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How To Relate episodes

  • How to Understand and Heal Trauma with Dr. Amie Sharrits
    Understanding Trauma: Insights from Psychiatry
    In this episode of the How to Relate podcast, Brittani sits down with Dr. Amie Sharrits. Amie is a psychiatrist specializing in trauma and alternative modalities to heal trauma. In this episode we discuss the complexities of trauma, psychodynamics, and psychoanalysis. We'll delve into the differences between psychodynamic and psychoanalytic approaches, talk about the role of the unconscious mind, and discuss practical steps for managing trauma in oneself and in relationships. The conversation also covers gentle support techniques, the importance of setting goals, and how to address triggers in a healthy way. Whether you're a professional or someone dealing with trauma, this episode offers valuable insights and practical advice.
     
    00:00 Introduction and Guest Welcome
    00:26 The Tomato Story: A Friendship Begins
    01:04 Diving into Trauma Work
    02:27 Understanding Psychodynamics and Psychoanalysis
    05:37 Exploring Therapy Modalities
    07:40 Inner Child Work and PTSD
    09:22 Navigating Trauma and Healing
    10:40 The Therapeutic Process and Safety
    14:12 Brain Functions and Trauma Response
    21:41 Supporting Partners in Trauma Work
    25:01 The Concept of Being Triggered
    29:38 Final Thoughts and Reflections
    38 min
  • Unlocking Attachment: Building Secure Relationships
    In this episode of the How to Relate Podcast, the focus is on attachment theory and the various attachment styles, exploring how they affect our romantic relationships. You'll have a general overview of attachment theory, discuss the four types of attachment styles—secure, anxious, dismissive-avoidant, and disorganized. You'll understand how these styles originate from childhood experiences and manifest in adult relationships. The episode also offers actionable insights to understand your own attachment strategies and move towards more secure and fulfilling relational dynamics.
    00:00 Introduction to Attachment Theory
    01:00 Origins of Attachment Strategies
    01:49 Exploring the Four Attachment Styles
    05:35 Common Misconceptions and Communication Issues
    06:10 Societal Influences on Attachment
    08:17 Calibrating Relational Dynamics
    11:54 Self-Reflection and Emotional Availability
    15:02 Conclusion and Final Thoughts
    16 min
  • How to Let Go of Perfectionism with Andrea Beardsley-Glover
    In this episode of the 'How to Relate' podcast, Brittani talks with long-time friend and therapist Andrea. In his episode, we'll dive deep into understanding perfectionism, the importance of boundaries, and the challenges brought about by societal norms and social media. You'll also learn healthy ways to set New Year's goals, the therapeutic benefits of journaling, and how to foster supportive, emotionally intelligent relationships. Tune in for practical insights into achieving mental wellness, especially for perfectionists and those struggling with obsessive behaviors.
     
    00:00 Welcome to the How to Relate Podcast
    00:12 Meeting Andrea: A Journey from 2017
    01:10 Navigating Changes and Challenges
    01:26 Impact of COVID on Mental Health and Habits
    03:05 Helping Clients with Food and Exercise Boundaries
    07:08 Understanding Perfectionism and Its Effects
    23:23 New Year's Resolutions: Realistic and Sustainable Changes
    30:11 The Importance of Mental Health in Achieving Goals
    35:37 Starting the Journey to Better Mental Health
    36:23 Managing Anxiety and Depression Holistically
    37:02 The Role of Exercise in Mental Health
    39:22 Accepting and Addressing Mental Health Issues
    43:29 The Power of Journaling
    45:12 Avoiding Perfectionism in Mental Health Practices
    52:37 Navigating Relationships and Mental Health
    58:31 Setting Personal Goals and Boundaries
    01:05:44 The Importance of Therapy and Self-Reflection
    01:07:17 Looking Forward to a New Year
    1 hr 10 min

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Many people try to answer what makes relationships work. This podcast aims to answer how do we work relationships? I’m Brittani Procknow, a relationship therapist working with individuals and couples…