted in pleasure—not performance.

Multiple Orgasms: Tools, Toys & Techniques

Edging

A wonderful way to learn control, as highlighted and discussed by Brandon in this episode, is to stop movement right before you hit the “point of no return.” This pause allows the orgasmic contractions to roll in without ejaculation, leaving you able to keep going.

Breathwork & Awareness

Deep breathing helped him stay present and avoid finishing. Being able to notice the build-up, not just react to it, which is key.

Pelvic Floor Play

People with penises have a pelvic floor too, and tuning into those muscles can transform orgasm. Try flexing just before orgasm or even experimenting with short, intentional pulses. A pelvic floor physiotherapist can be a great resource.

Prostate & Perineal Stimulation

Want to spice things up (with or without an erection)? Explore the prostate with fingers or a toy like the We-Vibe Vector, it’s a perineum-and-prostate dual massager that supports hands-free exploration.

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You can also try firm pressure to the perineum (the gooch!) using your fingers or a toy like the We-Vibe Pivot, a vibrating ring that’s great for external stimulation and prolonging arousal.

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Pleasure for Both: Vibrations stimulate the wearer and partner.

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