Treasure, love, reward, approval, honor, status, freedom, survival … these are some of the many things we associate with the hero’s journey.

In the movies and fairy tales the hero’s journey is about slaying the dragon or saving the princess—these are colorful metaphors and symbols for a more significant purpose. In the real world what is actually happening is that we are battling inner and outer demons, confronting bullies, and courting your ultimate mate. These battles symbolize a passage through the often-treacherous tunnel of self-discovery and individuation to mature adulthood.

At the end of each journey (if there is such an end), you’re different—sometimes visually, but always internally.

Today, let’s explore the meaning of the hero’s journey and see how it applies to psychological development and our ability to actualize more of our potential.