Finding Fertility

How to Stop Outsourcing Your Power and Reclaim Your Fertility Now with Abigail White


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Topics Discussed:

  • Spirit babies and soul contracts in fertility journeys

  • Outsourcing vs embodying personal empowerment

  • Desperation, intuition, and fertility choices

  • Radical honesty in healing and coaching

  • Inflammation, nervous system health, and IVF readiness

  • Why joy and self-worth are essential for conception
  • If you’re looking for a yes person, I’m not her—and that’s exactly why my clients heal.

    Hello, Beautiful! Monica here, and today, Abigail and I are diving straight into the messy, magical, and often misunderstood world of spirit babies, soul contracts, and the radical honesty required on your fertility journey. This isn’t a fluffy conversation about dates and genders—this is about the deeper layers of healing, the work that either sets you free or keeps you stuck in a desperate cycle of searching for answers outside yourself.

    I share real client stories that will make you rethink what “empowerment” actually looks like, from the woman who rewrote her soul contract and turned her health around, to the one who slipped into outsourcing her power and missed the point of her own growth. Abigail and I peel back the curtain on why people crave black-and-white answers, when the truth is found in the gray—in your daily choices, your willingness to do the work, and your courage to face radical honesty.

    At the end of the day, fertility isn’t just about getting pregnant. It’s about reclaiming your joy, dismantling old narratives, and refusing to let desperation dictate your path. If you’ve ever asked for a quick fix or begged for someone to give you the “right answer,” this episode is your reminder: the only magic lies in showing up for yourself. Press play and let’s get real.

    The worst thing isn’t not becoming a mom—it’s losing yourself while trying.

    Timestamps:

    • 01:49 Spirit babies, soul contracts, and stories about when spirit baby readings do more harm than good. 
    • 06:40 The IVF desperation and the real reason clients get stuck after intuitive readings. 
    • 12:00 We explain why you’ll never get a sugar-coated yes from us or the answers you want to hear.
    • 18:00 Why lack of joy is a major fertility block, plus learning how to show up authentically in your fertility journey. 
    • 23:10 Understanding that the ultimate goal of this fertility journey is to show up for yourself with or without kids.
    • 30:17 What no one tells you about soul contracts and spirit babies' choices. 
    • 32:05 How to use readings for empowerment and without losing your own intuition. 
    • Stop outsourcing your empowerment—you are the only one who can do the work.

      Full Transcript Over on the Blog: https://www.findingfertility.co/blog/how-to-stop-outsourcing-your-power-and-reclaim-your-fertility-now 

      Connect with Abigail:

      • Website: https://www.breathoflifellc.com/   
      • Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/breathoflife_healer/
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        Monica

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        Anything written or said about health and diet are my opinions, that I have formed over the years, through trial and error, study, reading, listening and observing. What worked for me, may not work for you. I am not a doctor, nutritionist or dietician and all medical advice should be gotten from a qualified professional. Product recommendations are based on what I used during my infertility journey or wish I had.

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